Hello! I am a 21 year old girl. I have a serious friend of 8 months. Everything between us is wonderful - both romantically and intimately. He is 6 years older than me. So ... yesterday we wrote to each other around 18:00 and suddenly at 19:00 he sent me a heart and there .. He went off the line on Facebook and did not write to me until 1:00. I assumed he had gone to bed because he worked at a disco and hadn't slept all night. I decided to go to bed without calling him so as not to wake him. But I wake up in the morning and see that a friend sent me pictures of him with some other girl walking at 22:00 (she notices them by accident, because she was sitting in the restaurant to which they passed). I was very angry and immediately went to them. I asked him why he went out with this girl, what she was, what they did. He initially denied going out. He told me, that he is not in the picture, he rested in them all night and did not write to me because he did not have internet. I was out of my mind. In the end, he didn't tell me who he was and why they went out, but he explained to me that I had nothing to worry about, they went out to drink coffee and he went home. He told me that there are many girlfriends with whom he goes out for coffee or just for a walk from time to time. He asked me not to think about anything else, not to worry unnecessarily that nothing had happened, they just went out for coffee and he didn't tell me because I was very jealous and I was going to scold him and make an elephant out of the fly. He also told me that she knew he was engaged. Should I believe him? There is nothing I can do but trust him ... I love him a hell of a lot, he loves me too, but I feel terribly uncomfortable going out with other girls. He told me, that he has girlfriends girls and will continue to go out with them whether I agree or not, because he did nothing wrong, he went out with them purely friendly. Is it normal to date other girls? What can I do in such a situation? I will be grateful if you help me!
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Honey, he's a jerk! There are no female friends, even more so to watch each other late at night, and go out secretly. You're just one of many.
What can you do? To dump it. Fast.
And that's why ladies, there is no such thing as "true friendship between a man and a woman." In my opinion, if they were really just friends, he wouldn't hide it from you, even if he lied that it wasn't him. In the end, being caught up close will tell this "genius" lie that they are just friends and he will hope you believe him. By the way, which man goes to drink coffee with a friend at night? Rather, I believe they were in the same bed. Whatever the truth, it's a fact that he tried to lie to you, and now that you believed him, it would be easier for him to do it again.
He's lying to you! This is enough. Ž
Well yeah. I am a woman and I have only male friends. We go out, drink, chat, to discos. It is normal.
If she is beautiful, she is 100% curled up.
Some people don't like to be accountable. However, if he decides to do it, he will do it. A serious relationship is when you share bread and blankets and not when you see each other every 2 days. Is there anything to worry about? Of course, nothing is certain. There is no real friendship between a man and a woman. There are always backward thoughts, now it depends on the person whether he will abstain.
This story is lame. A friend noticed them passing in the middle of the night, near a restaurant where she was sitting. And it immediately occurred to her to take out the camera and take pictures, not one but several. Overnight. While in the restaurant. And he has other fun. The first thing that comes to mind is to take pictures. At night .... There is a section for fictional stories, why are they published everywhere?
In general, I am FOR the trust in the other half, but in this case there is something rotten. OK, he had girlfriends, but there are some weird things. 1. Why is he going out with her late at night? 2. Why did he initially lie to you that it wasn't him? 3. And how did his Internet "accidentally" crash at that time? So I think in this case you have a right to suspect something is wrong. If he had nothing to hide, he would honestly say where he was and even offer to introduce you. My boyfriend also has girlfriends, but just so there are no dramas, I know them, I know that they grew up with children together and of course whenever he wants to see them he tells me. "I'm going for coffee with X." And of course he goes out with them during the day, not in the middle of the night. So at that time I do something for myself, for example to go for a manicure. At the beginning, I was a little jealous and decided to check it once, and I happened to pass by the cafe, where he told me that they would go. Yes, he was there with this girl and they talked like friends without any intimacy. In the end, I was ashamed of myself and I'm glad he didn't realize I was spying on him. I have trusted him ever since.
You are very jealous. If I had such a jealous woman, I would have told her LEAVE.
How exactly did your girlfriend photograph him in the face and he didn't feel that he was photographed? It is assumed that in order for his face to be seen well enough to be recognized, it must still be more or less close. And at night, how exactly does his face look in a photo?
This darling hats them to ruin. Look now, if he has female friends and goes out with them, then in 8 months you would know this fact. If he had no intention of lying to you, he would have told you to go out for coffee with Christina. He wouldn't lie that he wasn't in the picture. You can only hear that there is a friendship between a man and a woman from a woman. If a man goes out with women, he wants to make them cry. Point. Brother.
On what grounds do you hold him accountable and raise scandals against him? !! You don't like something si- ok, you get up and leave. There is someone to judge him. You're jealous, and that doesn't speak well for you! You are still young, you have a chance to realize! Good luck!
If someone starts to dodge, he is lying 100%. The truth is one, the lies are many. I wouldn't waste my time with a man who has a lot of "girlfriends." If he prefers to communicate with them, I don't need him.