A few years ago, I broke up with my first boyfriend and my last, for now. Since then, I have not had intimacy with a boy, nor have I had sympathy. I am such a person who pays attention to myself, for me people are a waste of time, at least most of them, I do not allow almost anyone in my life, because over the years I have created a circle of people who are enough for me and for the moment I feel good. I am dedicated to learning and I am absorbed in the thought of success and honestly there is no place in my life for a man at the moment, I just don't need it and I don't feel any need to be committed, for me it's a waste of time. I don't need a relationship, but I need sex, this is very clear to me and for about a year now I've been trying to find a friend with whom the only thing that connects us is sex. I do not understand. I thought that men like this type of relationship, they are not stressful, they are not engaging. Just fun, but obviously not. As soon as I start such a relationship with someone, I am direct and say that I do not want a relationship, but the person on the other side still does not understand something. I am precise, short and clear, but then the person shows some feelings towards me, which I have not even provoked. Once that happens, I immediately cut off contact with the man, I just get so disgusted and every time I ask myself, "What the hell am I wrong now, am I still not clear enough ..." Is it so hard to keep your word? and to perceive someone only for sex. Why do people confuse things and ruin everything? As soon as I start such a relationship with someone, I am direct and say that I do not want a relationship, but the person on the other side still does not understand something. I am precise, short and clear, but then the person shows some feelings towards me, which I have not even provoked. Once that happens, I immediately cut off contact with the man, I just get so disgusted and every time I ask myself, "What the hell am I wrong now, am I still not clear enough ..." Is it so hard to keep your word? and to perceive someone only for sex. Why do people confuse things and ruin everything? As soon as I start such a relationship with someone, I am direct and say that I do not want a relationship, but the person on the other side still does not understand something. I am precise, short and clear, but then the person shows some feelings towards me, which I have not even provoked. Once that happens, I immediately cut off contact with the man, I just get so disgusted and every time I ask myself, "What the hell am I wrong now, am I still not clear enough ..." Is it so hard to keep your word? and to perceive someone only for sex. Why do people confuse things and ruin everything? I immediately cut off contact with the man, I just get so disgusted and every time I ask myself: "What the hell am I wrong now, am I still not clear enough .." Is it so difficult to keep your word and take someone alone and only for sex. Why do people confuse things and ruin everything? I immediately cut off contact with the man, I just get so disgusted and every time I ask myself: "What the hell am I wrong now, am I still not clear enough .." Is it so difficult to keep your word and take someone alone and only for sex. Why do people confuse things and ruin everything?
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It's hard for me to believe that a woman only wants sex from men ... You're so bloated, you obviously look pretty good visually. When you are just looking for sex, there are billions of such sites you meet once you do it and that's it. You are a darling for such sites. People there don't have souls like you. :)
Come on, don't pretend to be a woman. -. -
And I think that when you look for sex, feelings are provoked in the other, but on the other hand you said that you do not want a relationship, but in the end without such there is no sex, I also do not believe you go to bed so quickly with anyone, unless is some big fish. In fact, you do not know what you are looking for, or maybe you lack the right tactics to get someone to do it with you. Rather, you may irritate and give empty hopes. because you don't want to, but a lot of women cut for it. you do not have sex, then you will attract the same sexually passive. I have slept with many women and I quickly smell which gives and which does not!
Hi, I'm a 35 year old man. from Sofia, and I'm looking for just the right woman who doesn't want a commitment, but just casual regular sex. I am not married or engaged. If you want, will I give you my bullfights?
Get a married man for a lover. The boys around you haven't grown up enough. This "male word" has long since disappeared from their minds.
The biggest insult for a man is that a woman only wants sex from him :)
And how many of these ignoramuses rolled? And do vibrators have feelings? And how exactly is this need for sex, do they itch? An idea came to me - you can start taking money for sex, then there will hardly be feelings. And how do those with feelings know, crawl in front of you?
