Hello! For a long time now, all my classmates have been wearing bustiers and only I don't. Even the lowest of the class, which has nothing to wear. I lie that I wear so that they don't think I'm congested, but this year I want to wear and not have to lie. I also have breasts and I think it's time for me to wear a bustier too, because I'm the second largest in my class, not a bustier! It's so weird and I'm ashamed to tell my mother that I want to buy me a bustier, because I think she still thinks of me as a child and if you ask my mother is like my best friend and I share everything with her, but that's not all. I can share it with her because I am very ashamed to talk about these things with her, and we have never talked about it. So I'm asking someone to give me some useful advice so that I can wear a bustier too.
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Just ask me. Tell her you just need a bustier and stuff. If he tells you that you are small, explain that it is not comfortable for you not to wear it alone and that, for example, it is not comfortable for you physically or when you wear a tighter blouse. I was ashamed too, but I asked her. She refused me and then I explained how I felt. He bought me a few the same day. :) -P13
Just tell her that everyone wears it and you want it too. There's nothing to worry about.
I didn't know that a bustier is worn when everyone in the class is already wearing it or something! Girls whose breasts are small wear a bustier because their nipples protrude through the blouse, which is unpleasant. If your breasts are tight and your nipples do not protrude through the blouse, I do not think you need to wear a bustier. Rejoice now until you wear it, because it is very unpleasant in the heat for something to tighten you. I think your mother knows best when it's time for a bustier, but if she hasn't felt it, say so. "Mom, I think it's time to get a bustier anyway."
Darling, things are normal! I understand at the beginning that you are ashamed to talk to your friends about the cycle and breasts, but at least with the family it is quite natural to discuss these things at the beginning. Tell your mother simply and directly that you are not uncomfortable with your new breasts without a bra, especially in sports. Exit both and try. Remember that you have to be with her while you are looking for one, so that you know that it will be comfortable for you and will not "knock" or squeeze. Up your head and more courage, please!
Ten years ago, I was in a similar situation as you. I decided to ask her for money and went to get it myself.
I also wear a bustier - no matter I'm a boy. Boys can also wear bustiers if they have turned the thread
Go out in a feminine way and share what worries you, once you are close she will understand you and buy you a bustier or bra. The other option is to collect money and buy it yourself.