How Can I Tell Him I'm Hurt ...

   Look, I know it's cruel, but it's time to start liking yourself the way you are or change something. Your friend knows very well that he is not physically attractive, but this is not so scary for a man if he has a good job and has succeeded - men measure each other like that, it is not by chance that they give crazy money for cars and similar gadgets. For a woman, physical beauty is the measure. The truth can hurt, but it can also be an occasion for a person to wake up, to say to himself - right, I'm young, I can do something of myself and see him later! You choose whether to stay with him or not, but in your place I would first pay attention - the fastest and easiest way to change hair, cosmetics, clothes, style. Consult an attractive friend. In general, men have always liked women with long hair. If you do not have a nice body, enroll in a gym and change your diet. There are a lot of attractive men there, apart from the fat in the sports clubs, who will pay attention to you / many women are not there / and will increase your self-confidence. Clothes? But do it for yourself !!! Every woman can do something of herself, as long as she asks. Pleasure doesn't even have to be expensive. A woman with long hair, for example, visits the hairdresser much less often, you can have a few, but nice clothes, etc. Success

   Ask him if he thinks you are beautiful, if he says "yes" (as he will do) then ask him why behind his back he shared the opposite with his friend. Then the scandal and the excuses will start and just stand and listen to what he will say to you. You will understand how much he has given you, how much he has done for you, how he supports you and thousands of nonsense with which to collapse even more in your eyes. The other option is to be silent, to swallow it for 2-3 days you will experience this bitterness, but you will remember and you will get angry. There are no ugly women, there are drummers like your husband only where he is not able to appreciate the woman next to him

   Show him that he has something to lose and start to worry. Start putting on make-up often, change your hairstyle, dress a little more attractively (not undressing) and most importantly go out more often with friends. You have to think that you are beautiful for others to think. Good luck

   To write such a thing means that he is a simpleton. Try to dump it faster until you are married with children and this garbage sits and drinks beer on your couch. I am a man and I have always wondered at the simplicity of such people. The worst thing for me is to torture my family and hurt them. I suggest you take him somewhere and dump him in a public place and take him out in front of the whole city like a simpleton, let's see if he can find a nice one. You can even use a cliché from the movies. Go to a cafe or restaurant and flood it with what you drink or eat.

   Let's start with the fact that when a person is in love, even if a gorilla is against him, she will be the most beautiful in his eyes. This person DOES NOT LOVE YOU and feels a certain amount of shame if your quote is correct. You already live together, things have become more complicated. Swallow the insult and think that at such an early stage, he allows himself to discuss in this way with his friends what he would be capable of in the future. And one piece of advice - by no means tell him that you dug into his computer / phone! . Good luck.

   I also don't think you should say you read the message. A woman's beauty lies in her radiance, if he does not see you beautiful, it means that neither you are in love with him, nor is he in love with you. Love makes people beautiful. I think your love is yet to come, but not with this man. Love and please yourself, do it for yourself, and others will respond with the same. Success!

   Egati the self-confident fool ... In your place I would pack my bags and leave without giving him ANY explanation. Dumb .... leave him, as I watch he seems to want to get rid of him, give him this pleasure ... he is not the last man on this earth. You will overcome it!

   Make him jealous. Show him that you are a liked and desired woman and that he is not at all sure of this simpleton's job. And the best thing to do is to dump him and tell him it's because of someone else (not necessarily true)!

   Thanks to everyone for the advice ... they are really useful to me, tonight I will think and tomorrow I will finally decide what I want and whether I want it with him. I will not tell him that I know and I will once again read everything he wrote to fully and accurately understand his words. I really don't think I'm ugly, I'm weak, but I really like the idea of ​​make-up and provocative clothes. Thank you all very much. Good evening and the difficulties are to be overcome, right?

