People often repeat that appearance is not the most important thing, that if a person truly values you, it is not decisive. But is it really so in Bulgaria? Have you ever wondered what kind of world we live in today? I'm a woman, I'm in my 30s, and I've thought a thousand times. I don't think of myself as an old girl, I'm not desperate, I don't suffer from a lack of male attention. But what happened when I suddenly lost 5 pounds? And I want to emphasize that I was not fat. I am a minion, 160 cm. I weighed about 52-53 kg and lost 5 kg. They may look small, but they are obvious for my height. In general, I looked good before, but now I'm starting to get closer to the body as a model and to the ideal that we are launched every day in the media. In addition, I spent a little time and more money, bought some new clothes, paid attention, so to speak. And what happened? Men who hadn't noticed me before started looking for me. And they don't look for me just for sex anymore. Suddenly they decided they wanted a serious relationship. Before, I was mostly sought after by desperate boys who explained themselves to me in love before we met or after the first meeting. People are so simple in Bulgaria that it seems that almost nothing matters anymore except appearance and sex. Yes, men have countless other criteria, but if you don't meet those two, they don't reflect them. Even for regular sex they are not looking for you, at most one, two or five times to sleep with you. Where did we take her? Women like Zlatka Raykova with a vision and sex image go so far as to offer them marriage twice a year. And the nice, good, moral girls take comfort in the idea that they haven't met the right one yet. This is a complete paradox, but a fact. Myth is that the more beautiful and sexy you are, the more they will look at you as a sex object and you will attract more women. Reality shows otherwise. The perfect vision, combined with a good self-confidence and the fact that the woman is not obsessive, to let the man look for her, to be the leader, leads to the fact that they want her. And not just for sex.
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Zlatka Raykova - vision and sex image? If this thing had any vision at all, it would be a plastic Barbie doll gutted from fucking in every hole. In real size. Otherwise sunshine, it all depends on the environment. If your environment is made up of superficial pseudo-men, it's normal for them to start looking for you when you get a little hooked. There are all kinds of men, otherwise. Women too. People, in general. You are also right to some extent that the Balkan peoples have the idea that a woman should look like a whore, but from your relatively limited worldview you cannot generalize. It's not statistically accurate, to say the least. As advice I will tell you the following: think about the reasons that make you think that Zlatka Raykova has a vision. When you answer this question yourself, you will understand exactly what your problems are rooted in. And no, honey, if you write about it,
You're pretty narcissistic, don't touch yourself. Ugly trait. Do you men know why they took you down? Because with what you do to yourself, you "scream" for attention and they see in you a woman who is ready to give them what they want. Your point of view is cool, but unfortunately only you see things that way. The truth is that no one cares if you are 2, 5 or 10 kilograms lighter or heavier. There are many girls who are not Zlatka Raykova and have a marriage and children. Zlatka, see her before the operations ... and I have no words for how simple she is, you seem to be like her ...
Not to be 50 kg, that as you describe they will change your life, come on, it doesn't make sense
You didn't seem to suffer from a lack of male attention, and they were only looking for sex for desperate boys who hadn't seen you (which is reminiscent of chatterboxes).
Absolutely true. Men just love with their eyes and let fat women think about why they are alone / if they are. Soul and character are important, but we fall in love with appearance. The beautiful soul cannot compensate for the shapeless body. For men - too.
Well done, chick! Found hot water;)
As a Bulgarian, I honestly tell you that I don't want a Bulgarian in my life and I won't allow it, the same goes for all Oriental-Mohammedan races and Negroes. As for you, if you have nerves to get excited - thank you
If you look like a sweetheart you get something like good, I envied her, haha
Thanks for sharing!
It is true to a large extent that most men are like that, and this is not a conscious decision. Everything comes from the primary brain. The only stipulation is that you are not in the category of nice, good and moral girls.
I really liked how you think I agree with everything you wrote. Like you, in about a year I lost more or less as much as you. I weighed about 52-53, I'm as tall as you and the years are about the same. I noticed the same thing, more interest from men, they look at me more, take me down and so on. I even feel like the women are looking at me somehow, everyone is telling me how weak I am, that I should have climbed a little. But they seem to see some competition in me, and it wasn't like that before. It sucks because the media, movies, videos all instill in us how we should be sculpted with beautiful bodies, make-up and non-stop to smear a model on the cover of a magazine, because someone said that this is a standard of beauty. The world is going nowhere and it will get worse and we have become slaves to vanity and appearance. I don't think we would change anything. If you feel good there are no problems.
It was hard for you. You had a complex. you are more inspired now. In your attitude is the change, not in the masculine.
I am also 160 tall. At 52-54 kg I think I am in perfect shape. I have a medium to large bust, harmonious muscle mass and with my physique these weights are perfect from a health and aesthetic point of view. If someone doesn't like it - it doesn't concern me. As it does not concern me who wants to do what with his own body and psyche. But I have never lacked self-confidence and I have had serious candidates for more weight. 5 kg difference is not significant if they rotate within the normal weight, and if they are important to someone under these conditions, then that someone is simply not worth it. Otherwise yes - it is perfectly normal for appearance to matter. But it matters in the beginning. Other things are needed for a serious relationship. F32
The example with Zlatka Raykova is not very good. No normal man, in my opinion, will start proposing a marriage like the blonde Zlatka - most men are not so simple. It is true that appearance is important, but you do not need to look like a prostitute to attract attention. The woman must be feminine, have style and class / which does not include inflated jukes and silicone tits. / Not all beautiful women look like models, and it is not necessary. As long as you are not a loose immobile cow and bring it in terms of appearance and intelligence, you will not miss fans.
It just depresses me! I am 160 cm. and weighs 63kg. I don't lack attention, but I don't like myself. It will be difficult for me to fall below 55 kg. what's left 45-50 ...
Number 13 is absolutely right. The change in your self-esteem has changed your interest in you, not the 5 kg. I have a girlfriend of 70 kg with a queue of fans, simply because she likes and radiates happiness.