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How Do I Tell Them I'm Not Gay?

By anaguerramusic August 13, 2020 14 answers Last updated August 13, 2020

A boy of 19 writes to you. A year ago I met a pretty cool guy on Skype. Of course, he didn't listen to chalga and such nonsense, and I told him I listened to the same thing he did. A whole month has passed and we have already started sending each other songs from our time and I listen to old ones before it didn't behave strangely. But a week later, I began to notice that he was asking me various questions related to sex. Only he sent me obscene photos, I naturally deleted them so that they would not see my sister who is 8 and my mother who is 43 and the boy in question is 22 - only 3 years older than me. I know and have heard from many people that people nowadays watch porn - especially men watching sex with men. Well, at 13 I watched with a man and a woman. But last night my sister personally checked our conversation and she found it difficult to talk to her and only she knows that this boy bothered me but how can I tell my mother now so that things don't get worse. I will be happy to help me and you Thank you.

Answers 14

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lola_bhabhi answered · August 13, 2020

   My mother accepted that I was bisexual ... I don't know about you. Start hinting at not dating girls, etc., but I will give you advice - do not give up either sex, everyone is bisexual! It's best with both men and women! And as for this one, I think he's only interested in sex - that's why honestly - it would be good to go out with both girls and boys!

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badabum answered · August 13, 2020

   Just to add, my sister can also see which boy I'm writing with because she's afraid of getting a virus or, God forbid, sending more obscene photos. Although she's only 8, my mother and she are both watching what he and my mother are doing. she allowed her to write to him because she was worried that this boy might catch me or impress me with something, but my sister wrote to him: Be careful with my brother that he is quite a closed boy and he is worried and the boy writes well, darling, he won't worried and she went to me to sleep and my mother checked the conversation and cried this boy will we judge him

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fl2tx2018 answered · August 13, 2020

   Horror, nothing became clear to me from the story so written! When you're 19, get some education, huh?

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gigichardonnay answered · August 13, 2020

   Hahahaha dude, thank you ... You didn't understand anything. Are you gay or not? What bothered you that the boy wanted sex with you, that he watched porn with men, that which? It is not clear. Your sister, who is 8, was watching your chat and she felt sick. What made her sad? Because you're gay, not gay, or that the other boy is gay or not gay? What does "How do I tell my mother that this boy bothered me?" You intend to tell your mother that you, a 19-year-old boy, are embarrassed by the obscene photos that another boy you liked very much in the beginning (whatever you mean by that) sent you?!?! ?! Learn to write competently and understandably and come back for advice :)

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djmariio answered · August 14, 2020

   I personally did not understand anything from your story. Are you gay or have you just decided to "get up"?

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unclejaket answered · August 14, 2020

   As far as I understand, your sister thought you were gay and told your mother? There is nothing to explain to them - you are an adult. It is enough to tell them the truth that you are dating a gay man, but you are not like that. And he explained to his sister that it was not cultural to interfere in the private lives of others and that foreign correspondence was not read. You actually like this boy, don't you? :)

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chloepie answered · August 14, 2020

   I don't think I understood something ... What's the problem ?! : D

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makeucum1918 answered · August 15, 2020

   The problem is that the author and his family have filmed. :) Author, drive it more calmly, what court, what five levs ?! :) Skype has a blocking option, no one forces you to write to people who disturb your peace of mind. :)

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reprobbishop answered · August 15, 2020

   Abe, shake your brain a little and think for yourself how to tell them. Ever since such sites appeared, everyone has been asking for help for something ready. No wonder the brain of modern man is shrinking - he is too lazy to think

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maudwelzen answered · August 16, 2020

   number 6 your spelling when I look at it what is it I wonder how you drink I write as I want you do not call as you know

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alexandre.curi answered · August 16, 2020

   Number 8 I told my sister not to watch if she was worried but she was not confused but worried about me. so we had a conversation then finally she cried but I hugged her. Number 8 your comment is very accurate

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adamsenatori answered · August 16, 2020

   and what happened in the end?

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gaby_devil_xx answered · August 17, 2020

   I understand your relationship and your hesitation perfectly, but if things go in a direction you don't want, don't hesitate to end the contact without any worries. I have experience in such things and if you do not take adequate measures in time, things will only get more serious and it will be harder for you to stop.

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pakwakgirl answered · August 17, 2020

   I didn't understand something, but why is your title like that? As number 1 he thinks you would .. last? -_-