Become a "professional". Customers do not want anything else;))
Either you are a tigress in bed and men want it again and again or you are not aware that after good and selfless sex, feelings can arise !? Rarely are women looking only for sex, but they will become more and more. It's just that men are no longer the ones they used to be, but a herd of cool broilers!
You just have to find a man who only wants sex, that is, he is like you at the moment / without a relationship /. Quite often, after the appointment to be only sex partners, one begins to experience feelings at some point. Keep looking until you aim, and I don't see anything wrong with changing them from time to time - there will be just a variety. M. 32g.
Find someone married to fix you from time to time.
You broke up with your boyfriend a few years ago and have not had intimacy with anyone since, and you started having purely sexual relationships with boys who later fell in love with you. Where is the truth? Did you have intimacy after the separation or not?
Most men only want sex for one night and leave. If you want to try on a dating site and clearly write that you want for a long time with someone just for sex and nothing else. Or you can find someone.
A woman is with the psychiatrist: - Doctor, can you make me obsessed with persecution? "But what is it for you?" "Nobody's been watching me for three years, and that's what I want!"
Those with attacks on the author - why do you do it? Being a woman and what? She is unattached, so she can do whatever she wants. Number 1, this with the souls killed me, I hadn't read much nonsense soon.
to number 7. You killed the fish with that nonsense you said. Well, I like to be insulted by chicks like that - just sex without feelings. I am not bothered by such relationships at all. m / 42
A self-sufficient careerist woman. There are websites, there are markets, lined up there and no one will want anything but sex. And when you get older and no worries are found, there is a gigolo. Then it is impossible for someone to fall in love with you and annoy you. I wish you to turn the pancake and you to fall into the same position - to run after someone, and he treats you like a piece of meat, a vagina for some other fun.
Egga you and the dumb. Just tell him, God ...
From number 7 to 25 - I didn't invent it. And I didn't believe it until I found myself in the author's position. I have a feeling that men think that when a woman only wants sex, it means having sex with you when YOU want, but at the same time asking you for more. I am left with the impression that when a woman uses a man literally for 1-2 times and stops looking for him, a grumbling, annoyance, often even resentment begins.
I am the author. That's right, I'm a stupid woman hahahahahaha, I agree. In the end, though, everyone with their thinking, right? I was very pleased with the negative comments. I want to tell you that, for example, it also seems ridiculous, absurd to me that someone's goals and desires are aimed at marriage or a relationship. Very few women know what they want, you men complain that women do not know what we want. But when a woman stands in front of you who is aware of her desires, you do not know what to do. People's values only now are they beginning to change. There is nothing wrong with being dedicated to your work. Honestly, I prefer this to depending on a man emotionally. This is only done by stupid women who are not confident and independent enough, I am not like that. But you tell yourself that "
Number 29 .. exactly how right you are .. The author
The author flies in the clouds, but does not know what she really wants. You're in your 20s, you only had one serious friend, it's perfectly normal to want only sex for now. There will come a time when you will be satisfied - then they will run away from you, like a "devil of incense". Men understand from direct conversations, you are not direct enough - you give them ambiguous signals. Then your husbands are to blame because you are still immature and do not have a good approach. - For the record, I'm a woman!
Author, the problem is not that you can't explain to men that you want nothing but sex, given that you say it to yourself. You just can't pick men, and number 29 most likely. 90% of women, if not more, would not have sex in a sober state without feelings or material gain. It is normal for men at first to wonder what happens if we come across one of the few exceptions. So there are enough men who would not mind, including me, to use only for sex, and until then - to keep their word. It is much harder to find a woman for such a relationship. And over time, if they are longer, the topic is almost inevitable: "I'm in love, and I don't know how to admit it to him, because we're friends for sex in the first place."
May God protect your future husband from a nervous breakdown, if he understands how many badjans you have accumulated for him and how you only wanted sex. Humiliation comes first for you, but it's not enough for him to take such a drag. Learn morals and values, you are selfish and nasty.
