How Do You Know It's Right?

   Going out with everyone is unlikely to help you figure out who's right. Rather, it will confuse you even more. Personally, I've always thought that these things just feel intuitive. For example, I still didn't like anyone, but when I saw my wife for the first time, I was convinced that it was She, even though I didn't even know her name. And so it happened. I don't know, some inner feeling ... But don't let this inner feeling be confused with butterflies. It is much deeper. You just feel like you've known the person for many years, even though you haven't even exchanged a word yet. At least that's what happened to me, I don't know about the others.

   I'm a 21-year-old boy and first I want to tell you that I know how hard it is to be alone, and so am I. My advice to you is by no means to give in to anyone who has liked you ... do you remember what makes you? Once you work, study and have clear goals in life, you have great value in the sea of ​​chalga k ****. Go out on dates with men, but be hard to reach and confident with high self-esteem, make them fight for you. There is no formula or method to find out who is in a relationship and who is not, but if they give up easily, then they do not deserve or want only sex. It is true that there are many liars and hypocrites among us, unfortunately ... that is why there are many injured girls.

   Hi, I've been like you before, I've been obsessed with finding the love of my life, but you don't do yourself a favor by dating anyone who gives you the attention they deserve, because love isn't just sweet talk and hot passions in bed, it is much more, it is your responsibility to take care of the other, to be by his side whenever he needs you, to try to understand him and not to leave him in a difficult moment even when he himself is behaving badly, rudely and so, love is the ability to care for others and love them as we love ourselves, it is also trust and communication and relationships that in the first place need to be built with the person, a kind of partnership and teamwork, I can talk more on the topic, but what can I say about myself - after many injuries I found a way to deal with the problem :)

   "but is it better to be alone and choose to be with the better one when he comes or?" - in my opinion yes, better alone than badly accompanied. You can be alone, but not alone. You can have fun in company, but to intimately let everyone in and look for the prince on a white horse, you will not succeed. One is that you yourself will be disappointed in men, and when you accumulate numbers, men will avoid you for a serious relationship. Watch your life calmly, the soul will find its partner on its own. You are still very young, it is too early to worry.

   I think you should try only the most reliable.

   You serious? You start with everyone and only then do you think whether or not? !! Chick, first the person gets to know each other, then the opportunity for a relationship is allowed. Not the other way around. This is what only the desperate or in love at first sight do. Get to know, do your women's tests, study BEFORE, not after. Go out with men, WITHOUT getting in touch with them right away. Talk, talk and talk again. But not from those who pretend to be good listeners, simply because they have nothing to say without it, but with those who SPEAK. They share about themselves, work, study, plans, goals, dreams, ideas for their future. This way you will know up and down at least what kind of person is against you, do you like exactly that, do you have common things, at least similar views on life and future plans. Have you heard the most used expression in divorces "insurmountable differences", Well, this is happening to you, but AFTER. So, if you continue, in the end you will despair completely, you will run into some defender, you will feel completely immersed in his personality, to please him that there will be peace, you will lose yourself completely. Whoever wants a serious, full-fledged relationship, in which both are separate personalities with their pros and cons, will do the same with you, will want to get to know you. Well, for sure, if he has the slightest chance of sex, he won't bring you back, but the acquaintance will be according to the exchanged hormones. You get up to eat, he'll lie if you have to, to adjust and have more, you don't get up ... well, for rainy days he will at least hold you, that it will always be better than his hand, but even that will is until he collides with the one with whom he will have everything else. When he does not have the opportunity for sex, he will have to talk or run away to a more responsive person. If he escapes - great, stuck rod for what is it for you? !! If he stays, talk about who he is around you. It is up to you what you are looking for. If he tells you how much he pumps his triceps and tuning tarataykata ... well, if you like it, think about how you will cook special diets for him and he will be with the competition (car) more than with you, for example. After 4 months of climbing on my nerves, I realized that this is the right one for me, apart from the fact that I had sunk and without that to my ears. However, this did not stop me from having sex until at least a good acquaintance, testing for everything that excites me and I expect from the other person, and even his thirst for tolerance for my whims :). He was so convinced that when I was finally sure and I gave the long-awaited sign, so their technician applied that he almost took my shoulder, and then he first gave me the key to his apartment, in the morning he brought me back. I turn some angry, he finally says angrily that he loves me. He took me home, he left. After 5 months he called to ask me if it was not better to live together, if I wanted to, and if it was not better that way. I said no. I think so. After another hour he was in front of the house, he called me, I went out, he offered me marriage - 15 years already, happy :). I'm still getting on his nerves.

   You keep in touch for at least 2 years, all kinds of lovers pass by and everyone shows their horns, and only then do you understand whether it is "the right one" or not. There is no other way, unfortunately ... If he continues to make you happy, to think of you, to be friends, to respect you, and all the other things you have described, then this is Him! :) The connection is a construction, not a find on the street. Therefore, with a person more modest, but willing to build with you, you can build a far stronger and more reliable relationship than with someone who is the big deal, but otherwise does not bother to build something with someone.

   And what do you mean by "correct"? If you think that every second person who tells you sweet stories is this person, you still have a lot to learn about life, or maybe you've already found the right person and that's why you're uploading this story, I don't know, but I'll tell you one thing, the right person, just something he tells you it's him ... that's it, there's nothing else.

   It feels like your man. When I met my husband 5 years ago, I realized that I wanted to spend my life with him and be the father of my children. Despite this, hold on to the situation, I was difficult to access and I put it to many tests. We now have a child and we are very happy

   It really feels. Like me, 21 years ago. We knew each other as students, then we worked in neighboring companies and after work we drank coffee. A few months passed and an inner voice was telling me, "It's him. So, good luck, sweet girl." This is God's work. Live, have fun and everything will fall into place.