Hello, I am an 18-year-old girl and I would like to know how you can tell if a man is gay. Nowadays, I have the feeling that every second person is gay, only he is hidden and does not admit it. Not that it's bad, but so far I've had 3 such relationships - with supposedly "heterosexual", who later admit that they are homo. I will be glad to hear your impressions and opinions on the matter.
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Disguised gay men are often homophobic. If he speaks against gay men often, then he may be a covert gay man.
The same problem with me, only it's about girls. I don't know why so many girls are already the opposite. I really have a feeling that every 5th is prone to this.
"How do you know ...?" You can't understand unless the vision allows you to do so. The only way is to ask him, having lunch beforehand to tell him that you don't mind homosexuals, and so on. In another way ... Having said that you have been in a relationship with such men, you should have at least some knowledge of their behavior, for example, around other men. Look for example. Body language speaks a lot as long as you know how to read it (;
Sometimes it's a little hard to recognize them, but I think these signs are common: 1 Either they talk often about LGBT rights or they run like the devil from incense on this topic. 2 They like pop music and they don't like rap 3 They go to the gym too much or don't dare to go there at all (not because of laziness) 4 They care too much about their appearance 5 Fans are Eurovision 6 They are disgusted by horror movies and movies with too much violence 7 Hate Hitler and the Nazis (they saved the world from at least 1 million soft wrists)
The author, at the age of 18, how many relationships did you have to meet 3 gays, since according to statistics they are less than 10 percent? Number 2, by your logic, anyone who speaks out against Negroes is a hidden Negro. Number 6, get hidden.
There is something else - refusal of intimate contact - if you ask him when you will have fun, he can say that he is not ready, not in the mood, he is too tired from work - there was such a case in "True Stories" - a family man avoids intimate contacts with his wife, and she wondered what she had until she hired a private detective and found out what the job was - her husband was the opposite! In general, these are the signs that a reverse man never wants women!
Up to 3 Someone can use it as an excuse to lose you.
I myself have a friend who admitted to me that he was gay. These are some of the "symptoms" (this word is not appropriate because being gay is not a disease) 1) Take care of your appearance like girls. 2) They store their blouse / t-shirt in their jeans (this does not apply to everyone, but it is a sign) 3) They walk in a straight line 4) You will never see them with 0 or 1 hair number. NEVER. Their hairstyles are so modern. 5) They like Billy Ailish and some artists you can think of. 6) For example, if you say to a disguised gay "Look, he has an earring, all gays wear them" and he answers you with "It's not true, you can't judge a man because of an earring" and something like that. HE'S GAY !!! It was this conversation that happened to my best friend, who is gay. And then he hadn't confessed to me yet. Draw your own conclusions
Up to 6 Some of the older people in Bulgaria do not like rap music, but they are not the opposite. Hitler was a bad man. He has been declared a villain all over the world.
A lot of nonsense - if he doesn't look like it, then you can't understand. The most absurd thing is that of homophobia. Absolutely no one will go into disguise this way.
According to me, the author was disappointed with her 3 unsuccessful relationships and that's why "supposedly" these guys she was gay with ... Safe from feminists !!! The fact that you did not succeed in these 3 relationships does not mean that the boys are necessarily the opposite ... But that typical female logic ... Or the lack of such !!! Have a nice day and I hope you go with the fourth, and if not - then the reason is obviously rooted somewhere deep inside you ...
How did you have gay relationships like that? I thought gays dated men. You're a girl, aren't you? Hey people, I was completely confused. Finally, lesbians who look like men will go with transvestites who look like women. Author, it also matters who is passive and who is active. The active ones often overflow with testosterone, they look masculine, but they fuck everything alive because their libido is high. Passives are easily recognizable. The mix between the two is hard to tell
Number 7 A heterosexual man is not annoyed by gay men because there are more women for him, and gay men are not his competition.
Hello, there is an undercut hairstyle.
6, are fans of Eurovision lol ....
If you are ugly and a person desperately wants to get rid of you, he can resort to such an excuse. Or drool and try how naive you are and whether you will believe. Obviously you are.
8, well, he may just be asexual or he may want to but he shouldn't for health reasons. On the topic - if he loves chalga or rock.
I've noticed that gays only hang out with girls. With boys rarely.
