Hi, I'm a 19 year old girl and I've been in some ridiculous situation for the last month. I participated in a one-month program, where I became friends with one of the friends of a former classmate of mine. We had met him earlier with this classmate of mine, but we hadn't communicated much, and I didn't particularly like him because I thought he was pretentious and fake. During the program, I realized that I had misjudged and that he was actually an interesting and funny person. I enjoyed spending time with him, but I had no idea he had any feelings for me. I started to suspect only when he gave me a very beautiful and supposedly expensive necklace on the occasion of my name day. Then I realized that I may have given him the wrong signals and explained to him that I like him a lot as a person, but that I am not interested and not looking for romantic relationships at the moment. He has since withdrawn from me, which was not a big surprise, because I expected such a reaction, but I felt extremely remorse that I had hurt him. I also felt indebted to the time and material he had spent for me. I hate to feel indebted to someone, so after apologizing several times for cheating on him, I gave him a watch, the kind I knew he liked.
Then it seemed to me that he had regained his warm attitude towards me, but now I wonder if I have not sent the wrong signal again and did not think that I have begun to feel feelings for him. How do I get out of this situation, which has bothered me a lot these days? Is there any chance we can stay on friendly terms with this person? but I felt extremely remorse for hurting him. I also felt indebted to the time and material he had spent for me. I hate feeling indebted to someone, so after apologizing several times for cheating on him, I gave him a watch, the kind I knew he liked. Then it seemed to me that he had regained his warm attitude towards me, but now I wonder if I have not sent the wrong signal again and did not think that I have begun to feel feelings for him. How do I get out of this situation, which has bothered me a lot these days? Is there any chance we can stay on friendly terms with this person? but I felt extremely remorse for hurting him. I also felt indebted to the time and material he had spent for me. I hate feeling indebted to someone, so after apologizing several times for cheating on him, I gave him a watch, the kind I knew he liked. Then it seemed to me that he had regained his warm attitude towards me, but now I wonder if I have not sent the wrong signal again and did not think that I have begun to feel feelings for him. How do I get out of this situation, which has bothered me a lot these days? Is there any chance we can stay on friendly terms with this person?
which he had spent for me. I hate feeling indebted to someone, so after apologizing several times for cheating on him, I gave him a watch, the kind I knew he liked. Then it seemed to me that he had regained his warm attitude towards me, but now I wonder if I have not sent the wrong signal again and did not think that I have begun to feel feelings for him. How do I get out of this situation, which has bothered me a lot these days? Is there any chance we can stay on friendly terms with this person? which he had spent for me. I hate feeling indebted to someone, so after apologizing several times for cheating on him, I gave him a watch, the kind I knew he liked. Then it seemed to me that he had regained his warm attitude towards me, but now I wonder if I have not sent the wrong signal again and did not think that I have begun to feel feelings for him. How do I get out of this situation, which has bothered me a lot these days? Is there any chance we can stay on friendly terms with this person? but now I wonder if I sent the wrong signal again and he didn't think I was beginning to feel for him.
How do I get out of this situation, which has bothered me a lot these days? Is there any chance we can stay on friendly terms with this person? but now I wonder if I sent the wrong signal again and he didn't think I was beginning to feel for him. How do I get out of this situation, which has bothered me a lot these days? Is there any chance we can stay on friendly terms with this person?
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Many like you / I don't wish it on you /, after a while they look for such men under wood and stone, but they have been busy for a long time. But you are young, you still have an echo ... ;-) Otherwise, just stay more distant and he will feel it.
Try to get a little closer. I'm not talking about a relationship, but rather about closer friends, talk to him ... And you will see for yourself if you will not show feelings for him. I had a similar case with a boy I liked. ... I got closer to him and it turned out that we are not for each other. Try it and it may work ...