Hello ! I came across this site 2-3 months ago and now I decided to write here for the first time to share my problem. I have a friend for 7 months, but our biggest problem is that we are from different cities. Now, however, we are separated by 2 days ... Otherwise, everything was like a fairy tale ... for the first time I met such a nice boy, kind to ours, good, gentle, romantic, attached to me, everything he did showed that he loves me, and I loved him very much. He did his best to come and see me, because it was not just a wish, but a financial opportunity. And he really did a lot for this relationship ... He called me several times every day, we talked for hours; he didn't care at all how much money he spent on me. He kept asking how my parents were and sending greetings on and off. Even my mother liked it, because it is different from the previous ones. There was maybe only one drawback - I was very jealous, it was just unbearable. I rarely go out anyway, and he was constantly jealous. And now we are divided precisely because of this disgusting jealousy. On Saturday (19.07) I went to an evening disco for the first time and the day before I had told my friend that I would go there with a few girls. (I never lied to him and I always shared everything with him, because a relationship is based on trust and honesty) I was at the disco at 00 o'clock that night. At 2 o'clock I saw that I had 10 missed calls from some unknown number and I left my phone next to me so I could see when it rang again. And minutes later he rang. Of course I didn't hear anything at the disco, I didn't even understand who I was talking to. All I heard was that I was asked which disco I was at, I answered and that was it. After 5 minutes I received an SMS to go out in front of the disco. I went out. I thought my cousin called me because my mother said she would tell him which disco I was at and go see me at some point. I waited outside for 10 minutes and called my mother to ask her. It turned out it wasn't him. While talking on the phone, a man gave me a rose with the words that I was very sweet and that I continued to be so charming. I was startled, but took the flower. I was about to enter the disco when I saw my friend with 4 more boys coming. That evening he had told me that they would celebrate his brother's birthday at a disco near Tarnovo. One of the boys has a car and so on their way back from this disco they decided to come to my city. It was very strange for me to see them, but I was already convinced that I could expect everything from my friend. He still had something, but we seemed to get along. We went to the disco, we danced, everything was OK. I asked one of his friends if he liked the disco and I invited him to dance and we exchanged 3 stories. Then, because my friend wanted us to go outside for a while, and this happened twice, one of the guards started talking to me. I am generally a very shy person, but after 2 hours I was already happy and relaxed (I had not drunk any alcohol) and we exchanged 2 words with the guards. At one point my friend told me that he wanted them to take me to us, but I could not accept because I went out with a few girls and our parents know that we will go home with a taxi, and my friend on this river. e. have been drinking beer .. He gets angry as he always does (he gets angry extremely fast). I explained to him how things were, but he didn't accept at all. At 4 o'clock my friends and I left and my friend and his company went outside and waited for me. My boyfriend suddenly left and got in the car; he didn't want to talk. I could barely get him to come out and say why he was behaving like that. He didn't say anything meaningful. Both of us were boiling, he got in the car, I wished the others a pleasant journey and my friends and I took a taxi. The next afternoon my friend called and asked me what I was doing. I told him I was asleep and that my eyes hurt, and he said, "You're going to be in pain. Like left and right." Then he said that he wanted a break from me because he had gathered a lot - the rose, that the guards were talking to me and that I had exchanged a few words with his friend. And when he passed, he would call me, and I just said, "Okay. Do what you want, but I don't know if when you decide, and I have told him several times that it is all for me and I will not leave him. What do you think is the best solution
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:) Hello lovely girl! I have a relationship with my boy of 13 years, he was 14. We grew up together, now we are students :) I am 20, he is 21 :) It makes me very happy, he is an exceptional gentleman and a romantic. I am his first girlfriend and he is my first friend. We love each other a lot. And even though he knows me very well and knows that I will never cheat on him - he is terribly jealous of me and constantly wants me to be with him! He controls me every hour of the second. I know how you feel. I have been with him for 7 years. He behaved like that from the very beginning of our relationship, when we were children. At first I thought he was cheating on me and that's why he's so jealous of me, because you know that a man doesn't believe in his own ass :) I checked and realized that I'm the only one :))) And to this day we haven't cheated on each other, nor have we been rude. Therefore, my advice is to first find out if he doesn't have one ... :)))) Make sure of his love. Look for it - clarify and live happily! I'm glad they're jealous of me. :)))) Good luck!!!