From the Author: Well, I don't know, in all three cases the boys were one of the most beautiful and popular at school, they had many admirers. No girl assumes they have homosexual tendencies. I'm basically beautiful and I also have a lot of fans, but I chose the 3 guys in question because I didn't think they were gay. They respected me, gave me presents, we went out, but when it came to sex, they immediately avoided the topic - either pretending to have a cold or being tired. Finally, in two of the cases, the boys admitted their inclinations to me, and in the third case, I noticed them kissing quite by accident. I started to create complexes and think that I have the problem, even though I am slim, tall, with a nice body. Not that I am against gays, on the contrary, I support them, but still biology tells itself the need and I feel the need to have sex with a man. :)
Hello, author! In fact, you can't tell if he's gay until you ask him. The whole stereotype that feminine men or those who care more about their appearance are gay men is totally wrong. True, many gay men are more extravagant in their self-expression, but that doesn't mean they are all. There are many straight men that society would define as gay, but they are not! Dear people, this is one of the many stories in which women have a problem with their boyfriend later turning out to be gay. All this is due to homophobia in our country, which forces many people to hide their own identity and not be what they are. They use girls as a screen so that they can look like a real straight guy. They are a victim of your hatred, a victim of hatred, you inadvertently became, author, for which I am very sorry.
On the soft wrists, their movements are like weightless, mostly twisting their buttocks. By many signs, speech - they speak greasy, the clothes - they wear more colorfully, but in everything, they get fat like women!
You must be very sticky and they were wondering how to get rid of you, at least that's what happened
To Number 9 of 3. For other people it may be so, but for me it is not at least at the moment. I know. My current girlfriend is the second bisexual person I date and I'm in a "relationship" with. She wanted me. But the past is still a complete mystery, but she didn't lie to me that she was with women, I just don't know how far they've come. And this isn't the only bisexual I'm dating, but some don't tell you that at first. But there are many, I live in a small town and there are at least 10-15 such girls who do not even hide it.
Not only did I have a gay relationship in the past, but I was very much in love with him. To this day, I wonder if he was gay or bisexual because having sex with him was great. Neither by demeanor, by absolutely nothing can you know that he sleeps with men. So ... I didn't understand how to recognize gays, but just like you, I already have the feeling that every second person is a disguised gay man. In principle, I have nothing against gays, but men who are the opposite, and create families, even children ... Well, there is nothing below !!
Just because a man doesn't want to have intimate contact with a woman doesn't necessarily mean he's gay. Yes, you should definitely turn on the red light, but it doesn't have to be. I think there are men you can never even assume aren't heterosexual unless they decide to admit it themselves. For the rest, it is clear that the attitude itself and at least the vision suggest it. And let me just say - it's pretty mean to get in touch with a woman with a clear mind to "hide" with her. Honestly, I don't care who has what sexuality, but mean people definitely disgust me.
Number 6, not everyone is like that. My ex-husband, who said he was and really is a metal dude, dresses in black, doesn't go to the gym - he's overweight, watches horror movies, admires Hitler, even bought Nazi symbols that I told him not to wear because it is illegal. So, what you have listed is not a criterion, unfortunately, otherwise it would have been very easy. Here are the things I noticed in him that are a bit gay - 1. he likes a lot of cats, which is not an indicator, but around them his voice becomes so squeaky, rejoicing, very feminine. 2. He insults people of "ped * races" or metrosexuals, even though he himself is gay, but he doesn't tell everyone. 3. Tell me about the rights of bisexuals and how much they are unjust and almost excommunicated, unlike homo and heterosexual people. 4. He kept telling me how much he liked lesbians, from the beginning of our relationship, when he hadn't told me he liked men either. 5. Even then he was telling me how many "ped * eras" took him down - his roommate, then his colleague had sent a picture of some computer part and he was wearing boxer shorts, then the same man had allegedly hugged him over the shoulder. He was outraged, but I'm not sure heterosexual men get gay so often. 6. According to my mother, he walked like that, but I hadn't noticed it, she only told me after we broke up and I told her she liked men. 7. There are mostly male friends on Facebook and strangers to me, most are added at random. 8. Once we went to a metal bar, and he went to someone and hugged him hot, and I don't know him, it was strange, and he was blushing. He said he knew me. In the same bar, he was talking to another man, who didn't pay much attention to him, about what a young boy had done. His name is Plamen, and my ex called him by a nickname, but he was only known to him ... 