Hi, I didn't think I would have to write about just such a problem. I am 22 years old and I have had a girlfriend for 20 months. The problem is that she does not allow me to lick her down there. She didn't like it, she didn't want a bunch of other reasons. I love doing it, as do all the other girls I've done it to. I can do it for hours. Everyone has been in euphoria so far, but she doesn't even want us to try .... I don't know what to do and how to make her try it at least for a while. I'm sure she will like it and will want it after that .... Give advice. thanks
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She may be ashamed, embarrassed. Not all girls are "liberated" in bed, it may be some kind of complex. In general, there is no way to force her. Don't be too insistent, don't push her. Be more careful, show her that you like her, make her feel wanted. You can first try only with kisses around the intimate parts. Take your time, let her relax.
I understand her perfectly. I also don't like to be licked. If she doesn't want to, then don't drive her, you'll make me annoying.
She is ashamed.
Well, she doesn't have to like me, for example, I don't like to be licked - amazing, but true.
Keep it dry for a few weeks, as she can no longer stand it and will ask you to lick it herself!
And if you don't like being like that from behind, for example, how can they convince you to give from behind? This is how your question sounds.
Don't be sure about someone else's life!
If she doesn't want to, don't ... If she wants to, then!
I'm a man and I don't like to be sucked at all, but I gladly lick my wife's hairy squirrel.
Some people think that when they like something, they all have to like it and almost accept it as their life's mission to convince them and show how wrong they are, that you see they don't know they like it. Surprise - and I do not like to give me blowjobs. How amazing, isn't it? Ha de. Convince me now that I like it, after 20 years of sex I've found that I don't like it. For me, the author is completely light, I apologize, but this is my opinion. Zorlyam will convince the girl what he likes and what he doesn't.
I am an attractive woman of sexual age. I have been with many and very attractive men, most of them with experience and imagination. Unfortunately, no one knew exactly how to give me oral. All women are sensitive down there (the clitoris is much more sensitive than the penis), but I myself am like a string: extremely sensitive all over the body, and my partners did not realize that they exert too much pressure, which turns into pleasure in an unpleasant feeling. I have a particularly big problem with partners who think they are so experienced that there is no need to tell them how I like it. Well, that's why anyone who wants to "lick" me, as you say, tactfully refuses. Maybe your girlfriend is afraid of that.
You may be worried that it is not clean / fresh enough underneath and you will not like it. Female genitals need more frequent washing to maintain freshness and not emit an unpleasant odor. If she hasn't had a chance to take a shower in the last hour or two, it's perfectly normal for her to worry about letting you down. Offer to take a bath together and try afterwards. There is an option to not be able to relax and just not feel pleasure - it has happened to me with a new partner or a person who does not know what he is doing.
Have an attractive face.
I'll tell you what helped me in a case like yours, my boyfriend and I were having only standard sex at the time, it was still not comfortable for her to lick her, but at one point, one night we both overdosed on alcohol and just I felt how hot she was and I suggested that I would bring her to the coolest orgasm just by licking and so it happened, from that moment on she was looking for it no matter what condition she was in. So I offer you only an option, then we were 21-22 year
Drop it, it doesn't deserve you
You can use Schrödinger's cat (if you don't know what it is, check it out on the internet) as a metaphor for trying. It always works for me when I want to have lunch for someone to try something
There is no normal woman who does not want to be licked (even for abnormal lesbians this is fun). She doesn't want you to lick her because she thinks you'll want to blow her whistles later. Hypocrisy in sex leads to such situations. Your chick is just a hypocrite, she doesn't really love you!
Sexual hunger 2-3 weeks, a pleasant evening with friends or alone, but with a decent dose of alcohol, shared shower or bath, gentle words in the ear, kisses on the chest, abdomen, knees, thighs and pubis. With enough arousal, she will open her hips on her own, but not you. If that doesn't help, change boyfriends like I did. I bring her new to orgasms by licking and she is terribly in love with me!
I am a woman and the situation is the same for me! My friend insists a lot, but I still refuse. Personally, my reason is that I'm afraid he won't like it and I can kind of push him away .... We've been together for a long time and there's almost nothing to be ashamed of ... but this ... just I can't ... Talk to her. If it's something like that, try to predispose her, and if she really doesn't like it AND BECAUSE SHE HAS TRIED IT NOW, then just don't insist ... she'll just get sick ...
Men, finally understand that everything is strictly individual. Some women like to lick them, others don't. Everyone has their own peculiarities. And stop the nonsense that the woman just didn't meet the right man, was worried about something, and so on. Yes, there are such cases, but most women who openly tell you that they don't like oral love just don't like it that much, they know their bodies and they know what they like and what they don't. I have such girlfriends. They've tried enough times to make sure they don't like the feeling. For example, I allow them to lick me more so as not to break their hat than for something else. Dumb, I know. But I do not have these conversations, it is clear what discussions it provokes here. I don't enjoy most men at all. So far, there has only been one that made me scream with pleasure. I don't know why it didn't work out with the others. Whether it's a matter of technique, mental mentality, probably both, I can't be 100% sure. Don't force your wives to do something they don't want to do. In all likelihood, they have reason to think so, and if you grumble constantly, you will only make matters worse. F19