Hi, I need help. I fell in love with a colleague, but we can't have anything in common - different characters and understandings. We are both married. I want to get it out of my head, but I don't know how It's in front of my eyes every day, I know it's not for me, I don't want to cheat on my wife, but I can't stop thinking about her. Give a cure, please.
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Change your job.
Get those thoughts out of your head so you don't have any problems. Look at your wife and so on
And I think like 1 change your job. This will be best if, as far as I understand, you also care about your wife and do not want to spoil your family.
Train if after each sex date you are abandoned and you have to look for a new job as far as you can go.
You have several options: 1-if you are weaker in character and can't stand it, change jobs. 2-if you are strong, forget her and give yourself to your wife. you know better....
Come on, people, give me some advice.
If he can bring the "work" to an end - and you will pass ...
If you want advice, describe in more detail what it is about. You're lying that you don't want to cheat on your wife. It drives love to sin. All of the above tips are correct. What do you want? I was going to write you some basic tips, but first you write about yourself, your wife, your colleague. Apparently you're sunk tight, you don't feel like going home. Your wife must be annoying you already !!! Are you jealous of your colleague? Don't be a rusk. Different characters ... no problem for a relationship. What are your different understandings? If she's much younger than your wife, and she's turning her nice ass in front of your eyes all day, I understand. Come on, write now until you're crazy. Or it can pass when you pour out your soul.
You say that you are not for each other because you have different characters and understandings, and you are in love with her. You seem to be in love with her body. One sex may fix things, but you better not, because then your conscience will bite and you can ruin your family. People give you advice to tighten up, but I think you want someone to tell you to act, because for someone infidelity is normal. Pay more attention to your wife. She always attracted you to something when you married her. Moreover, if you do not have a crisis period in your relationship (quarrel, infidelity on her part) it is not worth treating like that. Besides, your colleague is married. You don't say how she feels about you. Go somewhere with your wife to change the situation and stay alone. Write what you have decided.
What's going on - how far are we "?!
How much advice do you want? Change jobs or women, that's it! You're teasing me already! I am number one. And if you have children, think about them first, not where to melt it!
To number 1. It was calm, dude, why are you nervous about two sentences :) to number 10 and to the others who gave advice - I changed my job, and without that it was not who knows what :)))
You're crazy dude, fucking must have this is the problem most men get very deep in thought. She told you how to deal with her. The woman is not analyzed, but consumed. If she's your wife, she'll think about the family or the kids there, but she'll bang 20 times and say, "Oh, I want to be loved, and I did it for you." That's how you want to be loved. Because that will stay with you. You need to know a little selfish. Life is like that, if you don't rule someone else's woman, they will rule yours, if they haven't ruled her many times before. Why do you think so much, it's a complete simplicity to leave work just for the sake of a woman, because she tempted you, you run away like a coward, not like a man.
You №14 not to be a big man. The man holds on to his wife and so it should be. My advice is go to your wife kiss her tenderly and make love. In my opinion, a woman in love can give you much more than a primary and superficial one. Think about it.
Do not lean for one time.
I hope you're not lying that you changed jobs. Take and make 2-3 gifts to your wife for no reason. This way you will feel that you are not dealing with the other. It says a man. If you're not a slut, do what people tell you except number 14.
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