Hello. The topic is serious, I'm 15 and I'm quite shy. The point is that I like a girl from another class, she's 16, it's not like we're strangers or something, sometimes she makes hints if I can call them that, which are sometimes confusing for me ... And I've always been shy and I was not good at talking to the girl, etc., and even more worrying that she is a little taller than me, another reason why I am ashamed to talk to her .... How can we start a conversation in a way that is comfortable for both of us?
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There is no way to get a girl to take the first step. IT IS IMPOSSIBLE!!! But I can give you some tips on how to increase your chances of liking you: 1. Be funny no matter how much you don't like it. Girls don't like shyness. It doesn't matter the height. Be open. Say some nonsense from time to time, but not to look perverted or dumb, but rather funny. 2. Be nice to her, for example, if she drops a pen, bag or something, you immediately pick it up and say "Welcome" all such things that we girls accept very well and understand that the person next to us is polite. If she asks you for something, you have to give it to her (within normal limits). 3. Hang out with her, but if it seems a little that you are interested in her, even if she has no sympathy for you, she will like it very much. Make lighters like a game, become friends with her. 4. It is not made important, even if they show a "bad" and a lot of "cool" boy in a movie, that's the reality. 5. If you have some acquaintances. Start going out in a group and do all the things described above. 6. BE YOURSELF !! You say that you are shy, that is, you will hardly be able to do the things I have described. Some are born to communicate freely with girls, but you will have to learn too. 7. But the most important thing is to be .... I forgot it: D
Brother, she doesn't read minds. She may have hinted at you, but they should be friendly and you don't know what to do. As you know, it is customary in society for a boy to take the first step. Just tell her, either she will cut you off or you will become boyfriends, there is no middle ground.
Show courage and take a step. If you want to succeed with girls, you have to overcome shyness. The truth is that girls are quite active towards men they like. They will try in every way to attract their attention, they will flirt, they will look for contact. It has happened to me to take the first step when circumstances were not appropriate for the landfill to take place in another way. But it happens to men who radiate masculinity, communicate freely with you and show confidence. If you are ashamed to speak to her, you do not dare to look her in the eye and you cannot tie two sentences, there is no way things will happen. You're still young, you're worried, you don't want to be rejected, and that's normal. But if you leave it at that, nothing will have changed at the age of 30. Act boldly and success will come.
While you wait for her to take the first step, someone else will dare to do it with her. Women love the man to take the first step. Not because they are afraid, but because it is more romantic. Don't be a coward!