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How Do I Choose Between The Two?

By sonytvofficial September 01, 2020 12 answers Last updated September 01, 2020

I want advice ... A man of 29. Some time ago (at about the same time) I met two girls. (Let's call them P and D) I wouldn't say that I love both, because I think it's impossible to love two people at the same time. The heart is one. I know I love one, but how do I know which one it is? I keep in touch with both, I go out from time to time with both. I do not deceive them. I'm not like that. I try not to have sex because I'm still confused, they're both friends (not very close) and I'm dumb, but how do I know who 'my girl' is. Both are wonderful. They listen to me, they understand me, they like me and it feels ... but I can't choose ... the day when we got to a hell of a hot situation with one, suddenly at that moment while I was with G I thought about P and it happened to me damn it, I felt like I was lying to her ... even though that we do not walk. Have any of you been in a similar situation? Both are so amazing, so different, what one has is not in the other and vice versa.

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ishyraa_1 answered · September 01, 2020

   You are not in love with any of them - you like them, reason has judged them to be appropriate, but you are not in love. The man in love does not ask himself such questions - HE KNOWS immediately where his heart is drawn.

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uriminkoff answered · September 01, 2020

   It doesn't matter if the author is in love or not, it doesn't matter, because love can only blind him. The problem in this case is that the two candidates have similar qualities to a scale and it is difficult to choose. Well, you can't understand, just after a long time, doing an analysis in terms of time spent together, you will draw your own conclusions, and now you are in a stalemate and no advice here will be useful to you, so, as there was a joke - choose the one with bigger tits :))) Or more precisely choose the one that attracts you more physically, it is clear that the other qualities are on the scales. M, 35

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rikanyako answered · September 01, 2020

   Ch..hay them both until disassembly and who gets pregnant first - take her!

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bebestore answered · September 01, 2020

   If you are wondering which of the two - then neither. Stop the funny topic ... If you were in love with one - you would know which one, it's close to your mind. It's like buying two items, but without one for some reason you can't, because you love it, and the other - you can do without it.

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uesugitakashi answered · September 01, 2020

   You turn the two chicks around quite a bit - are they aware that they are competitors, because I have little doubt that they will be waiting for you until you choose one of them. I'm sorry, but you think quite infantilely about a 29-year-old man ... How long have you been together (you say you don't go out from time to time), that he even loves one of them, and you don't even know which one exactly ... I'll laugh :) Do you even recognize this feeling? If you were more aware of yourself, you would know which one you really want, in the case of neither ...

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srmgamingca answered · September 01, 2020

   Whenever you compare them, the heart draws more to one than to the other!

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ariabane answered · September 02, 2020

   Petya and Gerry

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hyundai answered · September 02, 2020

   Not Adi and Nelly.

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rosietits21 answered · September 02, 2020

   Choose the second one you fell in love with, if you really loved the first one, there would be no second one.

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officiallinah answered · September 03, 2020

   I think P is Plamena and G is Gergana, Geri :)

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armandoizzoreal answered · September 03, 2020

   if you think of P, then you care more about her

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sex_big469 answered · September 03, 2020

   Dude, I'm in a similar situation with a boy your age. Ask about both and if they are friends, even if they don't look close to you, they probably know about each other. Men often think that women are toys in your hands and you don't even realize that you are toys in theirs. If I'm right and they know about each other, then at least one of them is only for fun, so the next time you go out with one of them, take a little interest in them. Women are like guns, if you are not careful, it can hurt you a lot.