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How Do I Know If He Has More Than Friendly Feelings For Me

By lightmagicangle October 24, 2020 41 answers Last updated October 24, 2020

Hello! I decided to ask you for advice! Since last year, I have noticed that one of my classmates is constantly revolving around me. When I was alone at the desk, he always came to me. But I didn't notice that because I was running after another boy. And so came the new school year. I no longer ran after anyone and I was given the opportunity to notice some of his gestures. That principle is the same for everyone, and that worries me because I can't tell if he's still feeling those feelings from last year. He never told me if he liked me and I was worried he wouldn't suggest it. He is nice to me and the interesting thing is that when we are in a group with some of my classmates and he talks about something, he always asks me "Right". Strange! He is interested in my opinion. He even tried to hug me once, but I pulled away. (he hugs everyone) and that confuses me even more. I don't know if he likes me yet or not? Please give me advice on how to find out if he feels more than friendly feelings towards me! THANK YOU IN ADVANCE FOR THE ADVICE !!!

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chloehazze answered · October 24, 2020

   Hello - give this boy a chance. Meet him, find out what kind of person he is. But if you do not feel congratulations to him, and he to you, do not take advantage of this, in a delicate way and the right place at the right time tell him how you feel or ask him WRITE

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tygrysq answered · October 24, 2020

   Hello! And I'm in this situation .. and I, like you, am not sure if he has feelings for me ... but do you know what I think .. If he treats all the girls as well as you, there is no point in tormenting yourself. .but if you're going to behave differently with you .. maybe he's trying to hurt you with the other girls .. Think about it! and if you notice even the slightest hint ACT! Be careful that fate does not play a bad joke on you and that some filth takes it away from you .. :) SUCCESS !!!

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anziglov11 answered · October 24, 2020

   Hello, I also have a very good friend, with whom we often go for a walk for coffee ... he calls me almost every day. We have known each other for a year now and I still don't know if I feel anything more towards him ... he behaves very well with me, jokes, teases me and when we have coffee forgets about others and talks only to me, but I do not believe that he has stronger feelings for me ... thanks for the answers :)

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prettyluv answered · October 24, 2020

   Hello .. I'm like you too .. I like a boy from my class .. He behaves very nicely we hug, he often comes he takes my hand and so we walk together, very often our eyes meet, or I just notice how he looks at me. Sometimes he calls me or writes to me on Skype .. But besides me he sometimes hugs the other girls in the class and this confuses me to some extent .. But I plan to take every opportunity to win it .. I recommend you too this :) Good luck darling !!

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Enya4G answered · October 24, 2020

   I can't give advice, because I myself am looking for one. There is a urine that I like. I am 7th grade, and he is 8. Unlike my other classmates, I have never had a bastard. Of course, I liked it. a lot of guys, but I'm pretty shy, which is completely typical of my milking, and she's a fish. Anyway, let's get back to the question. Yesterday I went out with this boy and a mutual friend. He behaved completely normally with me - he talked to me, offered to send me home, called me by a diminutive name and even winked at me several times. But he behaves differently with my girlfriend. He hugged her, even finally kissed her on the cheek. She likes another and he knows it. She also knows that I like this boy and claims that they behave like that with each other, but I'm not sure there can be such a close friendship between a boy and a girl. I saw what they wrote on the sky; he calls her "sweet," she calls him, too. I don't know what to think ... Please help me !!! If anyone is willing to help me, let them email me at [email protected]

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halloweenie_sex_doll answered · October 24, 2020

   Let me tell you, your girlfriend likes him and is hypocritical towards you, maybe she doesn't hurt you, I don't know, but I'm in this situation too. I like a boy. He pays a lot of attention to me, but I can't judge whether he likes me or not as with me, but since at one time we were sitting together on a bench and ... nothing, then we were moved and we sat together for another time, I told him that I didn't want to sit with him, of course I lied to him and he said do you think I want to. ..I do not know what to think

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clubmediafest answered · October 24, 2020

   Hi, there is a boy from my class once he told me this is Vicky, but after a few days we played a game and he knew that I was his gift and he made me fuck him, do you think?

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Everly answered · October 24, 2020

   In my opinion, he likes you, but he just doesn't want to express his feelings. If he is interested in your opinion, then there is more than friendship. I'm not sure.

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stephaniapotalivo answered · October 24, 2020

   It depends on what kind of boy he is, but I think he likes you.

