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How Do I Find It?

By AnnaAsian October 02, 2020 9 answers Last updated October 02, 2020

I am 18 years old, 5 years ago I met a man, he was about 10 years older than me, I fell in love with him, we had this and that, but for a very short time. After 2 years, when I was 15, I met this man again, he was very passionate, but again I did not allow him to be with me, I did not feel ready to have sex, and we never saw each other again, but he remains the most - the passionate man for me. I want to find him, I long to feel what I missed, I hoped fate would meet us again, but it never happens, we are from the same city, but we never find ourselves anywhere, I don't know how to contact him. Ever since I met this man, I can't stop thinking about him, especially lately, I dream about him every night, I long for him, I look for him on various sites, but I never find him. :(

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eurospects answered · October 02, 2020

   Hello! I have almost the same story as yours. I am 20 and 4 years ago I met a boy. He was beautiful at my age and had the most beautiful eyes. But since he was not from my city, I did not want to fall in love, I knew he would leave and I would never see him again. I thought that the next time I saw him he would be in the other world, but I knew I would never forget the man with the most beautiful eyes. I met him again last year and at first I couldn't remember how I knew him, but unlike me, he knew me right away. We talked a little and parted. But from that moment on, it never left my mind. When I met him again, I had the feeling that the sun was rising in front of me. After all, he is the man I thought I would meet in the other world. From that moment I realized that I have it and with effort and faith I will find it. I set a goal to find him. And I started a crazy search on various sites. I entered MIRC and since his city did not have a canal, I entered canals of cities adjacent to his city. But I didn't meet anyone from his town there, and no one knew him, and the worst part was that I had forgotten his name. Sometimes I laughed to myself that I was looking for a person I didn't know his name. I had turned to a name that turned out to be wrong, but I still had to "grab something." I found a duplicate of him on a website. Of course, I knew in my eyes that he was not the man I was looking for. But I still took a picture of him. So after a long interrogation at MIRC, I met a man from his town, and since he was from a small town, I was sure he would know him. And I ask him who you are and he shouts "I don't know anyone." I knew that the name I was referring to is wrong. Then I sent him the picture and explained that I had forgotten his name. He recognized him immediately and told me his name, but unfortunately he changed his phone number. Then I kept asking about him and came across one of his cousins ​​who told me his number. I called him !!! We haven't met yet and I don't know what will happen, but I'm happy to have found him! I hope to win his heart, I want to be with this man. At least I will know that I did everything that was up to me. And so dear, there are NO IMPOSSIBLE THINGS. You are at least from one city. Make a list of possible places where you can meet him. Even take the phone book or whatever comes to mind. Try everything. It will somehow work out. You communicated with him, remember everything he likes to do, where he likes to walk, what he likes to eat. Everything matters. I wish you success. Don't give up, you will succeed, I achieved it. And when you find it, write and tell. I will be happy for you. I hope I was useful to you!

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thicklilthang answered · October 02, 2020

   1.HELLO! WALK FREQUENTLY, IF YOU CAN, OF COURSE, TO THE PLACES YOU HAVE MEET AND DON'T STOP HOPING. YOU CAN DO SOMETHING ELSE - IT MAY SEEM A LITTLE CRAZY, BUT I THINK YOUR DREAMS CAN HELP YOU A LOT. TRY TO REMEMBER WHICH PLACES YOU DREAMED OF IT ON THE SECOND DAY, IF YOU CAN GO TO THIS PLACE, IT MAY BE THERE, BUT IT CANNOT BE ANYTHING. PERSONALLY, DREAMS HELP ME A LOT AND CONSTANTLY AND PLEASE DON'T THINK ME CRAZY. SUCCESS !!! AND IF YOU WANT TO WRITE.

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lyvonne0526 answered · October 02, 2020

   The author: I was walking around the city and I thought I should look around for him, otherwise I can't see him and that's what happened, I really saw him - he was in a car, he stopped, I couldn't believe my eyes, I didn't think that it would really happen, but it happened - I got in the car - the attraction was simple and so in the end happened what I had longed for a long time, but unfortunately, things are more complicated - he has a serious relationship, me too. He wants to see me from time to time (as lovers), but I don't want to play such a role in his life or break up my relationship. So, I ended my relationship with this man.

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eva_kitty answered · October 02, 2020

   I'm happy about you!!!

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freespirit160 answered · October 02, 2020

   dear, I'm looking for a person in the same way and I can't find him, I fully understand you, do you have any information, if you want, write to me by mail ***** Moderator - we do not publish contact information

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da_x3 answered · October 03, 2020

   a boy constantly looking at me without stopping, that is, I looked at him from time to time, as if pretending to be a little inaccessible or rather pretending to look for something else, but it is to him. Of course, he looked at me tenderly as if his eyes were in love with my eyes. And he's so cute and he has such beautiful eyes that I'm going crazy. The second time we met in front of the sun, you know, but when he took the pizza, he stood a little further away to look at me. I want to look for it anywhere :(

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melons2396 answered · October 03, 2020

   If you know his name, try it on Facebook! Also ask a mutual acquaintance if you have one if he knows how to contact him! And finally try phone services! Success and courage

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elijahm94 answered · October 04, 2020

   You can't find me because I don't want you to find me.

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kanilee answered · October 04, 2020

   super