Hello, I am hesitant whether this is the place to share a problem that has been weighing on me for a long time. I am married at the age of 40 with a child, I have family problems which make me feel quite nervous. At the slightest mistake, I keep being told that I am an incorrigible fool, incompetent, so I would like to ask how to deal with it. I can't take it anymore, give me some advice because I will take my life in the end
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If I am, I am divorcing and living my life without caring about my ex. The child will look after him, of course.
Don't think nonsense and go to a psychologist alone and talk about the problems and if necessary you and your wife go together according to the advice of the psychologist, and if it happens as in my case that my wife did not want a divorce and life goes on. Consult a lawyer if you want to take the child to you or find out about visits
Divorce was, how what, she does not respect you, ie she no longer loves you, my ex besides such words and reached out to me and I caught my way, now I am 33 and I feel 20, with a young boyfriend of 23, my child is with his ex, he is calm, there are no more quarrels, insults, humiliations in front of him, this is important for me, and let her now stay with her mother, without whom she cannot wait for the prince on the white horse, he is already 5 years old wait but I can't help it, she chose it So don't be humiliated and stay with her only because of the child otherwise the years fly by, free yourself while it's time
There is only one way to deal with it. You stop caring about the constant grumbling. You don't pay attention to her when she grumbles. In addition, alcohol and football help with friends and a younger woman.
A younger woman, but if she has time to look for a fool and the money to turn her around. Because it's easy to talk ;–)
And I grumbled about every single thing, without missing a single part of me. The solution is your salvation. Better late than never! I am sad for her now, but I realize with each passing day that I have made the right decision for myself. I'm starting to reconnect with old friends, I'm starting to do the things I want, not the things only she wanted.
And I have gone this way. I later found out that she was looking for an excuse to leave me. The mother-in-law had a serious contribution. Unlike you, I was not bound to be incompetent, although it was not easy for me to overcome the separation. From the position of time today, I am glad that I got rid of her - my second wife never, but never hinted to me something like that.