Hi, I'm a 15 year old boy. I guess the topic is pretty dumb, but I really need help. Until about a year ago, I didn't care much for girls. I liked one from time to time, but I never did anything because I knew it wouldn't happen. However, about half a year ago I started trying to find a boyfriend. I guess some of you will say that these things will happen by themselves, but I do not believe that. At least not in my case. I don't think I'm ugly, but I'm definitely not one of the super beautiful. I'm also not very social, which I think is my biggest problem. I just have the feeling that I don't have common topics with so many people. My friends can be counted on my fingers. I have a lot of acquaintances, but I have no common interests with almost any of them and that's why I'm hello with most people, bye. I haven't had much success since I started looking. The only thing is that I started to communicate and write with a few more girls, but they are just acquaintances / girlfriends and nothing more. I guess I sound pretty desperate and that's kind of the case: D. I just want to have a girl by my side, that's all. If you can give me some ideas on how to communicate with more girls and how to act, I will be very grateful.
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You're going to coffee, bars, my friend.
Keep looking, don't associate, write to each other and go out with girls and it's only a matter of time before you catch one. It is true that things do not happen by themselves, that you do something about it is commendable, but be careful not to get obsessed with the idea of just having a girlfriend, it is noticeable and repulses people because you look desperate. Don't think too much of him, behave naturally and the right girl will like you. Success! - Girl, 19 years old.
Hi, First I want to congratulate you that at 15 you are already interested in girls, not like most of your peers in video games. Secondly, in order for a girl to like you, you have to have self-confidence and I'm not telling you that ugly matchmaking behavior, and when you like a girl, look her in the eyes without looking away from her and smile at her. Secondly, you should know that we girls almost never take the first step, so if you like a girl, go and talk to her and ask her something about her hobby or tell her how beautiful a smile she has, but not to say something but with a high head and smile. Success! The sweet peach