Hello. Some time ago I asked you for advice and you responded. I think I need you now. I will be grateful if you help me this time as well. So to drive in essence .. I met a boy older than me by 1 year (I'm 18) .. and we went out several times in common company. With his behavior he shows that he has some sympathy for me, and he told my girlfriend that he only wants us to go out together (she introduced us). So far so good, but how can I tell him that I haven't had a friend so far .. somehow how can I say it .. I'm just ashamed to tell him .. And I'm not indifferent to him. Please advise me something. Thank you! :))
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I think if he is a normal and decent boy he will understand. I am 20 years old and I would not have any problem if my future girlfriend has not had a relationship before. On top of that, you are young, at the age of 18 it is normal for a girl not to have had a relationship before.
You have nothing to be ashamed of, you just say - I haven't had a friend so far. - and that's it. Everyone finds a friend when he finds the right person for himself, he can be 13, 14, 16, 18, 20, .. when he gets up. I don't know what this moron would be (I'm talking for example) who likes a girl, but when he finds out that she hasn't had a boyfriend so far, he should dump her. At least I've never heard such a story. So don't worry, if he really likes you, he won't care about any pointless things.
Well, how do you say it - well, when it comes to that, say something like "It may sound funny or weird, but I haven't had a boyfriend yet ..." if he really likes you, or he's just smarter, no I would laugh at you. For example, I would never make fun of anyone for that, especially someone I really like. Good luck with the meeting and don't worry! * Yasa
I don't think it's that important that you didn't have a boyfriend. By that logic, you don't even have to tell him. But don't lie to him that you had. Just in case - tell him. :)