Hello, I am a 22-year-old girl and I have the following problem: a month ago I got a new job and there I met a very cool colleague, whom I immediately fell in love with. I wondered for a long time how to meet him and finally he met me himself, then added me on Facebook. I liked a few things, he liked me a few pictures. Shortly afterwards, he invited me to go out in the evening with a close friend of his. We saw each other and everything was okay. I decided to show him that I was not indifferent to him and he did not say anything at first. Of course, I didn't overdo it, I was just nice to him. We talked about different topics, laughed, etc. Everything was fine until his friend mentioned that my colleague had a girlfriend who lived in another city. Subsequently, I have clearly made it clear that I have sympathy for this man, because his friend suggested to me that, that he has a girlfriend is very unfortunate for me. I just said that the person in question looked like a very good person, and he didn't say anything. Then, as we were returning home, his friend told me several times that he would soon break up with his girlfriend. Honestly, I didn't know how to react to that, but I already think it was said on purpose. As we parted, the boy in question shook my hand and we parted. On Monday, when I met him at work, he just passed me. Then we met around the coffee machine and I greeted him, and he answered without any emotion. I apologized to him if I had offended him in any way, he said everything was fine. However, the problem is that he behaves as if we don't know each other and doesn't talk to me. I like it a lot, but I don't know what to do. I can't figure out what his problem is. How do I fix our relationship? Even if nothing happens, I want at least friends to stay. How to act, I still apologized, but still, it did not help. Please give opinions and advice.
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Maybe they won't break up with their girlfriend.
Leave him, what friends, what nonsense. Don't bother. Likeing him is your problem, not his. If he shows interest in the future, approx. You have to be a pass, otherwise you will become a drag. From what you wrote, I understand that you have no relationship. Then what are you going to do?