Hello! I'm a girl of 15 and I'm in 9th grade. To put it mildly, I'm not very sociable and I can't make friends with a lot of people, but I have friends. People in the class make fun of me for not being a good student (in the sense that I don't speak many languages) and insult me with nicknames like the stupid one, not at school, but always on the bus home. A few minutes ago, my mother came home from the parents' meeting and told me that she had told all the parents and the lady in English about their ridicule and that it had not been brought up that way. I understand she is doing it for my own good, but there is the question that the parents of my classmates will tell them and tomorrow will be a new wave of ridicule. I really hate them when they start like this or by behaving arrogantly with the teachers, but I'm always silent, I never say anything, and she made it so that tomorrow I'm even more bowed. I no longer know how to explain to her that she can talk to the teachers as much as she wants, but not to the parents, who as gossips will tell their children about it instead of keeping quiet. Thanks for reading any of the lines I wrote. Have a good night. :) From Rumi
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If you do not want any information to be spread, it is best not to share it with anyone. And parents still think they understand, but sometimes they make mistakes and make things even worse. (Don't blame them, they just want to help but don't know how).
Why do you care what I think? Stop doing it because you're wasting your time and energy. Fuck and that's it :)
Well, you just don't have to care honestly ... Even if you eat from the inside, don't show emotion.
Just talk to your mother and tell her what you want her not to do. Say that you understand and appreciate what she does for you, but your sets (so to speak) will make fun of you even more, and their parents will not be able to influence them. And those who offend you, tell them to see themselves in the mirror, and understand that you are beautiful externally and internally, but unfortunately they are beautiful only externally. :)))) I hope this helps you :)))) I apologize if I made a mistake somewhere.
Your mother told you very politely. Mine once went and yelled at my classmates when I was 6th grade.
I also took great taunts from kindergarten to 7th grade. In the children's mother, I talked to the teacher, who turned to the whole group and told them everything. As a result, my children "allowed" me to play with them, but I had to be the maid - to bring them toys, chairs, etc. They behaved arrogantly and rudely. Well, I know what you're talking about ... In the beginning, it was the same thing - I was one of the annoying children with small opportunities, which led to a hoax by the "cool" students. I roared to school. I am now 26 years old and I wonder where my head was to be so impressed by various morons. I remember how sick I was and how the days at school seemed endless, but the moment you graduate, it won't matter at all. No one is asleep.