We have been together for some time, enough to be able to talk about all sorts of topics and be able to discuss all our problems. My and his problem is that I don't want to do it without a condom, but I told him that it can't happen until he does research. Knowing what kind of life he led before he met me, I get scared sometimes do not stick some nonsense, and God forbid something worse. When I tell him that when he does his tests then he will be without a condom, he tells me that he did not want to give money as they would tell him, what he knows is that he has nothing. Tell me how things are with this research. Are they paid? Is there a direction .. Abe everything that can be useful to me. I'm only familiar with the AIDS tests, but if I tell him to do it, he might be offended, even though he did it. Please help me .. I want to have a normal sex life, but I think I am rightly worried about my health! Thanks.
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It will actually be like a medical marriage. You go to honey. center, you say straight medical about marriage. It includes all the tests, it is without a referral, it costs about BGN 40. But this does not include an AIDS test, which I think is strange, but it is another matter to do it separately.
Other tests are unfortunately paid for usually. However, he can try to go to a personal doctor, to think of a reason (some problem) with which to give him a referral for sowing. At least in women, a complete microbiological examination can be performed with a referral. AIDS is one thing. In my opinion, there are other infections, very common, which, unfortunately, are not paid attention to. For example, I glued chlamydia - very nasty microorganisms that often do not give symptoms, and men do not particularly bother them, while in women they can damage reproduction. My friend had been tested for AIDS, syphilis, gonorrhea, but he missed the chlamydia and no doctor advised him about it. In my opinion, the most common infections are chlamydia, trichomoniasis, gonorrhea and, less commonly, herpes. Syphilis is common in Asian countries and is very rare here. But get it researched at all costs. You don't have to give up, because your health, and maybe your reproduction, and even your life depend on it. An infection such as chlamydia, seemingly harmless, is treated very slowly, with a lot of antibiotics and a lot more money than research. I think it's best with really sowing - this will isolate all the organisms it has. Otherwise, there are separate tests for some infections, but I guess it will be more expensive. that it is really sown - so they will isolate all the organisms that there are. Otherwise, there are separate tests for some infections, but I guess it will be more expensive. that it is really sown - so they will isolate all the organisms that there are. Otherwise, there are separate tests for some infections, but I guess it will be more expensive.
They are free for HIV, take an ELISA test !! If you are from Sofia, go to SRZI, and for other diseases such as syphilis and hepatitis you can get about BGN 50!
They are generally paid, but there are also centers that are free! Go, donate blood and explicitly say that you want results! They donate the donated blood for everything! SUCCESS!
Yes, you are right to worry. Especially knowing his past. Above all, you need to protect yourself, your family and your future children. Come up with it, if he wants you to be together in the future, he has to agree ... Good luck! I hope there are more young people like you who are responsible for their health ...
Haha, if you think that a condom saved you from something you can catch from it - you are sorely mistaken! Yes, with a single contact quickly in the toilet of the disco there is some chance to protect you from AIDS, for example, but with repeated contacts, caresses, kisses, French, etc. - Forget it! If there was anything - you ran away a long time ago ...
It's simple, you just won't give it to him without a condom. It is true that especially for sexually transmitted diseases the percentage of protection is about 70%. But it's still better with than without.
He will agree ... stop letting him go even with a condom and he will soften ....;)
Don't listen № 1, there is no such thing - in case of very repeated contacts the condom does not protect you. What a stupid opinion? !! You can only get infected if it is broken. And from kisses and French - only if you have an open backpack in the appropriate place.
Oh, do you have a primary education? !! You are an author, to insist on your health, although it is true that, for example, syphilis can be "glued" from a cup or a straw. I don't understand why he refuses. Insist on research, at least because ... he refuses. For me personally, this would immediately turn on the red light for danger!
To go and donate blood. Not only will they buy him chocolate, but they will also tell him if he has AIDS.
What is a turbulent sex life before? How many girls has he slept with, with or without a condom, etc. This is a stretchy concept, some men consider 20 pieces to be nothing, while for others it is a lot. It depends on the man and his values, if any, the same goes for women. Honestly, if I have a daughter and find out that she has slept with 5 boys for a year or two, I will be seriously scared. The same goes for a son. Now, another issue is that I crossed that line years ago, but that was precisely because I didn't have parents who were "afraid" of me.
