Hello, sometimes I read on the site and I decided to share. At 27 woman. I had a friend for 9 years, we lived together, he cheated on me and we broke up. I went to an apartment and after a while I met others through Facebook. boy let's call him M. He is romantic, good, surprises me, writes poems about me, etc. It is crazy that in 10 days we met, fell in love and moved 250 km because of him. We lived in them with his parents. Everything seemed to be fine, I was accepted, they were kind, but then things changed. I don't care that they are poor and the house is about to fall apart, it is even a municipal apartment. I fell in love with him for his own sake and I already love him. 5 months later than a month. the problems and quarrels between us are obvious and all because of them. His mother has not worked all her life, lazy at the age of 68, playing phone games all day as a teenager. If she doesn't do that, she is in the house of his sister, who gave birth 1 year ago, supposedly to help her. We live in a house with 2 separate living rooms, one thanks to our work with M for 1 month we tightened. All three of us go to work and late shifts until 10 p.m. This woman is pushing nothing.
She justifies herself by saying that she was ill and had a heart attack some time ago. But he continues to drink and smoke. I from the 2nd shift, the first from the 6th, etc. We barely meet M., and when we meet we pay attention to each other. I clean our rooms every day and when I have time I cook. Until recently, I did all this for theirs. But this woman began to make intrigues and scandals. She yells behind her back at her son and her husband that I haven't cleaned and cooked for them. We hid to eat separately. We bought popcorn to eat, but she couldn't. I burst out laughing, a woman of those years roaring for popcorn and chips. It's like having a child and not forgetting her. Her husband is always drunk, they keep roaring that they have no money, they want our whole bill for electricity, he is given money for rent. Next month turns out to last for 3 months. M. used to work abroad and sent them to repay because they had been expelled. I told him many times that they lived like gypsies and drove her day after day. They are looking to use it. He does not give a word to say against them.
After all, they were his parents. We constantly live in scandals. I told him to go out to the apartment, he shouted we would not be able to cope with these salaries. And is it better to tolerate this ...? I love him, but he also has a problem. Painful jealousy. 1 more month. He wants my FB password. I raised a scandal, but in the end, I gave it to him, I have nothing to hide, but everyone must have a face. space. He didn't have enough of that and it started, the one you're looking at, he's in your friends. Get him out of where you know him. He started writing to all the men in my friends ... Do you remember when we slept together?
In order to find out who slept with me ... I told him many times that I would leave if he continued. He did it because he loved me and did not want to lose me. He hated lying and didn't want to be cheated. Things were not going well and there must have been someone. Please? !! Things are not going well because of theirs and his constant .. Where are you? But why are you 10 minutes late? Where did you go? Why didn't he stop the car right in front of work, but 100 meters down ... Give me advice on what to do?
At last, I tremble with nerves. I have panic attacks. My stomach swells and nerves. I want to be with him ... I love him. I want him to stop being jealous and let them leave us alone Remember when we slept together? In order to find out who slept with me ... I told him many times that I would leave if he continued. He did it because he loved me and did not want to lose me. He hated lying and didn't want to be cheated. Things were not going well and there must have been someone. Please? !! Things are not going well because of theirs and his constant .. Where are you? But why are you 10 minutes late? Where did you go? Why didn't he stop the car right in front of work, but 100 meters down ... Give me advice on what to do?
At last, I tremble with nerves. I have panic attacks. My stomach swells and nerves. I want to be with him ... I love him. I want him to stop being jealous and let them leave us alone Remember when we slept together? In order to find out who slept with me ... I told him many times that I would leave if he continued. He did it because he loved me and did not want to lose me. He hated lying and didn't want to be cheated. Things were not going well and there must have been someone. Please? !! Things are not going well because of theirs and his constant .. Where are you? But why are you 10 minutes late? Where did you go? Why didn't he stop the car right in front of work, but 100 meters down ...
Give me advice on what to do? At last, I tremble with nerves. I have panic attacks. My stomach swells and nerves. I want to be with him ... I love him. I want him to stop being jealous and let them leave us alone Things are not going well because of theirs and his constant .. Where are you? But why are you 10 minutes late? Where did you go? Why didn't he stop the car right in front of work, but 100 meters down ...
