I am writing here because of my strange mood. I just want to pour out my soul and maybe give advice or get it. I'm not going to tell you much, I'm just coming to the conclusion that whatever you do, if someone doesn't love you, there's just no way. Even if you give your best, to be inseparable from him in need, it just doesn't work. Maybe I was hoping that he would appreciate my constant friendship and realize how important a person he is to me, but some people are with you only because of interests. And that's right, but when you love someone so much, you don't care why he's with you (I mean as a friend), you're just glad he's with you. The naughty part comes when he doesn't need it anymore and no matter how you try to get it back he doesn't want you again if he doesn't benefit. I tried to shake it off permanently, but somehow it always pops into my head and I wonder how I connect, even the least with him ... I don't think I need to keep getting on my nerves with someone who treats you like a queen when he needs you, and then forgets you completely .. My question is how to killed this man in the head? With hobbies or some sports training, it doesn't work ... I tried to kill him all day by writing his name on paper and all the unpleasant things I associate him with and I burned the note, I spend a lot of time thinking and if anyone has the most the little idea of how to get it out of my head, I will gladly read it.
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The very thought of wanting to forget him makes you think of him. I don't think he uses you and behaves "like a princess" with you. He just wants you to be friends, give him a chance!
If they don't appreciate you, go. You think weird how old you are. Aren't you 15?
M - 21 .. Hey girl, there's nothing wrong with that, because you just gave up completely (I guess), you were sincere and you loved this person .. Since I don't know anything about your story, I can only tell you that your age is important and I don't know it .... Well I can offer you just to find a job .. Whatever ... More going out with friends .. No matter you just don't have time to think about it. .. Just if you're an honest and good girl it would be very strange if you don't think about this person right .. Think about it it's normal if you loved him and obviously you still love him ... There is simply no cure, if there was I would I heal myself ... And yet you have nothing to regret;)
New people, new places. This is the most effective recipe. Find someone interesting and crazy enough to distract you. Go with friends on a trip or just somewhere where none of you have been. It helps, but only if you exclude your mind from everything else. Live for the Moment.
Talk to him ...?
I'll just tell you that writing his name on a piece of paper and writing all the nasty things he does after all and burning it doesn't do me much good. Is that correct? And try to distract yourself no matter what makes you happy.