From the author: For AIDS, I think he will do it immediately, if it doesn't cost money, but for other things she says: "Why give money when I know what they will tell me!". And yes, as someone says, the light comes on for me .. And about how and when I can transmit diseases, I am familiar, I learn that. My question to you was where and how much the damn research cost. Thank you very very much! I will continue to follow the topic!
Talk like great people to yours. Directly and without twists. Suggest you do both if you think it will help. The success of XII
Number 11 is right - to donate blood - complete blood tests that will catch not only AIDS, but also a large part of the dangerous sexually transmitted diseases. He also gets a day off from work and a bag of sweets. And most of all, he's glad he did something that will save a life. And donation costs nothing :)
Tell him the following - hepatitis B is easily transmitted sexually. It is a viral disease that has killed hundreds of thousands around the world, and in many people it can stay in the body for decades without symptoms. With an early diagnosis, it can be treated, even cured. But late ... you're one foot elsewhere;)
Up to 11 It is possible for AIDS, but not all diseases are tested by donation, because some sexually transmitted diseases are skin and have nothing to do with blood. So this is not a solution. It is best to get a medical certificate for marriage and get tested for AIDS separately (free of charge).
№17, the fact that the symptoms are cutaneous in some sexually transmitted diseases does not mean that they cannot be caught by a blood test. Genital herpes is a virus with skin manifestations, warts, so common in recent times - HPV, etc. This with the author's desire for research is correct in her case, but what is her guarantee that the man in question will not finish any nonsense afterwards? She must require tests every 6 months to be calm. Which I don't see how it could happen. She just caught a dangerous specimen that was moving. These certainly do not change.
Do you consider yourself sexually pure? Shouldn't he be examined in this way, and you should stick bad things on him later? If the two of you don't go, that's the best thing to do, and they can "bring a friend" and give you a discount on the price. Come on, run and present the results of the public hearing here.
Up to 17 - those skin, which are sexually transmitted, do not affect them, because they are hesitant whether to have sex without a condom. These skin diseases are caught whether you use a condom or not. I'm talking about all kinds of warts, warts, genital herpes. A condom does not help against the human papilloma virus. And our characters here have had sex quite a few times, I guess. Other diseases are covered by blood tests. Google blood donation and you will learn what goes into the picture.
From the author: Yes, I am convinced that I have nothing, because this is the second boy in my life, I constantly go to gynecological examinations and I take great care of my health and I know what I have and what I don't. I can say that I have nothing! And what can he do while he is with me - let me judge ... My question was completely different. Thanks to those who responded to it! I will continue to follow the topic.
Thanks for the post that "lit up" me! It's good that you posted this here. I am not a sexual athlete and I am monogamous! I am afraid of diseases and I protect myself, but I am not afraid to tell my girlfriend what she needs and wants to hear! You need trust! Regarding "PPI", it is clear to me what is happening and how it is transmitted! Besides the fact that I am monogamous ..., I also use condoms MANDATORY and not only because of diseases and infections, but because I am responsible for her and for myself! I haven't had many partners, on the contrary I am a passive man, because I want a serious and stable relationship and she knows that !!!! If he wants me to do research ... I WILL DO IT to see that not only words matter, but also my ACTIONS. Moreover, I recently thought about what the author writes and I even want to offer her this opportunity by doing research. Want,
I think he's afraid they won't find him something he doubts he has. Do not remove the condom until you have done some research. If you are attacked that you do not trust him - say so - I do not trust you, because what is the guarantee that you are insured against sexually transmitted diseases, after you have had other relationships and had unprotected sex. If the probability of having AIDS, syphilis and hepatitis B (these are the tests for civil marriage and childbirth) is relatively small, then the probability of having chlamydia is very high. Because they are really hard to catch with the naked eye and you can be a carrier without knowing. Gonorrhea is unlikely to occur because it occurs in men very early after the infection. But look - chlamydia is something else ...