Hello. I am 18 years old, I have a friend who treats me amazingly and does everything to make me happy. He is 21 His mother does not like me because he trusts his step-sister, who is 17. She claims to his family, not just his mother, that I am with him for money to support me because my mother is abroad and I am alone, I cheat on him, I use drugs, I manipulate him and his sister who is 13. His mother made his little sister separate us, and when she refused she was slapped. For 4 months now, his mother has been calling me by all sorts of names, like a slut, etc. She is behaving badly, and a few days ago she allowed herself to slap me. No matter how much my friend protects me and what he tells her, she does not change her mind, although he firmly states that I am his choice and she will tolerate me whether she likes me or not. The last straw. I was planning to file a lawsuit, but what is my chance of winning it? I can't get her own son to testify against her, and only he saw her hit me. The only things I have against her are chats with his little sister, as she tells me about different conversations, how his mother talks about me, and so on. These are things she has heard. What kind of loophole do I have and how can I act in my favor if everything goes to court? Please, with a drop of despair. It affects my psyche a lot. What kind of loophole do I have and how can I act in my favor if everything goes to court? Please, with a drop of despair. It affects my psyche a lot. What kind of loophole do I have and how can I act in my favor if everything goes to court? Please, with a drop of despair. It affects my psyche a lot.
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The moment you start judging her, you'll be there with your boyfriend. He is unlikely to continue his relationship with you after you judge his mother. If things have gotten this far, then break up with him. But I can't figure out how to slap you. Since you know her attitude towards you, why do you see her? Stay away and that's it.
This woman obviously has a problem. Take your friend to a dormitory and he will tell her clearly to behave normally if she wants to be a part of his life. If it continues, cut off contact with it.
We met by chance, because he is currently in the hospital, and he is defending me, I expressed my opinion, did not kill himself the next day, talked to her and explained to her that she was wrong and chose to be with me, no matter what she thinks, she stands next to me because she knows I'm right and she sees what she's doing even though she's his mother, for which I thank him, but she doesn't hear anything ... Then she told him I don't agree with your relationship ..
How would I act in your place: If someone insults me, I will insult him twice as much and take money or belongings to compensate him. ; If someone hits me, I hit him and I get compensated again in some way. In your case, after the slap, I think I would bite her nose, ears, chest as hard as I could. Then I would open her purse and take as much money as I could to pay for my efforts, the stress I experienced and to fine / punish her. It seems too much, but this is the right way. How do you even allow such a thing? Don't you have self-esteem? !!
You can't condemn her. Sama said only her son was a witness. Get out of there. You see that you are not wanted. You will growl and then the real hell begins for you. You are young. You will find another. Let the old lunatic and her son rot on their own. The witch is sick osihicheaki. How can you call a child a slut. Who knows how many men have gone through all the holes. A slut will call you. Don't you have parents to deal with these old carts? Uncle, uncle, brother, no one will protect you
Darling, run as far away from this family as possible, because I don't think one day if you have children and his mother becomes your mother-in-law, what the hell will your life turn into, not that she doesn't poison you now! J. 24
Another time, turn on your voice recorder and record how she insults you, and then you can file a case for insult. If her guilt is proven by law, she will be punished to pay you compensation in the amount of up to BGN 3,000 (Read Article 146 of the Criminal Code). And again, I tell you it's best to run away from these people.
N4, u made my day: D Limit contacts with his family and in particular with his mother. It's as if it doesn't exist and that's it. Unfortunately, if it goes on like this, at some point your friend will have to choose.