I will be brief and try to be clear. I left my "husband" for another man who loves me. But I have a problem .... I took out a loan because of our "family", he kept asking me if I had repaid it, and I just said to get rid of it that it had already been repaid. The mistake is mine and now it comes to me, and he takes a clean salary and has no worries. I am asking for advice....?
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My advice is the one there who left your husband to help you a little. Meaning, your husband (the ex already I guess) takes a net salary, but he is not obliged to pay you the loan, or rather to help you, given that you are already with another man. Unless you understand each other that way, then you can just talk to him and tell him you can't do it alone. You shouldn't have just lied to him, but now that I'm done, I don't know what else you could do. I hope I understood correctly that you took out the loan when you lived with your husband, and not that you took out a loan when you were with the man for whom you left your husband ... In both cases they are not you owe nothing, but still ...
You are both leaving your family and you are insolent now. My, she will get a clean salary, I hope she finds a clean wife to share with a loyal person in her relationship. I get angry that I'm a woman sometimes because of people like you.
Repost by an unknown author from the comments of dir. bg: When you don't have money, where did you go to buy Ganyo and borrow in advance from your possible, future and generally unclear income, just because the System has zombied you from TV and Google - "you must have this!", "live the moment now! "... etc. etc. You put it in the jar and when you collect it - only then you buy it! You have no money - YOU DO NOT BUY! You just don't have the money, how are you going to buy it, Bunak? !! You don't have NOW, and how will you have twice as much in the future as you don't have now! ?? HOW? !! THINK YOU, GANYO!
Tell him what? That you threw it to get rid of it and now you want money? If you are officially divorced or the debt is in your name, there is nothing you can do legally. You can only ask if dignity is at stake.
Is your question inappropriate? Apparently you have taken out a consumer loan, personally, without guarantors. It remains at your expense and you personally have to repay it, your husband has nothing to do with it. And why doesn't your new husband help you pay him off?
In this world, not only loans are paid, but also stupidity, lies, infidelity ... Since you have nothing to do with your husband in quotes, it follows that he also has nothing to do with you and your credit. If your new husband loves you, he should want and help you, turn to him. You will just see if his love is not just in words. By the way, if the roles were reversed and your ex paid off the loan, would you take half the installments? Hardly.
Don't you work or don't you get paid ...
Women's stupidity and impudence know no bounds ...
Many reproaches and rightly so, but still to clarify. We don't have a divorce, as I read he doesn't owe me, I think that the "other" is not obliged to help me with the loan. So my "husband" will eat and drink and fight in the chest that he gives a fixed floor to our son, and the other to take him. Those help me a lot, but not for that.