Hello people! I would ask for advice from people who will really understand my situation. I have been with a person who makes me happy for some time, I have had longer relationships than this one, but every time I am with him I have the feeling that he is the person for me, many people have told us that we fit terribly well with each other. . We have faced many problems, but he has always been there to solve them. The problem, however, is that his mother had to move to the country where he is because until now he lived alone with me. His mother does not know about us because she is very strict and at the same time a Muslim, a Kurd! I met her when she came and the whole family loved me very much, but he was not happy about that fact because he told me that the problem was that they took me as their daughter and that if he told her that he loved me she would be angry with him. I know how many of you will say a mother's son listens to his mother, but on the one hand it is not so because they grew up in a different way with hellish respect for their mothers, and if necessary they would marry by force only if only his mother was happy. I don't know what to do and this fact kills me because there is a strong love between us, but maybe impossible anymore ....
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Traditions are traditions, the option to be somewhere far from the family and the powerful mother with this man and to live together. And I am abroad and the son of such a family, clearly stated no wedding traditions with a huge amount of gold and dresses. Parents collect money all their lives for a wedding, clothes, gold. The daughter is married according to tradition, but the son does not want, does not want a wife at this stage. My son is still a teenager dating a very cute Kurdish girl. The mother is hiding from the father, from now on. We even took her with us to a neighboring town for shopping, I talked to her mother, her father still did not know. I say again a very nice girl, but I sat down and talked to my son that tomorrow her father might beat him if she found out what was going on, or maybe her husband had already chosen her. Which is very unfortunate, Kurds, abroad, but they are a closed society. I read about a girl,
Do I understand that religion is the problem here? In fact, religion always brings problems, and that's why all wars are. Tip: Both of you give up your religions and get rid of them! Because if this relationship continues you may have a child! And it will be torn between the two religions of Islam and Christianity (if you are such a de) So it is best to give up your religions and both will be yours. But if they are conservative and trouble Muslims run away from this family while you still have time! It at first, everything is fine then the horror begins! I wish you luck! Em Jay
Where do you find these mother's sons? What would the old woman think, but think what she would. If you're going to listen to your mother marry her, you don't need a man like that.
If he really loves you, no one will separate you. Even his mother, yes - he grew up with her, she raised him, but he won't listen to his mother all his life? Talk to him and tell him you want to be with him. If he agrees to everything, be both of you, and let his mother be saved :)
Yes, marry his mother
Thanks everyone for the tips, you are awesome people! and for the last comment - Thank you !! lol and I will finally tell him this, marry his mother to finally calm the woman that it will not happen otherwise! Sakun! Have a nice day!
What does it mean to be angry? This thing is not dictated by religious considerations. No matter if you are a Muslim or a Christian, your old mother-in-law is an old mother-in-law. There is something rotten in this family - mom to be angry with you for bringing another woman. Unfortunately, many mothers, instead of rejoicing that their son has found his love and will in turn form a family with children, hate their daughters-in-law, interfere and try their best to drive them away. Mine also did the trick for me, clearly stating that people married their children when they were 2-3. She had only 1 and did not give it. Guess - she hasn't been to our country in a year and my husband doesn't communicate with her. He now accuses him of not wanting to be part of their family, but he is not asleep. He says that I am his family and that is right. If it continues, we will cut off contact altogether. I give you an example of a man standing next to his wife. If he is afraid to tell his mother that he has a boyfriend ... Speak openly that this circus cannot continue. Even if his mother does not accept you and starts making dramas, there is always an option to stop communicating with her. You have the right! Just because she's a mother doesn't mean she's good and has the right to interfere with you! Not wanting to disappoint her, not to catch her boyfriends - she only hurts other women because she is my mother's aunt. Kel benefits from being nice to you if he can't protect you from his mother. Not wanting to disappoint her, not to catch her boyfriends - she only hurts other women because she is my mother's aunt. Kel benefits from being nice to you if he can't protect you from his mother. Not wanting to disappoint her, not to catch her boyfriends - she only hurts other women because she is my mother's aunt. Kel benefits from being nice to you if he can't protect you from his mother.
Well, go to sleep with your mother then! It sounds rude, but it's even rude to control your children or to shout in front of your girlfriend that his mother didn't give up.
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