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bbasjtr answered · October 24, 2020

   Unfortunately, I can't say any advice, and I'm looking for one. I apologize for asking the same thing here. Since I am in my first year in a new school, a boy is sitting in front of me and I notice that since he sat next to me on the trip, he seems to like me. One time I was sitting next to him, and I was staring somewhere and I noticed him looking at me and he was smiling at me. The second time we went to the toilet to wash, and when we came back I slipped on the tiles and fell, he picked me up and we entered the room and he looked at me like that again. It keeps making me laugh. Sometimes, as a sad person, he tries to fix my mood. One of my friends thinks she likes me but she's not sure. I forgot to say that he only stays with the girls. I don't know what to think.

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only_cb answered · October 24, 2020

   I don't know how to help you either, but this year I was in a new school and an 11th grade boy told my classmates that he liked me. But I hr it too, but nothing happened. :( So he may have been brought up that way, but not you hr.

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lamer answered · October 24, 2020

   Hello, I have a problem that I have not been able to solve for a long time and I would very much like someone to give me advice. my problem is that I really like a boy and that we spent a lot of time together, but at one point he pulled away from me for some unknown reason. I had asked him if he wanted us to have any more serious relationships than the ones we have, and he told me: well, I have purely friendly feelings for you and I have thought that, but all with time. and lately we do not hear almost please give advice on how to approach things?

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roc4life answered · October 25, 2020

   I think you should call him to talk and go out. The fact that you haven't seen each other for a while may affect things in some way. Call him and start seeing each other again, something can happen as soon as he says " everything with time "there is hope;) success :)

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victoria_dior answered · October 25, 2020

   I think he likes you because there is no boy who can hug a girl for no reason and I don't believe these are friendly feelings. Just give him a chance to do something nice and see how he reacts. And then he will understand that you have feelings for him and something can happen. Good luck!!!!!!

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madisonlintz_ answered · October 25, 2020

   I like a 6-year-old boy who is 2 years older, but he doesn't want to admit it. And he confessed to my best friend. How to make him admit it is in front of me !!! Thanks in advance!!!

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Domina-Cheetah answered · October 25, 2020

   And there is one from my class and last year I suggested that he liked me, but I was in the same situation. But I have already seen what he is exactly, I have known him for 2 years and I know that we are friends.

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1sassychris answered · October 26, 2020

   Hi, I'm 12 years old and I was in the same situation. A boy in my class has been around me since last year. He touched me often, but I pulled away. In fact, I like it too. The other girls also told me that he liked me. And a few days ago he offered me on Skype to become boyfriends and we are already. If you want, try if he likes you like this: If he touches you often - "push" him - that is, get closer to him and touch your body to his. He will get aroused.

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maheshbhupathi answered · October 26, 2020

   Number 21, don't you think it's still "a little" too early for arousal ?! It's just ridiculous to your age !!!

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bigbulba answered · October 26, 2020

   I have a similar problem. Last year, a boy in my class started hanging around me a lot. He came to my rank, he liked to talk to me, to hang out with me, to entertain me with one of his dumb jokes (honestly, I like you to be recognized). He paid a lot of attention to me and one day he asked me for Skype. So we started writing to each other for 4-5 hours every day. It was great!!! He shared with me things that no one else knew. We found a lot in common. Sometimes he even called me at 11 pm to talk. We talked for 2 hours. He kept telling me how much he enjoyed talking to me. Even when we hadn't heard from each other for a day, he convinced me how much he missed me. I never went out with him, because we live very far from each other and he did not invite me. After all, he was the one who was constantly looking for me. He annoyed me even at first, but the problem is that lately I've become terribly attached to him. And he seemed to lose interest in me. Right now, when I'm the one who started looking for him, wanting to be with him, he's pulling. And I can't figure out what his problem is! When I write to him on Skype now, he is immediately excused that he had to go to the store, start a movie or just have sore eyes, and before I always had to be first! At school, when I talk to him, he's kind of cool, and I've noticed that he doesn't look me in the eye anymore ... whenever I talk to him, his gaze is away. Is he angry about something? Was I just some after-school fun for him? Has he just lost interest in me (after all, I've shared a lot with him and he knows a lot of my secrets) And lately he really likes the company of another in my class. He started being nice to her, and she was nice to him. And this hurts me a lot, because I'm very jealous of him and I want to kill this ****. Didn't he like her for wanting to get away from me? But he is a Leo and as far as I know he is a bit of a womanizer. I am very confused at the moment. Should I tell him what I'm feeling? I asked him if he wanted to have a boyfriend, he always told me that he did not do nonsense (for him, love is the dumbest thing in the world). Do you think he's likely to like me? He started being nice to her, and she was nice to him. And this hurts me a lot, because I'm very jealous of him and I want to kill this ****. Didn't he like her for wanting to get away from me? But he is a Leo and as far as I know he is a bit of a womanizer. I am very confused at the moment. Should I tell him what I'm feeling? I asked him if he wanted to have a boyfriend, he always told me that he did not do nonsense (for him, love is the dumbest thing in the world). Do you think he's likely to like me? He started being nice to her, and she was nice to him. And this hurts me a lot, because I'm very jealous of him and I want to kill this ****. Didn't he like her for wanting to get away from me? But he is a Leo and as far as I know he is a bit of a womanizer. I am very confused at the moment. Should I tell him what I'm feeling? I asked him if he wanted to have a boyfriend, he always told me that he did not do nonsense (for him, love is the dumbest thing in the world). Do you think he's likely to like me? Should I tell him what I'm feeling? I asked him if he wanted to have a boyfriend, he always told me that he did not do nonsense (for him, love is the dumbest thing in the world). Do you think he's likely to like me? Should I tell him what I'm feeling? I asked him if he wanted to have a boyfriend, he always told me that he did not do nonsense (for him, love is the dumbest thing in the world). Do you think he's likely to like me?

