Hello, a girl of 20 writes to you. The problem is the following: I don't get along with my parents! There is the question that they never gave me the right to an opinion, there were times when they behaved horribly, there were constant quarrels between us, thousands of bans on meaningless things and the imposition of their opinion. I'm still studying and no matter what job I get, I won't be able to pay for my education, let alone stay for accommodation and bills, as the amount is BGN 1,200 per semester. That's what keeps me going, if you ask why I haven't moved out yet. Any advice what to do? At first I treated them well, I accepted the fact that they were worried about me, but this attitude lasted for years and I could not stand it. Every time they share what I think, it's as if they don't listen to me and pretend I'm not in the room. It hurts me from all this neglect.
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Talk to them. You sit at the table one day and calmly tell them that you want to talk to them. You will tell them how you feel that they are pressuring you, and so on. If things do not work out with the conversation and they start arguing with you again, offer them to go to a psychologist better than I can not remember.
Ignore, stay in the room, don't talk to them, except for work, find a job prematurely and when they ask why just say that you need more money for that, and it will really be to be away from them and make new contacts. When you're done, get out as soon as possible.
Once they pay you the costs, you have to deal with them! Already an adult, by law they are not obliged to support you anymore. If you stick your nose in so much, take a loan from a bank and once you start working you will pay it off. I think they gave such loans for study, or they were only 89 years ago, I'm not sure !? What they limit so much, they don't seem to trust you, you know why.
Honey, you have to pretend to be airbnb only when your ass is tight. While mom and dad pay so that the young lady can rub her ass on the benches of NBU, or whichever other "free" university you choose, don't complain at all! As much as you want to be an opinion person, take out a student loan, start a job, study at the same time, move out and pay your own bills. By the way, once again I am amazed at how much the educational system in Bulgaria has failed. I wonder how it is possible for such an illiterate person to study in a higher education institution ... how?
You first had to work 3-4 years and raise money and then enroll as a student. Now you can also work - for example, to enroll in the summer on a brigade in the United States or somewhere else where they offer. Most likely your university has such information, check it out!
Hello! I have the same problem. I have tried several times to talk to ours, I have tried all sorts of options, both good and bad, but to no avail. It's like I'm not talking to them. I'm already desperate, I don't know what to do. At least in time you will move out. Please if anyone knows a solution to the problem to write.
Hi, I'm also a girl of 20 and I understand you. I also hate getting involved in anyone's life. I have no problems with my parents in general, but sometimes they have confused me a lot. It's best to endure a little longer until you graduate or are in your final year and then move on. This is the best I can advise you.
It hurts me when I see how your generation can't even write simple words like "hold", "as if", but they have pretensions to heaven ... At the age of 20 and not being able to tie 2 sentences ... It's not about Who knows what spelling you understand, but about things that are taught in small classes ... But we drive higher, and no doubt we will take it, and we will become doctors, lawyers and politicians ... My advice is - learn to write , make money, only then expect respect and play the role of a mature person ...
I went through this, I am from Sofia and I studied in Sofia. Although I worked all the time, I could not afford to move out and lived with ours. Well, from experience I tell you just to behave well with them and not to argue, you waste time and waste your nerves. From a time when we are old enough and still at home it is normal to have friction. We irritate them and they irritate us! And until 5-10 years ago you did not pay attention to their behavior, they behaved in the same way. When I graduated and moved out, everything changed, my parents treat me very well!
To number 8 by the author. - Yes, now I see that I am confused, I will take a remark, but I beg people like you not to talk nonsense and in such an ugly way to insult in the forums, because there is nowhere else to make their complexes. 1. I do not consider myself illiterate, I may have made a mistake in writing and not noticed, but everyone is wrong, I'm sure even you! 2. Man learns while he is alive! And 3. You can't talk about a person you don't know, and I definitely don't write "ko pr-n6" etc. like other people. I wonder people like you, why don't they just become Bulgarian language teachers so that they can fix others and scratch their scabies for the rest of their lives?