Does anyone have any idea how a person can get rid of their complexes It is about me involuntarily and on a subconscious level, saying or doing something to humiliate or hurt someone. I learned this soon from a man I know recently. I had spoken, as if in jest, without even thinking, at his address and in front of him! After this incident, we constantly talked in spite of each other and teased each other. Last night we sat down to find out exactly why this has been happening lately and he told me exactly about this crack of mine. I apologized heartily, but somehow that doesn't fix things. At least not for me. He is not angry with me, but I will neither forget him nor forgive him. What I realized was that I was doing or saying some things on a subconscious level. Now, if you ask me why I spoke in his address, I will not be able to answer:
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Just before you say something rude or unpleasant, put yourself in the other person's shoes and think about how you will feel. There are also more sensitive people, so just control yourself
For a man it is somehow forgivable, the definition of "temerut" even attracts others. I don't know if it's due to complexes ... rather to bad emotional upbringing. My parents forgot to mention that people have feelings and as a result I am currently tactless, even rude .. interesting that with my friends, we are in a sadistic-masochistic relationship .. they are looking for just that, someone to criticize them, to insult malicious comments. Develop your thought, clear your speech - a sharp mind, a precisely uttered remark closes all disputes in your favor. Self-control - no way. Even over the years, remarks and jokes become sharper. Success