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ShayeRivers answered · October 27, 2020

   When we were on a trip this year and on the bus we were playing a game and I was told that a boy in the audience liked me. He is very shy and he probably likes me because he is constantly teasing me, talking to me, abe behaves very well with me. I think he likes me, but he is very shy and ashamed to admit it to me. His friends told me he liked me, but how could I get him to admit it to me? We are not in the same class and we meet about 5-6 times a day, but he always talks to me, even for no reason. Please give me advice on how to make him confess in front of me, because he doesn't sit on Skype very often, and when he sits down he doesn't write to me, because he must be ashamed, but at school how can I tell him? Please give me any advice :)

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IndigoWild answered · October 27, 2020

   Well we are best friends I really like. However, I do not know if he likes me because in the summer we constantly went out together but during the school year we stopped going out and now I wonder if he likes me if he likes to kiss him, but I do not know if you help me I will forever thank you in advance.

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howie_dorough answered · October 27, 2020

   And I'm not alone. I am a boy and I like a girl. But I don't know if she likes me and she is a year older than me. But I've noticed that he's a little weird when he sees me. He asks me questions like if she is very dirty, this is when we are training. And at school, when we are alone, we talk normally and even smile at me, and when she is in the company of her friends, she either doesn't talk to me, but looks at me all the time, or calls me by her fictitious names. And she seems to be playing and she is more nervous and drooling slightly. Please give me advice, I'm desperate and I can't stop thinking about her, I'm even dreaming about her.

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lisaandsubbunnybbw answered · October 27, 2020

   Hello. I am a 13 year old boy. This year I have a new classmate who I love very much. The first week we met I said I had feelings and she told me that she wanted us to be just friends. After that she didn't talk to me for a while. Suddenly she he started smiling at me, looking me in the eyes for a long time, talking to me, sitting next to me and wondering how I was and teasing me with other girls. Once we went out with two mutual friends and it seemed to me that I was constantly He watched me and talked to me as if it were just the two of us. I'm worried that she said there was someone bigger who she liked. Please tell me if she feels anything for me. Thank you very much.

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forestalone answered · October 27, 2020

   take her to a restaurant and tell her how you feel about her

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dylan_sahara answered · October 28, 2020

   Hello! I have almost the same problem. I think you can help me. This year two boys are hanging around me but I don't know if they like me

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galatea__ answered · October 28, 2020

   I think we went a little far from the first topic but we started anyway ..... if anyone thinks he can help me let him do it .... almost 1 year ago my best friend's brother liked me got up after one her birthday ... and anyway it stopped me to be with him only the fact that he is my friend's brother .. and secretly in some respects wingai has an end I stopped because then it would be awkward ...... ..... However, we wrote to each other on Skype and it was quite nice for almost a year like that .. we wrote about everything, I liked him very much, he is funny, nice, and I was behaving quite frivolously at that time, I fell for some rubbish once I even came back to my ex ...... and a few times I broke up and reunited with another boy ...... and hell then I didn't realize that I hurt him a lot.He stopped writing to me only on Skype, leaving messages okyto at least I froze with myself, I did not believe that I could get so upset then I tried to fix things, it can be said that to some extent I succeeded ..... But then for I didn't have internet for a long time and things ......: X by the way, when we saw each other, he behaved as if he wasn't looking there, he wasn't looking at me except when we were congratulating him ..... they find a lot of girls, they're pretty good at this ... and now I don't know, it's as if we have nothing and we haven't had anything when we meet, we're talking ... I'm very sick, I want it again, as before he pays attention to me, he wants to be with me ... 1 ... or 2 times he told me that he loves me but of course I didn't answer him with anything except that it is unlikely that it is really so ....I don't know if it's possible to have nothing against me at the moment because I think that what we had was quite nice ....... I'm inclined to think that he's disgusted with me and he wouldn't want to start again recently, he looked at me again the profile in a site where we constantly exchanged messages .... but I did not answer him tell me how to boil the old feelings and whether they still exist And in the end I'm not sure that even if I feel that there is something to me will I'm with Engo because his sister and I are Bf ... I don't know, maybe I'm mistaken..but please tell me what to do. ?????but I didn't answer him tell me how to boil the old feelings and if there are still any at all would be misleading..but please tell me what to do. ?????but I didn't answer him, tell me how to boil the old feelings and whether there are still any at all. would be misleading..but please tell me what to do. ?????

