Hello readers! I have a question for you. So I liked a girl, but my dilemma is how to meet her (my goal is not necessarily to become boyfriends, I thought she was a nice girl). My sister is in a modern dance club, and I go to their concerts every time. And I liked a girl from the upper age group, I found her in the city (we live in a not very big city) studying at my school, but I know her because I moved after 7th grade. I know her name and her Facebook, but we have no mutual friends, the option remains via Facebook, but honestly I'm not a big supporter of this tactic, it seems a little strange without knowing each other to write to her, but nothing prevents me from trying. How would you try to meet her in my place? Is it on Facebook or live at one of their performances? I will be happy to share your opinion :)
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If there is Instagram, follow it there - it is much easier and casual to start a conversation without looking creepy ... especially if you post a story. And if you follow her there, it will still not be strange, unlike FB, where for me personally as a girl, I am very strange when I see an invitation for friendship from an unknown boy ... while on Instagram there is no way to be sure if the girl is not confused for example or something.
If you don't want her as a boyfriend, why do you want to meet her? To waste her time? That you dig from the face and post a topic? Can she have a friend, her environment and not deal with you? Try it after a concert, but first find out exactly what you want, that such uncertainty does not make a good impression.
Dude, if you like the girl, give it a try! You can only win. Even if he cuts you off, you still win. The good thing about rejections is that you stop caring and you become more and more confident. At one point you have fun and stop worrying. The girls feel anxious and insecure, and that repulses him. All the big strippers are tightly cut by women before they stop caring and gain confidence. While you are wondering, someone else will act and steal it from you. If it doesn't work out with the babe, don't do any tragedies, even rejoice, because if he ties you up and after a while I tell you the game is a thousand times worse option. Think for yourself that if you don't like it, then there is no taste!
Dude, you say you don't necessarily want him to be your boyfriend. And what do you really want? Does she want you to be her friend? Once you become a friend of a woman, she will always treat you like that and you will be a trash can. You will listen to the stories about her dramas, about how she likes this or that, how she is in love with someone and you will literally be like a puppy to her. Don't become such a pathetic guy, as many men do, who think that in order to have a wife they have to be her friend, to hang out with her, hoping that she will like them one day! This is a terrible loser and there is not a drop of courage.
Use your sister to introduce you live to this girl. ;)
To number 2. I did not express myself correctly. I wanted to say that he could have a boyfriend, and that in the end he might not tie me up. If I use a social network it will be Instagram, as number 1 suggested. Thanks for the advice.