My story is as follows! My best friend, with whom we grew up in diapers, was even in the same class. He recently caught a girlfriend. I have nothing against her the girl is great. But she doesn't like me very much. annoyed when he is with me when we talk. I am asking you for advice on how to explain to her - even though I have done it 10,000,000 times - that there is nothing between N. and me. Sometimes I get angry and some of them. Understandably, she would be jealous, even if I were her best, I would probably kill the girl ... I'm kidding, of course. But there is really nothing between us. It is true that we are close, but there has never been falling in love (at least on my part) or a kiss. It is true that hugs are regular but this is something normal for me and N. How to act! I feel that it is very difficult for N. and he tried to convince her that we are just friends. Please give me advice on how to proceed but I do not want to argue with him. And please don't tell me what I would do if I were her because I understand her very well BUT I still want to find a way ....
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Do not give explanations to anyone on any occasion. If someone asks you for an explanation, then you can already think about whether to say something or not. There are people who are paranoid, those who are jealous, those who are to blame, and what they have in common is that whatever you tell them will not change what they think :) The law says that the more you justify and explain, the more bad :) The forest.
like the Law of the Jungle
The best way to show her that you have nothing in common between you and N. is to catch a boy and demonstrate your relationship to the jealous girl ** :)
There is no way to make her stop. The only way is very simple do not see this boy while he is with his boyfriend. Because I don't know if you understand, but you interfere so much with their relationship.
With an acquaintance of mine who is now 16, we are also growing up and she has a friend, I liked him, he is a cool guy, but with this Maria we were like brother and sister.
Sit down and talk to her !!!
Why did you friendzone this guy like that: D
Judging by what you described, she doesn't look like a "great" girl at all, but an annoying hysteric, jealous from the air, but that's my opinion. "And please don't tell me what I would do if I were in her place because I understand her very well BUT I still want to find a way ...." The problem is that she was not in your place and she has no idea that it is possible that there may be purely friendly relations between people of different sexes. I doubt that if your boyfriend had a diaper girlfriend, you would do such dramas. The problem is not in you. Limit your contact with her to maintain your own state of mind. See yourself with Avera mainly in her absence. Her boyfriend to get better, he chose her;)
I can't help myself. And I have a very good friend M. - we have only been friends for 34 years! Classmates from 1st grade together. He slept at home, my children were around, even my son became friends, he is very young and gets along with my teenager ... I slept with them. There has never been anything between us except strong hugs and kisses on the cheeks. This best friend of mine has helped me hundreds of times with different things in life. I also tried to help him. Some time ago I had a boyfriend ... hey, he sat waiting for me until night to see if we would do something with M., when he was my guest, not to jump on me ... We have never had sex for 30 years and there is no let's do it, now that my children are in the next room ... M. is the brother I didn't have. I know few men would understand me, but I always defend our friendship, survived for over 30 years and I believe it will be until the end of our days. Sit down and talk, you three. Friendship between a man and a woman can exist, although it is definitely rare. It depends on the people. I had another very good one, just a friend for about 7-8 years - it came to me ... and things fell apart ... Alex Cabot.
There is nothing to explain, the problem is hers. If she has a problem in her relationship, it's not your fault. Don't ruin your friendship with the boy, tomorrow he will find another boyfriend and he will understand that this jealousy is not for him.