Hello, I have a girlfriend of 6 months, but we have not reached sex yet. Since she is a virgin and she is obviously afraid, I wanted to ask you how to wind her. It came to love massages by both of them, but when we get to the real part, it's all over. If anyone knows a way to calm her down and wind her up through action please share! Thanks in advance!
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You don't write your age, but if you are over 16, 6 months is a long time. I don't want to scare you, but she may not have a real desire for you. A lot of girls "go" with someone because of prestige, because they have a good friendship and so on. However, you can try Petting - this is a technique for young people, which uses language, lips for mutual satisfaction, but does not lead to penetration. For example, she can give you fellatio, you can give her oral sex or satisfy her with your fingers, but you do not have sex and you save yourself the risk of pregnancy. Be sure to use a lubricant if you are going to stimulate it with your hands. Read about Petting on the Internet. In general, there are no boundaries other than penetration itself. I think she will agree to such an arrangement. However, if you are elderly (she is over 20 years old) let her seek the services of a psychologist Success
Wow, this word "penetration" sounds so anti-arousing :) Why do I have the feeling that it is used mainly by adult nerds .. :) Well, author, or she is very young yet and she is afraid of sexual intercourse in general. And now, if she's 25 and older, maybe she doesn't trust you as a person yet, she may have been hurt, and now if she lets go, she's afraid she might be so attached to you, and think, that you don't care about her enough. Talk openly with her, ask her directly, but carefully why she does not want to let you go, listen to her patiently and try to calm her down and predispose her purely mentally, say that you like her as she is and in 1-2 weeks you will is rolled up in my opinion. Whether it's smaller or bigger, just with some people without an open and in-depth conversation, nothing can be achieved for anything.
And what does she say about it? Apparently I was scared? So you ask strangers here her place? It is obvious that your relationship is nothing special, since there is no communication between you. You're just looking for an easy way to get your little churk. For thugs like you, my advice is to drive by hand. :)
tell her you love her, give her flowers or something
to make her? Well, you can't if she doesn't want to.
Poppers.
It depends on your age. If you are a teenager - the first time for the girl is very important. In a sense - here it is not sex that is leading, but the way. Because the first time is painful for the girl and is associated with fears. She is unlikely to have an orgasm the first time with a man. Go to a disco, to a party with friends, don't drink like pigs, have fun, dance, be alone for a while, kiss, touch. Then join the group again. Tenderness, whispered words in the ear, spontaneity are important. If you have the opportunity to use the terrain - take her there surprisingly. Do it in your greatest passion. So that she does not tremble in anticipation and has a lump in her stomach for fear of what will happen. Spontaneity. That's it. No unnecessary drooling.
Just because she slept with you doesn't mean she has no feelings for you. She just doesn't feel ready. That's why you can't wind it. Whatever you tell her and whatever you give her will not change anything. She will sleep with you when she feels ready. If you can't accept it or you can't wait, you better break up with her now and don't torture each other. He can let you go tomorrow, maybe in a year, maybe in two. It depends on how he feels, no matter how old he is.
If the girl is not yet mentally ready for this step, pressing her will only repel her! If you really loved her, you would upload her as long as it takes and you wouldn't roar on the forums! However, when you ask the question, it is more than clear that you think more with the lower than with the upper head and that you are not her person!
Please do not use the vulgar expression "let you go", especially when it comes to a virgin woman / girl!
Offff, you have the problem. Someone is wondering how to survive, he roars that he holds it in his hand, please do not bother us with rich stories. These are problems for people who do not have problems with money. Sex is the only way you can you can already afford it, as it went from "normal" to "luxury" category.
Separate and do not be rude, she will not let you go. Such connections drag on and no solution is ever reached. I've been like this for a whole year, and a friend 3 .. Stay 6 months and don't become another bastard.
It depends on how old you are, although it is not the most important thing. It would be better to talk to her and tell her that it's not scary, that she will like it, calm her down and she will ask for it now, she doesn't want to because she is afraid (maybe) if she calms down I think it will happen. Success!