Honey, I had the same problem. My friend was hellishly jealous and constantly thought I was cheating on him (I never cheated on him with a kiss). I only went out with him, and yet he still thought I was lying to him. I put up with this for a long time because I loved him very much ... Every time we quarreled he promised that he would change. And every time the same story, only it got worse and worse. Until one day I had such serious problems because of his jealousy (and because of his other vices) that my life and family were in danger. By no means am I saying that the same thing will happen to you if you return to him, I am just sharing my story. I don't think you should go back to him. No matter how much he says he will change, he will not do it, as has happened before. And when it continues like this, no matter how strong the love, with so many quarrels and disputes, it somehow stays in the background. You have to decide for yourself whether it is worth wasting your nerves on him and whether you love him enough;)
You have to make your own decision, but still help by telling you how I see things from a man's point of view. I am also very jealous and I said I would change and I did not. And I was not jealous because I was cheating. I do not tolerate infidelity. But a year later, I really changed somewhere. My girlfriend just managed to prove to me that I'm the only one for her. I trusted her to such an extent that she even went to the sea, discos, villas with her friends without me, and even for a moment I did not assume that she was doing something behind my back. I don't know how much it cost her to prove herself to me, but in the end she was very happy. However, you should know that when you talk to the guards, you cannot be trusted. You can't be trusted when you tell him you don't know if you want to be together. Of course, there are all kinds of people and they may never change, although I was quite a serious case. I was jealous of her even without talking to them, it was enough just to look and stay for 2 seconds on a boy.
Jealousy is a disease. It will intensify more and more. Think?
I have an identical problem with my friend, he even touched me. I love my friend very much, we have been together for 4 years and he has not changed yet .....
You are dumb geese. You're not normal ... don't cry tomorrow
From the author: now I have discovered my story and decided to share that although after a while and many promises of change my friend changed and stopped with this jealousy. so things went much better. But we broke up after a year and 8 months.
And why, if it's not a secret, did you break up after things got better?
Well, it may sound strange, but the most accurate answer seems to be that I actually love him, he loves me much more, but our relationship is over. One may ask how a relationship will end when these two people love each other, but it is clearly possible.
And does this mean that there is no eternal love?
Well ... I don't know the answer to that question ...
my friend is also very jealous and we have been arguing a lot about this for a year we have been together, but things are not getting better, they are getting worse. we are trying to solve this problem but he only points out some reasons for which I am not to blame. ..... no fix your life turns into hell and you feel like they are constantly squeezing your throat and suffocating you but you love and hope to change even though you are unhappy in your love let no one experience it because in the beginning it is nice that he is jealous of you but after a while it deepens and becomes unbearable
jealousy is a pleasant feeling for all women, they feel wanted
My friend is also very jealous, but ...
And I'm of the opinion of number 1, it's nice to be jealous of you, but within certain limits
I'm dealing with a boy. We go out very often. I'm not sure if he has any feelings for me. We didn't kiss to leave and we're just friends. I went out with an old friend of mine the other day. The next day the boy in question asked me if I had gone out, I told him of course, and why not? From there, he began to keep track of why I was dating ... how so ... especially with a boy, kind of what I was thinking. We're just friends right now, but I don't know what to think? I would like someone else's opinion ...
You know, I also had a problem with my friend. One night we weren't on very good terms, I went out with my best friend to a disco, he came after that. He kissed me once, he was kind of cold to me, I took his hand, I pushed him, and he didn't seem to want to pay any attention to me, so I got angry and got up to dance with my best friend at the disco, both of them. friends, one of our classmates came, we talked a little, we hugged, hello, hello ... etc., anyway, after a while my friend came and said that he was leaving, whether I would go with him or not , until I felt it, he was no more with the words "too much" ... then we parted .. a lot of insults, a lot of things. It's really hard. My parents and everyone else don't like him and don't approve of him, so many quarrels and what I didn't suffer because of him, I was left almost without friends. He also. Our relationship as a whole was very difficult, we had many obstacles. He dumped me once for writing to my ex, okay, then I found out, but now? Anyway, I mean that his jealousy is very great, but sometimes I look for him, meaning I often do not give up and make others angry, I get it back, I even make a mistake and I do whatever I want, I am like that, risky I'm human ... I'm having fun, and he doesn't like it, but of course I've never cheated on him, never, even with a kiss, it's a very mean thing !! We are the same zodiac sign, we have enough years more difference, which makes things even more difficult .. he thinks about more serious things, and I still go to discos .. I do not want hate, I do not write here to point out how much it is he's wrong and how right I am .. I think we've both gone too far,