Hi girl I'm 17 almost 18 years old. I have a serious friend at the age of 18 from 1 year we are together. So to my question every time we have sex I can't finish I didn't tell him because he still puts a lot of effort and it's a little stupid to tell him after that. He loves nothing but sex meaning oral love and everything else you can think of. Even our love game is quite short. Please give advice on what to do.
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He may not love, but he will have to love. You can keep quiet a few times, but if each time is just for his pleasure ... I don't think it's right. There is something else, I also did not get many orgasms When I start having sex, it takes time to get used to and find what you like. Try different poses and see how you like it best, explain to him that you want more play in the beginning and tell him what exactly excites you. It's not embarrassing to talk about these things and clarify.
Sweet girl, very few women end up having sex, usually just by touching her clitoris.
There is nothing to do, nor do you need to talk about it. Just calm down and relax during sex without thinking that you must reach orgasm. If you've lived with other men and it worked out there, obviously the boy is fast and can't wait for you to get aroused and free. Keep in mind that women find it harder to get aroused and reach orgasm. As far as I understand, the boy is quite impatient and does not prepare you in advance. So sit down and before he attacks you, explain to him exactly how things are, that you need longer sex and preparation. Do not be deceived that even then it will happen. If you've recently started having sex, just arm yourself with patience and don't think about it, it will come at once and you will wonder what happened to you. It could happen to you with another man, this one just doesn't do something the way you want it to. The important thing is to find out and share with him what arouses you and what you want him to do with you during sex. It's not embarrassing, it's necessary, because you see that he rips you, pushes you for 2, 5 or 10 minutes and has fun, and you ... write here. A conversation is needed, if he doesn't listen to you and doesn't get in your position, change it ......... the pleasure is for two. Even his duty is to decode what you enjoy during sex, changing the ways of penetration, postures, he can even slap you on the ass, not to mention the pace of penetration, he starts gently and watches you without speed up your breathing, change to a rougher push. There are many ways, but you need an experienced and unhurried man. Every man can come up to you and have fun, but not everyone will care about your pleasure ........ by the way,
It is spoken openly without insults. You tell him what you need, more love games, more ... that's how our grandmothers behaved, because those were the times. Today you speak openly, because tomorrow your lack of speech and the fact that you remain dissatisfied will affect your mood, your nerves and you will wonder why you are sour and nervous. Speak, directing it.
Just don't imitate an orgasm, it's funny and ugly.
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Thanks to everyone ... I told him what I want directly and he accepted it well now everything is great - the author