So, first let me say that the topic is not about homophobes and people who hate homosexuals. Please do not read the following lines, they are not for you. For those who want to help: I'm a 23-year-old girl, I define myself as a lesbian, something between a tomboy and a lame, it's hard to say I'm so far away. A year ago I moved to a new apartment, and another girl lives next door, maybe my age or a little older. She meets all the signs that she is interested in women - she wears plaid shirts, sometimes boyfriend jeans, her face is a little rough, and I often see her in the parking lot of the block to meet other women. He hasn't done it lately, but he's been doing it all summer. At first I didn't notice her, we meet quite often, she walks her dog around the block and we constantly come across each other. The last few months, however, have begun to attract me. More and more my gay radar for her is pushing me to action. When we see each other, we look each other straight in the eye, every time, but I've already started to look down because I'm thinking about her and I'm worried. As for me - I'm super worried, so far I've only had one failed relationship with another woman, I have no good memories. I want to talk to her so we can get to know each other, but how? I don't want to push it away, I don't want it to be just a dunk. Somehow it attracts me in a special way. The situation I am in is quite difficult, we are not in common with her, we only meet around the house and rarely in the city center, she does not even live in my block, but in the next one, they are glued cooperatives. It impresses me that every time we meet, he looks me straight in the eye, it's not done with strangers, what do you think? Do I have a chance? Or I misunderstood the signals, but I've never had such a strong attraction to a stranger? If you can give me advice on how to talk to her or provoke her to do so, I will be very grateful. And again, please, without homophobic comments and insults, I believe that I have not insulted you in any way;)
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Lots of labels, lots of things, it was a girl!
When she is around the block with her dog, just say hello and ask her questions about him. As they say, how long has it been there, then tell her that you have to go home because you have started a very interesting book and you think about it all day or you have to cook a very complicated meal. This is a prerequisite for further conversation. If he is interested in you, next time he will ask you what happened to the food or whether you have read the book or he will just talk to you. Smile! If she happens to ask you personally how things are, tell her that the girl you saw broke up.
Well, I'm a girl and I have no experience with women, but you can talk to her, for example, to compliment her (that she's cute or I don't know about her clothes xD) or that you meet her quite often and she would like to be friends and so on :) good luck and boldly forward <3 write a comment if things go well
Hello :) I am also a lesbian, a little older than you and for many years I have been wondering where to meet such literate and decent girls like you. So they were still out there. : D I would write you a lot about your situation, but I will be brief. The most important thing I would advise you is to be careful not to fall into any unrealistic fantasies about this girl and to attribute to her qualities that are only in your imagination. I advise you to imagine that the next time you meet her
Just tell her she has a nice dog! Ask her what her name is, tell her she came up with a nice name for him. Take a conversation and meet her!