I read a lot here and finally decided to share my problem, maybe it's not a problem but just my little sexual desire .... I have a serious friend for 3 and a half years we are together and live together. The difference in age is big. In the beginning I didn't have much experience in sex and accordingly most of my things were new experiences, I didn't pay attention to how and where. I had no problem with cumming it made me cum many times we did it all day we didn't get out of bed. But over time, he seemed tired. It's as if he doesn't do it with such pleasure anymore and from there he doesn't give me pleasure either. It ends without a problem of course much faster than before, but the problem is that I can't the only way is by licking me ... And from there comes the big problem, he doesn't do it before, there was no problem with that, now the only way to make him do is pose 69 yes but so I can't but enjoy his caresses "downstairs" at all. I tried to play with him first, then with me, but when he was done he would either fall asleep or forget or be lazy, as if I would make him carry me in his arms. If my hygiene is the problem, I don't see where else, I'm completely gynecologically healthy, I maintain myself regularly, I don't see what the problem is to refuse. He used to do it with pleasure, now it seems as if his desire for me has completely disappeared ... It became my problem for a little while ... But my question is if there is someone here who had my problem, let him tell me how to overcome it. I will be sincerely grateful for any advice. (Drop option is off) I tried to play with him first, then with me, but when he was done he would either fall asleep or forget or be lazy, as if I would make him carry me in his arms. If my hygiene is the problem, I don't see where else, I'm completely gynecologically healthy, I maintain myself regularly, I don't see what the problem is to refuse. He used to do it with pleasure, now it seems as if his desire for me has completely disappeared ... It became my problem for a little while ... But my question is if there is someone here who had my problem, let him tell me how to overcome it. I will be sincerely grateful for any advice. (Drop option is off) I tried to play with him first, then with me, but when he was done he would either fall asleep or forget or be lazy, as if I would make him carry me in his arms. If my hygiene is the problem, I don't see where else, I'm completely gynecologically healthy, I maintain myself regularly, I don't see what the problem is to refuse. He used to do it with pleasure, now it seems as if his desire for me has completely disappeared ... It became my problem for a little while ... But my question is if there is someone here who had my problem, let him tell me how to overcome it. I will be sincerely grateful for any advice. (Drop option is off) I am completely gynecologically healthy, I maintain myself regularly, I don't see what the problem is to refuse. He used to do it with pleasure, now it seems as if his desire for me has completely disappeared ... My problem became a little long ago ... But my question is if there is someone here who had my problem, let him tell me how to overcome it. I will be sincerely grateful for any advice. (Drop option is off) I am completely gynecologically healthy, I maintain myself regularly, I don't see what the problem is to refuse. He used to do it with pleasure, now it seems as if his desire for me has completely disappeared ... It became my problem for a little while ... But my question is if there is someone here who had my problem, let him tell me how to overcome it. I will be sincerely grateful for any advice. (Drop option is off)
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Hi, I had a similar problem. When I started telling my partner that he was no man and that he was useless for not giving me oral and cumming me and that I had better find someone else, he immediately started doing whatever I wanted. Or talk to him about the topic, which is a more painless option. Good luck :))
When it comes to sex, not only French love from below is important to enjoy .. It's just important to have desire and love between you ..!
Anything that is overdone eventually gets boring. No passion is eternal, and desires are exhausted. You say your difference is big. Or maybe that's the reason? After all, life is not just about sex.
What you are describing is completely normal. All men get tired of having sex with the same woman and over time they give less and less.
I think you're tired of him.
Give me some rest, he's not a machine, if you do it all day it's normal for him to get bored, he just needs some rest.
M44 Go straight to the point - set yourself to 69, but when it starts, don't worry too much. Just enjoy until you reach the top, and then take care of it in turn. This works for me and my wife. Separately, I really like her cumming while licking her.
Make yourself a different intimate hairstyle. If he still doesn't want to - tell him that you need it and that he doesn't stumble. If he still doesn't want to - buy a vibrator :) Or find a real man.