Hello! I am writing to you because I really have a problem and I just want someone to listen to me and give me advice. I am in the 7th grade at the age of thirteen. I am not one of the strongest students, nor of the weak ones. I am very sensitive and one can hurt me extremely easily. I have a terrible class - out of 24 people, 20 drink, smoke and, noticing that they can hurt me, shower me with ridicule and insults. The others are a little better, but they constantly intrigue, lie to me, and take advantage of me when I try to communicate with them. I only have one girlfriend ... but she's gone too - a girl from "cool" got closer to her and now when I try to talk to her or get closer, the other girl pulls her away as if she's her property. the other classes - because of the false rumors, everyone looks at me contemptuously and from time to time shouts something insulting at me, but in one of the other classes is my best friend. Only she supports me. And I can't move to another class, because I'm still in 7th grade - after 4 months we have high school graduations and I can't change classmates and teachers in the last year. Please advise me something! Thank you for listening to me! ❤
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There are few real friends in life. You will find them over the years.
Don't confuse things school friends. He's lucky. He studies there ... he enrolls in a club outside of school. Do something, swim, run, read books, play table tennis every two or three months, start something new to meet potential friends. Look for people to meet them. Out of a hundred people, you will like two interesting ones.
Having a faithful friend is the most impossible thing, first of all because you have to be a true friend of yourself. You are most likely showing your weakness and this is welcome for the bad people around you. They love the victims, and you are the perfect one. As long as you think about them, head up and when something unpleasant happens to you, remember something very nice and dear to your heart. It will be very difficult for you, but this is your lesson.
In seventh grade are the biggest freaks, I was also bullied just as I moved seventh grade to another school. Do not show your weakness and do not allow them to trample you. Don't worry about rumors. True friends at this age are extremely rare to find, at school it is many times less likely. Above they advised you to look for them outside of school, I am also of this opinion. - girl, 19 years old