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eelisadovee answered · October 28, 2020

   For a start, at least learn to write correctly, because it cost me a lot of effort to read XD. Now to your request. I couldn't understand why you want the poor boy to like you when you are not interested in becoming boyfriends at all ?! If you feel something for him, I agree that you want him to fall for you, but it is pointless to just torment yourself that nothing will happen. Just let him live his life in peace, and you take care of your spelling. that, looking at the spelling you are not more than 8-9, at most 10 years. ^ Anonymous ^

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9inchrobert answered · October 28, 2020

   hello how are you now we will talk about my life in my life we ​​are talking about a boy who likes me very much but he avoids me and this is a sad story but at least it is a story and I like him very much and I love him very much and I will write to you onwards if anything happens bye everyone

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kontoosa11 answered · October 28, 2020

   hello i am in love with a boy he is very cute and i don't know what to do please help me he told his best friend that he likes me and i was very happy but i want you to help me i am waiting for you good night

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robofunonly20202020 answered · October 28, 2020

   I have a problem, I like a boy from our class, I enter the 4th grade, but I don't know what to do. once he came to me and started talking to me, we ran in the breaks, I treated him like a friend, but once I thought, well, if I'm really sick and scared, please tell me what to do. thank you in advance

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bertrandlivreiros answered · October 29, 2020

   And I'm in the same situation that Sir finds the author ... A boy in the class doesn't treat me like the other girls in the class. While we were at school, the breaks always revolved around me, hanging out, behaving nicely .. And now in the summer we rarely see each other, but he still behaves the same way .. I constantly catch his eye watching me when we are in the company of other acquaintances ... He often writes to me on Skype, Facebook .... I don't know how he feels, but I really care a lot about him as a friend and I think that's how we should stay - friends ...

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nathassagirlxx answered · October 29, 2020

   Hello and I like you like a boy when it's just me my girlfriend and the sister of the boy I like he always talks to me looks at me where I am there is he or when once I wanted to come with me to the store the boy I like came the rest they didn't come because they were interested in what we were going to do and they only showed us a heart and he constantly turned to see if they showed a heart pretending to be big in front of me jumped from 3 meters charge me and talked to me about things that don't interest me at all and I say just to understand you or aha anywhere only he calls me to come with him and the next day he said I was ugly so how I reacted when I liked a boy before I am the girl with whom he spends most of all everyone tells me that I I like it, they don't know, but they notice it, please help me, I think a littlelikes but I don't know I hope I've helped some.

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ziiploc answered · October 29, 2020

   Hello, I, as a teenager, have fallen in love quite often, I'm in 7th grade and I like a boy from my class since the beginning of 6th grade, I like him but I'm very shy and that's why I can't tell him about my feelings for him. I think he likes me too, but not so much in 6th grade Bull. he kept looking at me and that drove me crazy because dumb said nothing. He always teases me, hugs me and sometimes writes to me on Skype this summer he wrote me if I like someone and I told him that he is not suddenly asleep to write to me. I wrote him why he asked me and he answered: just like that This morning in the teacher we were taking pictures with the class we were taking pictures with him he grabbed me by the back my heart was going to explode with excitement he looked at me so well, that I was going to kill myself and I heard my cousin talking about me. I hope I helped someone, and good luck to you

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luna_bali answered · October 29, 2020

   I wrote in similar questions. Go out somewhere together. Tell him you want to watch a movie (find out in advance what they give and when) Tell him you have no one to go with, that your girlfriends don't want to and so on. After the cinema you can go for a walk, eat and whatever else you can think of. If you stay alone, it seems to me that you will come to the topic in one way or another. I don't think you will go wrong if you try this method.

