I want to share what's been happening lately with me and my roommate. I'm pretty confused and I really don't know what to do. I have been living here for several months and he showed interest in me from the very beginning (while with the other roommate only "hello-hello"). There is a little special attitude, jokes, this or that. It so happened that one of us was already drunk and we decided to watch a movie in my room and the movie turned into throwing around the sheets. I didn't let him go, it just wasn't the time, and I'm not that "one night stand" guy. Since then I don't even remember how it happened, but we sleep in the same bed, he kept letting go of my hands and rubbing inside me, but when I said "no" he stopped. He took me to the movies and was extremely nice and gentlemanly. We talked about things in life, quite a serious conversation, I just didn't think you would talk to me that way. After tonight, things changed, I felt closer to him and I didn't stop him when he wanted to have sex. Yes, but the sex was 5 minutes. He didn't say anything, and neither did I. I took a bath and went to my room. The other night the same story and so several times. Is it normal to end so fast, damn it One night he told me he was ashamed of himself, so I guess it might not happen to him often, I know. It's basically a dumb fuck between us, no kisses, no hugs, but lately things have changed for me. I want him around more often, but I think he has changed too… He took me to the bar, where he goes out with his friends and introduced me to them, and he behaves quite strangely, he tells me where he is, what he does, even he calls me, and so far it has not been so. The problem with the whole story is that I might like it more, than I should and I told him, the other is that he is 12 years older than me and I wonder why he does it at all. I'm just so confused and I don't know what to do. Please advice or at least an opinion on how the story sounds from the side, because I really don't know what to think anymore…
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Well you are his comfortable girl for sex right now!
And is this a story from Bulgaria? It looks a lot like the experiences of a Bulgarian student in Germany who found a place to live with Germans, and his behavior reminds me of them. I'm not just asking out of curiosity. The mentality is a very important thing and should not be neglected in such love stories.
Congratulations! You already have a boyfriend. I wish you a lot of love and soon he will relax and your sex will be better.
He uses you as a trash can ...
there are 2 ways out of things, 1st see if it will work out between you, 2nd tell him that it is better to stop here so that it does not happen to quarrel over something and then you can not to look at each other, because if you stay in this apartment for a long time you will have to see each other often, and better without bad feelings.
"Dumb fucking without caresses, without kisses ..." It's weird for me because I haven't been in such situations ... For 5 minutes. Either he has a problem, or he hasn't been with a woman for a long time, ask him after you fell in love. You had to maintain his interest for a longer period. Otherwise there is a danger that you will get bored soon. I don't know what to think in your situation. Be a little more specific. Thank you, Rossiros, 49. PS Talk to him on the topic, has he had so far and how many relationships with women / girls /, has this happened to them as well? What are his intentions towards you? ”And apologize for the delicate question: Are you a virgin, do you have experience in sex? I don't know ... Write. Everything can be ... At the moment I'm just guessing ...
From number 3. You are very pessimistic, people. One does not have to use it. Once he has introduced her to his friends, he tells her, he is interested in her, so he considers her close. Talk to each other, clarify your relationship. I don't see anything disturbing in the story. What if he is bigger than you (this can be considered on the positive side - more settled, he knows what he wants, etc.) And his quick ending must have a logical explanation, he may be worried, not to be rich experience or has not had sex recently. This will change over time if you deepen your relationship. I don't know if I'm naive or you are too negative, but I don't think the situation is so bad. And in the end we live a life. Why doubt and pull from the good things in life? Here, the author says she is in love. What's better than that? Even if she is disappointed in time, at least she will have experienced a great emotion and she will have a memory, an experience.
From the author: For so long, things have not undergone much development, except that we hear each other more often on the phone. Apparently it's more convenient for both of us, I really liked it, I'm even very happy to be around me, but it turned out to be quite shy (?) I don't know if it's the right word. He's worried about the others in the apartment. we are very noisy) and sometimes he doesn't want to have sex, which drives me crazy, last night I even got up and went to my room ... At least for the time being things have improved. Another "problem" is the age difference for him, I don't care at all, but he keeps repeating that he is old, etc ... it's quite unpleasant! Number 7, I think I could support his interest, but that interest should be maintained on both sides, don't you think? And no, I'm not a virgin, I just think that when I have sex with someone, then things have to have a sequel. Confused story in general;) Number 2 the story is from Bulgaria, yes! Thanks for the advice, maybe I should talk to him, it will be hellishly difficult, but I will try. Keep your fingers crossed!
So how did things develop?