Hello all boy I am 17 years old almost 18! This summer came a cousin of a fr with whom I have known for 3-4 years! I've always liked her from the first moment, but this summer something changed and I started to fall in love with her! The girl is as old as me! So my question is how exactly to tell her, in principle, when I call her she is always curled up to go out, when a love song starts she sings and looks at me, gave me the password on her phone and even her best friend doesn't know it which leads me to think that she also likes me and has feelings for me! Please give your opinion and give me advice on how to tell her! I also liked other girls, but nothing more, and it's already different with her and it's hard for me, but I'm afraid she won't cut me off, because then I'll go crazy! Help!
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Do not tell her. You say and it is likely to turn its back on you. When you are alone, hug her and try to kiss her lightly. That will be enough. And boldly. Aren't you a man? And you don't die from it;)
Dude, you have to be masculine, not childish. Don't look at her like a puppy, invite her to come out with the remark: "let's go out". During the walk in the park, he grabbed her by the arm. Surprise her. Tell her you really want to take her to one place and take her. Talk to her both as a friend and hang her and carry her. joke with her, but by no means with any of her physical flaws! At some point, grab her by the waist and tell her you like her a lot. Then slowly kiss her! Initially tender then passionate. Let her knees bend! Tell her you like her, but you want to get to know her. Don't tell her right away that you're in love and other childhoods. Let him gnaw at her from within, let him wonder if you have feelings, let him fight for you! In my opinion, from what you have written, she likes you and is waiting for you to take the first step as a man. As a man, however, not like a boy. She may be your age, but she wants a MAN! Be a man! Make her crazy about you. If you play your cards correctly, the babe is 100% yours! Important !!!! By no means shoot the children's remarks: "Do you want to become my boyfriend" or "Do you want to go with me"? It's very loser for your age. For kindergarten they are different.
Go for a walk just the two of you in a special place - the park, by the river, something like that, gather courage and just say it. Or send a heart on Facebook. It's so fashionable now. If she sends you a heart, then she likes you.
Number 2 is right. Don't tell her, just invite her out. But don't ask her, and suggest something like "let's go out" or "I have 2 tickets for a movie (preferably romantic or comedy), let's watch it". And the invitation should not be in front of everyone, not to worry and refuse you shame, but while you are talking only you. You can invite her to a movie, bar, park, etc., you know her better and you should know what she would like more or less. But don't ask her where she wants, and you as a man offer her directly. The man must decide. And at the meeting itself, try to make physical contact - holding the hand, waist, touching the hair, etc. Of course, without being intrusive, but also without being too withdrawn, you are in place for the reaction and you will feel if it is pleasant and to what extent.
It's summer - invite her to the beach or to the spa. Enter a jacuzzi and she will immediately know that you like her;) And you will look at her better;)
With words.