Give me advice on what to do? At last, I tremble with nerves. I have panic attacks. My stomach swells and nerves. I want to be with him ... I love him. I want him to stop being jealous and let them leave us alone Things are not going well because of theirs and his constant .. Where are you? But why are you 10 minutes late? Where did you go? Why didn't he stop the car right in front of work, but 100 meters down ... Give me advice on what to do?
At last I tremble with nerves. I have panic attacks. My stomach swells and nerves. I want to be with him ... I love him. I want him to stop being jealous and let them leave us alone
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It is clear to you that nothing will change and your options are to endure or separation, right?
You are young, you have a job, and I guess you have parents. I don't think wait and leave it before it's too late, good luck! L.
And normal boys can't find a wife. There is something very wrong in the whole situation, but a lot. On the topic, RUN!
You don't like it, but you feel a state related to the drama in which they put you, you already have panic attacks, the next is a much more serious health problem. Get out as fast as you can before you start fainting in the streets or something more dramatic ... Prepare things secretly and get out of town without saying that this is your {if the story is true} meat of those who give them on the news. Go home to yours and calm down there without allowing him to connect with you and without knowing where you are. I'm serious.
No one will change - neither his parents nor he. It remains for you to decide - do you want to continue living with them like this or to pack your bags and leave.
It will start soon and ds beats you. And you will deserve it, because at the moment you do not realize what a swamp you have run into. What kind of love are you talking about, do you have any idea what love is? Yours is an attachment to a tremor. RUN WITH 300! . P.S. another proof that you women are so gullibly naive and stupid. You always get caught up with the biggest idiots, a product of rotten families and toxic "motherly love". Well no, I'm not sorry, you obviously deserve it.
I think you should run 200 from there while it's still the beginning. Now he will only ask, but in time he will probably forbid you to go out. From what I read you look serious, you will find another. He is used to such a life and there is no way to change it. My mother was harassed by my grandmother all her life, precisely because my father would not let her be told. His mother was. Even me and my sister had turned against our mother at one point.
You're not well. Gather your luggage and leave, poor, simple, jealous, miserable, live with theirs, write on your behalf and you love him.
To love a psychopath makes you what? ПсихоПатка. To live with his cowardly parents. You won't ask him at all! You make the decisions and act! If he follows you, he is your man. If not - you got rid of him in time!
7, 8, with 200 or 300? Or at best with 400.
From the Author: Thank you for the adequate advice, I am aware of it to some extent. The point is that I am completely alone ... Literally. I wanted to get it, I like everything else in it, without jealousy. Theirs have no comment. To 5 - True story is otherwise I would not bother to write even. I just don't have friends to share with. I have one that is far away and we don't see each other much. THE FACT IS THAT I HAVE NO PARENTS. According to documents, yes, but in reality as a child they divorced, our father is not interested in us, my mother and the second and her husband nailed me with my brother and so I left her at the age of 18. The first boy I lived with was 9 helped me and I am grateful, but at the same time he was very jealous of me just like the current one. I didn't have any friends because of him, he didn't forbid me, but he was angry for weeks if I went out. In the end, he cheated on me, beat me, etc. It was very difficult for me without saving money, I went to a place to stay, luggage, moving, a new job was a horror. To find a home in 2 days. I lived alone, then I met M. I managed downstairs, considering that it was summer and the electricity bills were small. THIS BOY I REALLY LOVE HIM .. I'm not 10, I know what love is. She makes me romantic candlelight dinners at home, I've never received this, she writes about me, she tells me every day that I'm beautiful. He tries ... But that kills me with jealousy. HOW TO DEAL WITH IT. SHOULD I GIVE HIM A CONDITION .. WHAT? I DO NOT KNOW. In the end, it turns out that if I leave, I don't know anyone but my colleagues. I take BGN 700, here a one-room apartment is at least BGN 270 .. With bills and a telephone .. It's quite a lot. And worst of all, you live in a city you don't like, a gypsy, because of a man who can't realize,