I have a friend that I love very much, but somehow I started looking at women. Let me tell you a story. My boyfriend and I are going to a birthday party, and after I had a few drinks, I went out on the terrace to smoke a cigarette. A girl from the guests came and told me that she had never kissed another girl and that she wanted to try and I immediately agreed and we kissed for 10 or 15 minutes on the terrace without stopping, and the interesting thing is that I really liked this one. a kiss. After my friend found out what had happened, he didn't make me a scene of jealousy or anything like that, he just told me, think about what you want, because that's not how it happens. Oh what can I think ... sometimes when we have sex with him and imagine the image of this girl ... and I love him so much, and she was just a whim maybe I don't know ... I met her several times, but I didn't get a single "Hello", but I still can't stop looking at women. When a girl passes me, I immediately look at her, starting from the chest and ass, this is not typical for me, I have always been a good girl and I have never deviated from the norms in my family, and this attraction amazes me a lot. Tell me what to do .... I'm very confused.
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Well, it's good that you have a boyfriend and he's a boy. Maybe you're right: "Looking at girls is a whim ..." I'll give you a piece of advice: Apologize to your friend, show him that you love him, that he's the only one for you, that you were born for him ... Spend more time together and you will see how it will go ... And now on the topic: "How do I know what my true sexual orientation is?": Well, it's simple! Understand: Who do you like more? Girls or boys! Look inside yourself ... Accept the girls as friends and nothing more! They are ... Just people! Your real passion must be boys. Otherwise you can understand it by thinking which kiss was better! Ahh: And why did you accept the female kiss ?! ---------- I hope you solve the problem ... GOOD LUCK, SUCCESS! ------
I think deep down you want to experiment with a woman. Having sex with a woman. There is nothing wrong with this. You're just more relaxed. There is research that proves that girls during puberty often experiment with other girls. But of course no one admits it. This is normal. However, it is a completely different matter if you fall in love with her. This would mean that you are either bisexual or homosexual.
You are either bisexual or homosexual.
What are your dreams? Do you do it there with men or women? In my opinion, this is a true indication, because the repressed unconscious sensations come to the surface then.