Honey, you're a complete narcissist and limited to infinity. Apparently you like yourself too much to think that a decent man will go looking for you only for sex. I don't believe at all that you are a model from a magazine or a tuned poop on which the Batkovs can faint. If you are not ready for a relationship, there are other ways to experience sexual pleasure. In decent men, love comes even before sex or, in the worst case, the opposite. If you want to be someone's inflatable doll - go ahead, but you won't know what real, sensual sex is.
Author, in my opinion, someone has broken your heart a lot, so now only sex kills you, without feelings. As for the question, you have a mouth, say it, and at least don't waste a man's time if he doesn't just look for it.
"Doll" "narcissus" You are very sweet (hug for you) Thank you for your attention and comments to all of you. Number 34 and 36 cannons you are just ahahahaha: * It is worth posting something like that and reading negative comments. Many thanks to the people who gave me adequate advice.
You pretend to be something and men have started to show feelings for you, but you are more of an old withered bag and men don't care about you at all. But you have to make yourself stronger than them, so you accuse men of starting to falter in your "irresistible charm." Who knows what kind of grandmother Yaga is, whom no man looks at. Keep fantasizing.
Well, just tell them about your previous pieces, that you only wanted sex and that men don't understand it. When you say "I fucked about 10-20 people last year, I told 90% of them that I only want them for sex, and then they sink in and I can't understand how they don't understand me, that I only want sex." Tell this to a normal / abnormal man and I guarantee you that he will understand you, he will not ask anything from you except sex and he will not sink. And some would not touch you, but that's another matter.
I was like that after two or three terrible relationships, one of which was over 10 years old. For a whole year of counting, I didn't even go to regular coffee meetings. Well, a boy really sank, I judged him as a man, I gave him a chance and now I do not regret it. Well, there will always be someone among all these men who deserves it. There is nothing wrong with counting, but it fits at some point. The important thing is to know who to focus on.
Hahaha he just made me laugh. Sounds almost fun. I have the opposite problem and I am a woman of 30. Otherwise ... your problem is that you do not choose women. Really. I only enjoy such. You go after the good guys who fall in love from one sex. In addition, over the years, I have found it difficult to achieve what you are looking for. The reason is that a sex relationship is also a relationship and is also engaging. In order for someone to have regular sex, there must be great sympathy. I also had problems finding regular sex and they just play me .... today I can't, tomorrow I can't. They behave like inaccessible women. So I have no problem that they are in love with me, only one was like that, but I have a problem pulling like ladies. I found a top playboy, a former football player, tight, supported, sexy, gifted, perverted. I'm super happy. There is no grumbling ... I can't have sex today, I can't tomorrow. See you regularly. In this case, I want a relationship in the future, but for now I will not force things and have fun. This is the right man for me, not someone I will struggle with in bed.
If you only want sex, there is a gigolo, you pay and that's it. What do you inflate here like a turkey.
I have built an intuitive scheme, through which I was able to orient myself quite unmistakably in the lies and fabrications that surround me. This is not easy and is not always successful, but my experience is remarkable and proven positive. It's just that in most cases my intuitive scheme didn't mislead me. And that, sometimes, is important. In this case it is not. Author, You have dedicated your life to overcoming, to surpass, to prove to everyone else that you are superior to them. This is a very time consuming, time and energy activity. If it is not your personal passion (you are not in love with it), but is caused by the ambitions of relatives or friends, your efforts in this endeavor are even more engaging your senses. But they are tiring and overloading. That is why you seek sex only as a means of relaxation. In that case, you clearly underestimate the role of sex. You're expecting a man, to relieve you of all fatigue and tension, but you do not want to invest anything - it would be too tiring for you. You want to enter a men's brothel to be served. Well, if that's the case, do it. And don't blame people who indulge in sex, attitude, experience. You can't get a sexual servant without consequences. What has been written so far is with the presumption that what you describe about yourself is something that is not very attractive to you. Otherwise, you hardly need sex. The love of cultivation is difficult to combine with lust and passion for anything else. So (to put it mildly) you're kidding. Either you are not internally committed to your development, or things with sex are not exactly like that. There is a third option, but it concerns the truth about your gender. Which is bullshit again.