How Do I Get Out Of The Past?

   Okay, but how did you get to 12 at all? Why don't you get stuck at 4, for example, and now sing only children's songs, wait for Santa Claus, etc.? So there was still a long time in your life when the change wasn't as scary and alien as a thought? Try to remember this period and move on! The Buddha said, "The only sure thing in this world is change!" Otherwise, there was even a literary hero like you who didn't want to grow up. His name was Peter Pan, as far as I remember.

   Many men are like that, so you have nothing to worry about. And you will find your happiness. People who start a family without healing the wounds of their past are always bad parents, ie. you don't have to be mature to start a family, you just have to have a desire. I have some neighbors in my hometown, born somewhere in the mid 70's, there are 2 families. Whenever they celebrate something, they inflate old chalgas and some music from the 90's and around 2000. It's awful. But obviously this music is in their hearts, maybe because they were happy and free then. Read Dostoevsky's books.

   Start fucking. Fuck a lot. That's what he did.

   I miss those years too! The truth is that now the world has transformed into some kind of hell! Friends (they use them), a woman (teases the boss for promotion), family (distant and misunderstood) ... People are staring at these smartphones and do not see reality. I wondered if that's why they are not constantly behind the illusory screens (computers, tablets, phones), because the reality is unsatisfactory ???

   It's time to grow up, an adult's life can be wonderful, it's up to you what you do!

   Quite simple. Stop everything you've done so far

   Thank you very much for the comments !!! I really liked the first one - or rather, his sense of humor. Number 2, I have read all of Dostoevsky's books. Number 4, you're telling the truth. And I don't like the current reality. People have changed, the clothes, the order, everything is false and ostentatious, then hypocrisy, then teachings, then edifications ... Music and movies are useless. And this electronics ... it fucks up humanity, I'm telling you. These gadgets killed all relationships, all normalcy. Number 3 - broke me. Haha. You're right. And I think it's time to listen to you. :).

   You fell into a hole. Have you suffered a great deal of disappointment or trauma? It could be something depressed, it makes you passive and obsessed, with no passion for anything. If you do not improve over time, seek professional help to unravel the problem.

   You stayed at 12, but you read all of Dostoevsky's books .... People, this topic and the topic "Is it right to live? A man like me was not born" was written by an old man who is obsessed with it. that every woman must be a mother. Otherwise, the population would disappear, etc. (point the cursor / give the 'read number of times' - this is under each title and you will see the time and date of launch of the topic by its author, but its style betrays it enough) There are a few of his comments on the topic "Is it bad that I don't want to be a mother?", you will recognize them by the fanaticism and the negative vote. He began to feel that the gum for feminism was somehow losing its taste, he thought about what else to do, and then he saw the topic "We were born in the 90's. Have we grown up yet?" number 8 there is his work. Then I came up with this and the other topic, which is already an extremely rude joke with people who actually had a very difficult childhood. Otherwise, he seems to have read books, but it's still good to stop thinking he's smarter than most people, because his malice and bigotry are clear. If he was really so concerned about the population, he would direct his energy in a direction that would be of real benefit. For example, he would deal with parents who neglect their children, or those who show aggression towards children, or those who abuse alcohol and drugs, and at the same time are parents. All of these are quite a number of people, especially in modern Bulgaria, because for better or worse the only condition for a person to start a family is to have the desire to do so. Do they have a desire families create both heavily burdened and twisted people, and all kinds of people in general. Everything is based on desire, that's why the bigotry of this old man is so futile. I hope he listens to me and directs his energy in the direction in which I advised him, otherwise he will end up immersed in malice, releasing his sparkling nonsense. But on second thought ... that's probably the only thing that still makes sense of his days in some way. Sad. But it's never too late to change. which still makes sense of his days in some way. Sad. But it's never too late to change. which still makes sense of his days in some way. Sad. But it's never too late to change.

   Read Eckhart Tolle's "The Power of the Present"!

   To number 2: your neighbors like old music because it is the most valuable not only for its time, but also for the present! Because today's music just doesn't work! He passes and leaves! And Eurodance and Bulgarian pop folk from 1989 to 2000 are the best genres! And that's why people appreciate them and celebrate them that way, because they like them that way! I will not list songs from the 90's, you have them on YouTube, anyone who wants them will find them very easily, and today's music, I would say, is a one-day affair! What is being heard this year is being forgotten next year! Fact! They are not interested in today's music, they do not celebrate it and that's it! And I, if I celebrate, will choose her! Today's music just went, you know? People have understood it in its infancy, as they say! I'm already 37, and you could say that I live in the 90's! I have had equipment since then, I also keep some things! And the music of their people is close to their hearts, because above all it is their favorite in all paragraphs and can not be compared with today! There is nothing to blame them! This is from me!