I've been dating a girl for over a year, I love her with all my heart and she says she loves me, but it doesn't seem that way. He's been acting weird for a few weeks and says he's always dating some girlfriends I haven't heard of. I hired a private detective (like from "Caught in Infidelity") and yesterday he showed me pictures and recordings of her pushing with someone. When she came home, I asked her if there was anyone else in her life. She looked at me and said NO. Then I exploded and showed her the photos and recordings. I had a fierce fight with her. I asked her why she did it and if she ever loved me. She said that she loved me and that I was everything to her and she did it not out of feelings but out of curiosity. I know that before we met she was with a lot of men, but I was not interested in that then or now (if the whole of Sofia had passed between her legs). Despite this act of hers, I still love her, but not in the same way. We won't break up, but I don't think I'll ever be ready to sleep with her again.
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Personally, I can't forgive infidelity ... You decide for yourself.
He will not part with her, but he will not sleep with her either !!! I don't think it will last long.
I didn't say I would never sleep with her. It's just that whenever I think of her, I imagine how she fixes it.
Infidelity is hard to forgive, but if you love her so much, try her. Sao, never tease her!
AUTHOR: why ?????
Brother, no matter how much you love her, abandon her now, because you will soon suffer a lot. I tell you from experience! And what does "Curiosity" mean? This is a terribly stupid excuse. If she waves, no problem! But don't be the one sitting at home waiting for her to get full. Don't break your nerves! Now you may not believe it and do not want to realize it, but once a woman cheats on you once, it is very rare that this does not happen 2 and 3 times, etc. Besides, the worm of jealousy and doubt has already settled in your mind and will eat you slowly and surely from within, until nothing is left of your soul. Don't do it to yourself!
Such a relationship does not make sense to separate better instead of causing pain. He who loves does not cheat to know, say it from personal experience.
You will have to load up with a lot of patience and "unconditional" love until your girlfriend satisfies her curiosity, if at all possible. People have said: If water and a woman leave, there will be no stopping.
Drop it, friend !! You think very correctly that nothing will be the same anymore. The only girl I loved, and she truly and unreservedly remembered after 6 years that I was super cool and no one loved her more than me, etc., but I did not accept her. No matter how much he explained to me that already she realized that no one could replace me (bass penetration was 6 years late) and cry and call me and for two months she walked on me like a puppy I did not accept her. My heart broke but I did not accept her. Simply betrayal destroys all possibilities for continuing the relationship. Even if you are with her, you will always wonder if you did well, if and if so, when she will cheat on you, if she really doesn't do it these days and other such thoughts. .
And why did you hire a private detective? I would say this is below the dignity of someone !!! After you doubted, you should have retired, not played detectives. How I hate such men, because I went through something similar. And if she doesn't have the courage or is afraid to say that she DOESN'T LOVE YOU ??? And he loves the other ??? Because that's exactly what it is for me ... it wasn't a follow-up, for everything "but why so ?, why else" You better leave her, she obviously doesn't love you. And so that there is no torment and you can always imagine how the other "fixes" it, it is best to leave it alone!
Up to 10: Why not hire a private detective - if in doubt, to be sure. Therefore. And if he's wrong, he can still be sure that he won't hurt her with unnecessary suspicions. Ha, so the author told herself how she lied to him in the face that there was no one else (it's good that he had the photos in his hands to make the truth shine). So let her lie as she pleases, right? By the way, and people like you to wave their flag without bothering them? Well, you are very impudent! He wanted to be sure - that's it. Everyone has a right to it. As you can see, the girl will never admit it, so she has the right to hire a detective. Even a few, if he wants.
Dude, dump her before it's too late!