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How Do I Know If He Really Loves Me?

By bongo90 October 05, 2020 17 answers Last updated October 05, 2020

Hi I'm 17 I'm a girl. I've been dating a boy for a month and he tells me he loves me, but I don't believe him. Because before me he was going to marry another, but he was going to military service and then the girl cheated on him with her neighbor. Then they separated and he started dating another and after her with me. I think he wants to marry me just to get revenge on her. I don't believe those who say "I love you" very early. He keeps telling me he loves me, but I don't believe him. How do I know if he really loves me I want to be sure. PLEASE give me a mind. HOW DO I UNDERSTAND WHETHER I REALLY LOVE ME? ...

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sexy_girlxxx answered · October 05, 2020

   Maybe he's going with you right now to forget the one he intended to marry, don't forget that he broke up with her of his own free will ... Let's put that aside, he may not love you yet, but he has feelings to you, if he didn't, he wouldn't go with you ... And you can test if he loves you by jokingly telling him "when will you introduce me to yours" and already from the answer you will understand what his intentions are SUCCESS!

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enssahbc answered · October 05, 2020

   Well, it's completely impossible for him to love you. Unless it's love at first sight. He may feel something for you, but it is certainly not love. What can I tell you only time will tell. I'm sorry, I don't want to interfere with you, but isn't it too early for you to get married. Experience your hikes, decide if you love him and only then decide. I wish you success, I hope you understand what you want !!!

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pakantuts69 answered · October 05, 2020

   At first you are quite small for a serious relationship. At this age you say I love you and in a month it is no longer so. I have a 16-year-old daughter and I know what she's talking about. At this age, what you feel is strong but short-lived. And don't think about marriage at all. He may do it on purpose or he may really feel something for you. But as I told you at this age you have very strong emotions that change very often and quickly. You still don't know what real love and real sex are and things go wrong.

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Angie000 answered · October 05, 2020

   DO YOU KNOW BETTER LEAVE HIM BECAUSE HE DIDN'T FORGET HER.

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toopunk4you answered · October 05, 2020

   Well, sit down and talk to him, tell him how you feel and when you see his reaction, you will find out for yourself if he loves you and why he is with you ....

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harshi012 answered · October 05, 2020

   Talk to him

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karla_zambrano answered · October 05, 2020

   I can still tell you only 1 if he loves you I will pay you a lot of attention to you and there will be no old or new relationship or old or new woman for him and if he honestly doesn't remind me how naughty he is for you or that only if he is happy it will be evident when it is with you

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tara_thomson answered · October 05, 2020

   you will find out for yourself if he loves you only by the way he looks at you with the way he speaks to you, whether he speaks more about your relationship or about the previous ones. But don't hurry to get married. are not well aware, if you want to have a failed marriage behind you then make this mistake I tell you I girl of 16 years. :)

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chenniezhang answered · October 05, 2020

   My advice is not to rush to get married because it's too early for you. I am a girl of 17, I love my friend very much but I realize that it is too early for marriage. We have been together for 9 months, but sometimes I have doubts about his feelings .. I think only time will tell if he truly loves you .. :)

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girlnextdoor5280 answered · October 05, 2020

   I do not agree with this that a man in love cannot be trusted, no matter how much he speaks in love, he can look at you very carefully. you can be very disappointed most men look you in the eye and they lie, they look at the benefit they deceive us very well and it is a pity that they succeed. usually by cutting our wings we ride the broom. my advice girl is don't believe everything have one thing in mind not to make you an idiot.

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riviera72 answered · October 05, 2020

   I have a question for the author. he tells you that he loves you, and did he mention a wedding to you, or do you just draw some conclusions from the fact that he was engaged, and now he tells you that he loves you? to №13 - I do not agree that a man can not look in love! just as there are men who look a woman in the eye and lie, so there are women. and vice versa ... both women and men can watch in love. it is important to be able to look deep into the gaze to understand! for example, I initially trusted my friend when he told me he loved me. lately I trust him less and less, although looking me in the eye is not the same as in the beginning. just felt.

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brunoierullo answered · October 06, 2020

   I feel the same way about the author now; (

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Lora_Key answered · October 06, 2020

   My advice is to be very careful. I was with a boy, he looked at me very much in love, he did everything for me, I knew he loved me. Everyone saw him, but in the end it turned out that he was spinning three more and I accidentally understood that and what he was in love with, that's how much his love is. Since then, I don't trust men and myself, because intuition can also deceive you. Men are two types of good or women, the good are good but on the other hand they are super indecisive because they have been hurt and they are afraid. Women, on the other hand, look you in the eye and they lie, but they are braver, they will come and tell you everything at the risk of being cut off, but their advantage is that when they fall in love, they stay forever. But to do so must be difficult, while the good with them is difficult, they find it difficult to let some into the heart, and when that happens they hide it until they are convinced that they can show their feelings. I don't want to scare you, I'm just advising you. Dear Ladies, keep one thing in mind and do not believe everything they tell you. Don't be naive so they don't use you. moderator: separate your thoughts with a period and a capital letter, because next time I will not publish your comment.

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milannaviana answered · October 06, 2020

   You know, if you don't trust him, nothing will happen! But if you're not sure, wait a minute with this wedding. Wait and make sure that he really loves you so that there are no unpleasant surprises. And I can't figure out how he wants revenge on that one. It depends on how close you are. If you have been together for a long time do not doubt! If you are new, wait a bit (get to know him and be patient)! Wishing you success !!! :)

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jamiex1999 answered · October 06, 2020

   Sounds like a Turkish TV series to me

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sexyella40 answered · October 06, 2020

   Until №19 - You watch a lot of soaps;)

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intimissimiofficial answered · October 07, 2020

   I do not have much experience, but I know one thing that if he loves you he will be ready for anything for you. I think talk to him and tell him that you love him, but you are not ready for this big step yet ...! If he loves you he will really understand you and support your decision ..! I've been hurt many times too, are they lying to me that they love me, but that shouldn't stop us from loving someone again .. And there will certainly be many more boys in your life .. so don't hurry .. . !!