Hi, I'm a 19 year old girl. Some time ago I had a flirtation with a 28-year-old man. I wanted him only sexually and superficially, no deep feelings. However, things did not work out and I caught a friend, we have been going for almost a year and we love each other very much. Recently, however, this man wrote to me several times and I suppressed the desire to be in my bed for a very long time. One night I don't know why I decided to go out with him. He explained to me that he wanted me very much, but he did not know how I would react. He started kissing me and every part of me wanted to answer. Eventually I realized in time and left. Now I don't know what to do, I just want sex from this person, but the sexual tension between us is huge. How do I suppress these thoughts?
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Shameless, how are you not ashamed to deceive your friend, with what eyes do you look at him?
Because of the feelings you have for your boyfriend, you need to end any relationship with this man. Imagine what a betrayal this is for the person you love. This is awful! Your friend trusts you, he trusts you with his feelings! Think about how you would feel if he had such thoughts towards another woman (this would mean insult and betrayal to me). Enough motivation to keep you away is to look like another man. Hardly any girl would be proud to have become someone's 3rd, 5th or 10th ...
And did you forget that you have a friend? Stop screwing up for your dad if you don't want to ruin your relationship.
One question-If you love your friends so much, why do you want to make a cake with the other or does your friend have a problem with having horns over his head?
Well, how to suppress them - through your will. Stop writing to him, stop dating him. You ignore it and that's it.
Shameless ... hardly any girl would be proud to be a number ...: D: D HAHAHA There is no such laugh, and maybe it will be a number for her ... and how many men most brazenly cheat and trample women are you Poor crushed maids and complex thin-skinned. Girl, have fun, live your life and don't worry about anything. Whether you will hide from him, whether you will tell him, whether he will want to separate - this is not the end of the world, and you are free, not a slave to the pathetic complex stereotypes of a pathetic society that does exactly what it spits and fights. Ganja's breasts, how great moralists they are, what values do you see, you can't touch them !!! HAHA: D It is absolutely your human right to do whatever you want with your relationships, your body and your life in general. Men to want in this world. No one is irreplaceable and no one is more important than YOU. There is always a way to get things in order or to fix something, only from that world there is no going back and there is no way to fix something. Live while you are young (and as an older one), do not waste your life by resigning yourself and not suppressing anything, you can only suppress such complexes as the one above. ж21
I would add one so to speak rule to a woman who is like an idol to me and in part her point of view coincides with that of №7. (only in part). So she said the following - that if while you have a relationship with a man you fall in love with another, and then you wonder what to do, who to choose - without hesitation part with the first! You can really do anything that would make you happy. But this way you are guaranteed to change a lot of men. Because a person's needs change, dreams change, goals change ... At some stage in life, the person you were in love with will be different, and so will you. You will probably fall into the same dilemma you are in now, but what? At least you will know what you are striving for and that it is not difficult to achieve it. Even if you don't break up with your boyfriend, you'll sleep with someone else. What, as №7 claims, we are free. But don't be surprised if they treat you the same way you treat men in your life. I'm not saying it's fatal to break off a relationship with anyone. This remains your right, the right to choose. But when you have found a person to love you and it is mutual, if there are differences between you, try to accept or correct them ... The easiest thing will be to abandon him, to escape from the problem. At least realize what doesn't satisfy you in your current relationship. From now on, the field of expression is entirely yours! Good luck! .. The easiest thing will be to drop it, to escape from the problem. At least realize what doesn't satisfy you in your current relationship. From now on, the field of expression is entirely yours! Good luck! .. The easiest thing of all will be to drop it, to escape the problem. At least realize what doesn't satisfy you in your current relationship. From now on, the field of expression is entirely yours! Good luck!
I wanted to scold you like a cart driver, but ... I'm not surprised by what I read ... then go and complain about your relationships, unhappy slut ..