   (От номер 7) - мила, разбира се, че с готин грим и с готини дрешки, които да подчертават женствеността и сексапила ти - ще изглеждаш много по-добре, НО ако приятеля ти те оцени, само заради един грим и едни парцалки... смятай, че не те обича. Наясно съм, че ти е гадно, като го казвам - но не е в теб проблема, а в него! Смисъл, той е наясно, че си му в кърпа вързана, може би леко си се занемарила и той е спокоен, защото няма от кой да те "варди". Той за мен е един самозабравил се комплексар. Сега си влюбена в него, но повярвай ми, колкото и време да ти отнеме, ще го преодолееш - ако ти искаш! Аз ти го казвам, аз, която страдах по един тъпак толкова много време и не мога да повярвам, че най-после се съвзех и го забравих. Знам, че ти е гадно от това, което си е писал с неговия приятел, но недей да се комплексираш, недей да се затваряш в себе си заради някакъв самозабравил се използвач, на който сигурно всяка вечер му е сготвено, дрехите му са изпрани и изгладени... права ли съм? Остави го. Не те заслужава! Тръгни си. Кажи му, че искаш да се разделите временно.... Колкото по-рано го забравиш, толкова по-добре. А ако не искаш да го оставиш... тогава ще е добре да се опиташ да повишиш самочувствието си, да се обличаш по-секси, и да му даваш поводи за ревност. Тогава ще иска да си както преди. Не знам... ти решаваш. Аз на твое място бих си тръгнала... бих му казала, че искам да се разделим за малко, без да му давам абсолютно никакви други обяснения. Нека твоя приятел да разбере, че не си кукла на конци. Пиши какво е станало, какво си решила... много ми е интересно как ще се развият нещата и дали твоя приятел ще е толкова самоуверен в себе си както до сега. Най-мразя такива като него...

   Hi from me too, dear girl, I guess you've already talked to your boyfriend, but I don't know why I think nothing will come of the conversation. Yesterday I read your topic and today I wanted to see if there is a development and if you wrote. I hope things work out in the best possible way for you. Very insulting words addressed to a woman in love. Unfortunately, men do not pay attention to words and how they hurt us. However, what he wrote is very insulting ... I am over 40 years old and I still remember the time when my boyfriends kept finding fault with me: student love, that I was thin, but my ass was very big and that I had to tighten up and take an example from our fellow student, who was very well put together / she did not go to lectures and exercises and could barely make ends meet, not working /; ex-husband - that I was very short and boiled in his socks and it was not a joke, I assure you / as if I could hide my height before marriage - it is true that I am 1.60, and he-1.90 /. It is true that the reason for the end of my relationship with student love and my marriage are not these words, but I still remember them, right. Then, when the end came, they went to beg me to give them one last chance and to continue with me, the ugly and unworthy of their persona, but too late. Now I can say that I look much better than most of my peers, and also than women younger than me. For me, the key is moderation in everything: I do not drink, I do not smoke, I eat white bread and meat, cheese, milk, fruits, vegetables, sweets in moderation; I walk a lot, I don't train anything / I'm not a sports type /, but mostly the key is that I like myself like that, as I am - with cellulite here and there, with a height of 1.60 and a weight of about 50-53 kg, with the small belly that I recently lost, with gray hair, but I do not care that a man did not like me so much, not to worry about competition. The truth is that now I have many more candidates for a serious relationship than when I was younger, but who cares. I choose, not only me ... Courage and head up, for someone you will be the most beautiful !!! / Courage and head up, for someone you will be the most beautiful !!! / Courage and head up, for someone you will be the most beautiful !!! /

   To tell you the truth, if I were you, I would probably feel the same way. However! Recently, my brother said the same about his new girlfriend, with whom he lives. He said that she was not beautiful, but at least he would not think that she would not give him a whore's trick and that as a person she was class above every beautiful muffin. Honestly, I got it right. Maybe your friend meant the same thing - that he values ​​your soul, that he likes you the way you are. There are always more beautiful than us, but the important thing is that the person we love is with us. And the opposite is true, of course.