9. Once again he was chatting at 2 in the morning, which irritated me because it happened once again and I went and asked him in good faith. with whom he chatted, expecting him to lie to me or say that he was chatting with a woman, and he told me that one of his classmates was writing to him now to tell him how much he was glad to know a man like him. What can I say, this is quite indicative: D The chat lasted a long time. I opened my classmate's profile recently out of curiosity and saw that there were photos of bars embracing only men. So there from a wedding, where women were also invited, but everything else is with men in bars. He had said that he had secrets. Once we went to a concert and the ex said that he would sleep alone with his godfather, that he could not come and go to my sister for a more comfortable sleep. And in the meantime he went out with friends and with this same classmate. Then when we met at the station he was very withdrawn for no reason and did not want to help me with a jelly, which was heavy for me because I am 50 kg, and for him it was not heavy because it is 120. 5-6 kg. at most it was. And in general it helps me with luggage. He was behaving very strangely. 10. He constantly forces me to be very jealous and to have problems with female readers, and this is not the case and he knows it. He has several girlfriends he talks to and who are decent girls. But there was one at 16 who took it off, which of course I was angry about. But he deliberately provokes or tries to provoke jealousy and show how popular he is with women, so that it is not understood that he likes men. 10. He constantly talks about how much he is liked by women, and he with his appearance can hardly be particularly liked, because he is 120 kg and does not stop eating donuts, does not make an effort to look good. There may be someone here and there who got lost on the Internet from time to time, but he claims that there are more and brags. I think he kills complexes because he's gay. He also tries to provoke me to be jealous of him by talking to me about some women, but I stopped being attached to him and was disappointed. It happened most brazenly to flirt with the saleswoman in the store, for example, but even then she was disappointed that there was no scandal. They only asked him if they knew each other, he said no, but he had dragged her to the store warehouse. It was funny to me, because he was joking, and that was it. But in my opinion, men who do not use their wives as a screen and hold on to them never speak and do not play whore numbers.
Nonsense. It is known, no matter how much they hide. At least so far I recognize them unmistakably. They can go to the gym, hand it out to downloaders, but they haven't fooled me. Watch how they react to cool men, the look, the smiles, even their voice changes, the way they look at a man. You just need observation. They are indifferent to me in general, but I can accept more those who do not hide and pretend.
Well, it is evident in the gait, the way of expression and the overall feeling it radiates.
An author for a beauty like you, of course, you will have many admirers, but I do not understand how and why these boys from the same school will make you gifts. Well, once you like them, they don't need to give you presents because you're tied in a towel. If you liked them, then you were ready to go to bed with each of them, why should they make you gifts. There is no logic in your comment about their gifts. As for your opinion that every second man is gay, you are wrong again. I will say that ALMOST all women are potential lesbians or at least bisexual. It remains for you to say to which detachment you belong. Come on, admit it.
hello good day, I'm gay and if you know your husbands and boyfriends how to fuck with men from sex sites you will feel bad, but they are completely normal right ... come on health and beware of sexually transmitted diseases that are not very protected your men ...
I fully confirm what was shared by comment 34! I have also registered on such a site and I am just shocked at how desperately married men are looking for contact with boys even 25 years younger than them. They wait for their wives to go to work and use the hours in which they are alone in active search for partners of the same sex. It is very unfortunate that if all these people, instead of ruining their lives with relationships in which they are not happy, stood behind them and fought for what they are, the situation in our country would be like in more developed countries. , at least in this regard. So, people, wake up a little so that we can ensure our normal existence in our own country. It is not only homophobia that is to blame, but also the fact that we ourselves are not fighting for something better and we are not defending ourselves.
And I want to know what you know. If he has a squeaky voice, but not feminine, just more squeaky; skinny, dresses normally, never allows comments for people with different orientations. He loves flowers, he grows them. Twice I accidentally spotted him looking at (and within about 5-10 minutes) two men, but that's it. He claims that he wants to find a girlfriend, but probably only for the public, a kind of screen. He loves biathlon and tennis. I think he only watches men's biathlon, and once he read an article about Grigor Dimitrov.