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lesbiansforsex answered · October 29, 2020

   that the ladies don't argue with us and the class took pictures of us regularly in the breaks in the class we had more physical with 6th grade and this class has a girl the boy I like she likes the corner we were 6th grade they were boyfriends but she broke up with him because she likes my other classmate who are friends with the boy I like anyway in the corner we have hours he was still watching her but today he is watching her or I thought it was because we went outside and he did not come and then we went inside and he played basketball and that uniform was so cute after we entered the salon the girls and I took pictures I sat next to him my best friend came with the camera she knows I like him and that's why he hugged me and we took pictures. There are still many things to write to you but this is a site for advice and not to write what is happening in my life so.

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Kamil17cmWroclaw answered · October 29, 2020

   Hello! I'm sorry, but I also can't give an answer .... My story is as follows, by the way I'm under 13! :) (and please don't tell me you like me if you don't think so!) 2 years ago I fell in love with a classmate. He kept paying attention to me, we went out, everyone said we were boyfriends, and he didn't object, he even agreed, but soon we started seeing each other more often and going out alone! I didn't know what to think, but now I'm sure he liked me, but tell me anyway! However, at one point, because he was shy, I invited him to go out, he cut me off! :( Then I notice that he looks at her, smiles at her (he did the same with me) and finally I started to find out if he likes her. His friend told me that he likes me, another told me that he likes her, but the problem is that she is my friend and I don't want us to be opponents!:

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nickman999 answered · October 29, 2020

   Regarding the last question - I think it's best to throw the question, but in private. If you really think he's feeling something for you, tell him. Ask him who he likes or something. If he makes hints to you, touches you or something like that, try a direct approach. And now it's time for my question: It's complicated ... I'm 16, and the boy in question is a close friend of mine, with whom I've been twice - nothing serious ... 6th and 7th grade. I guess you can draw your own conclusions. I broke it both times because I was a jealous and paranoid fool, and to be honest .... girls were constantly hanging around him. Okay, but last year I went with his best friend, with whom I'm also close (we're a whole company), but we broke up because the boy was more interested in the computer and fitness ... It's stupid, that all this time I had not stopped feeling strong feelings for the first boy. I told my best friend and he said that there was a chance that the boy would still feel something for me, but not do anything because it would be terribly confusing for the whole company. I completely agree with him, but the boy I'm in love with shows a lot of interest in me - he touches me, we joke, we flirt ... And that drives me crazy. Please someone help because I'm at a dead end ....

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cammiemom answered · October 30, 2020

   Hi, I'm a girl of 13 and I like a boy ... he is constantly hanging around me in class looking at me when he talks to me looking at me very nicely ... but I don't know if I like him I'm afraid to ask him. If I ask him in a teacher, he is always with other boys ... and on Skype ... please help me! How do I know if he likes me and how do I tell him that I like him too? THANKS IN ADVANCE :)

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devilishselen answered · October 30, 2020

   I give a piece of advice to everyone I read that most of them are ashamed to catch the person and ask him you will not lose anything. And to which they are in the position of the author. I'm a boy and I behave like I like some but I'm good with all the girls so it's hard to know if they like you

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hitomi2000 answered · October 30, 2020

   Hello !! So am I. I like a boy for almost 3 and a half years. But I don't know if he likes me. He is two years older than me, we go to competitions with him, the question is that I don't know if he likes me. We just hugged once, but that was last year. This year we had a competition and we were girls and boys. We had to get there by subway. I had caught myself from falling and was staring somewhere. He was next to me and slightly closer he approached his hand and touched me. Then we arrived at the race. And we had to warm up, and he called me and started asking me questions. After the race the next day we didn't talk but I don't know if he likes me or not? Two weeks later I saw that he was engaged in fecebook but I don't know if it's true or not. :( If anyone reads it please help me I'm confused.: (((

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perfectcouple4uxx answered · October 30, 2020

   Hello! There is a girl from my school. I noticed her very recently before I was very much in love with a girl, but I decided to put an end to her, she didn't appreciate me, I didn't get it right away, I struggled for months, but this girl appeared and made me forget the old story. Well, my friends didn't notice me and they were watching me, something happened and it doesn't stop. We are constantly lurking in the distance, my friend notices me and tells her, and only when she turns does she look at me. A friend goes with me and she tells me what she does. Constantly when she sees me and something happens to pass me, she turns when she sees me laughing and she starts standing after school, watching that she constantly walks less than me, but she prefers me to walk after her. When they are my friend and they see me and something happens to them, they start behaving strangely, they stand watching me after school. When her friend looked at them and did not look away, and she pretends to be crazy. Do you think there is something I have become the center of attention almost every girl knows about me. Is it normal?