Well, I'm a 25-year-old woman, I recently dated a man who stumbled upon me. Yesterday he was waiting for me in front of the workplace with roses in his hand. He doesn't ask me anything and kisses me. Since then, I didn't dare pick him up, but set the phone on fire. The problem is that I am a lesbian and have never been with a man. I'm not very sure I'm a lesbian anymore because I like him a lot. However, when I am with him, something stops me not so much physically as mentally. I don't know if I'm worried or if I just can't feel such a passion for a man. But I'm definitely very confused and I don't know what to tell him. I don't want to hurt him, I don't want to lie to him. I want to try, but I don't know if it will work and if I should take a risk, and I shouldn't lose him as a friend, because he is very decent and understood. Advice?
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Try it.
Get back on track and pay attention to the boy!
Try it, I hope it gets you back on track! Amen!
I'll tell you how a woman like you treated me years ago. She told me something like, "I really want to respond to your feelings, but my interests are different." It was something like that. True, I didn't like it very much, because she was bisexual after all, but things became clearer with her statement.
In my opinion, do not hide anything from him, tell him and try so, if it does not work, I will not bother in front of him, it is better to fix everything in the beginning. Honestly, I think it's better to continue your old life with the girls!
Try it, you may be.
Probably not, maybe something in the past prompted you to go to a woman, or maybe you're Bee. Don't tell him, just continue with him and you will clarify everything for yourself. This will probably make you get on the right track, and you can stay there with him for a very long time. Try! I want to believe that everything will be great between you! I want to believe that you will be happy with him and I wish him from the bottom of my heart! Good luck!!!!