How Do You Know That Your Partner Loves You? How Do You Prove Your Love?

   Most of all, you will understand this - if he makes sacrifices for you, if he frees up his time to be with you, he misses important events for him, to be with you, to travel thousands of kilometers, just to see you as and those little gestures he makes for you. Remember important dates from your relationship, remember various events from a long time ago. Does he do that - know 100% that he loves you. I hope life meets you with a nice and good man for you, I hope it happens quickly, because they are disappearing. Fate knows its job.

   Unfortunately, many people of both sexes are selfish. They want to receive and do not see if and how much they give of themselves. If one gives a lot, the other becomes lazy. My recipe is for both to give for their partner, for the children, and for themselves. At the beginning of a relationship, if a man holds on to a woman, he will spare no effort and resources for her. He will spend money, time, help her and take an interest in her life. He will look for her, he will want to be present in her life. He will want to start a family. A normal man will do that. But there are also insane people, there are all kinds of complexes, over time things change very often. Many unhappy women say that was not the case in the beginning. Women should also make an effort to keep their husbands happy. The man as well as the woman should have time for themselves. My husband likes to play football once a week, likes to train after work. I like to go shopping, I also spend time on sports, I also spend time on hairstyles and make-up. When we manage to go out as a family, I spend more time preparing, and he takes care of himself and the child. If it slows down, it starts a vacuum cleaner, for example. She takes great care to be calm and to feel like a woman, not to be overwhelmed with housework. He takes care of me when I'm sick, which is proof that he loves me. Take care of the child who is mine from a previous marriage. He calls me on the phone the day he is at work and says he can't help but hear me for a long time. I can list many examples of my husband, for me he is the most wonderful and caring man and father. We are planning a wedding and waiting for our baby to be born. He does so many things for me that sometimes I think he deserves more. But I don't know what else to give him, I gave him everything, he says that I am his best friend and he wants nothing more than to raise our children and educate them well. I think that a woman should try to look good in front of her husband, even when she is sitting at home and only he sees her. She must seduce him, caress his ego, never criticize him, admire him. His husband's wings sprout, he becomes a super me, ready for anything for his beloved. The man must feel valued and important. You have to fit sexually. Happiness depends on the efforts of both, but we women very often look at the man under a magnifying glass, find flaws, do not support him and then complain. that a woman should try to look good in front of her husband, even when she is sitting at home and only he sees her. She must seduce him, caress his ego, never criticize him, admire him. His husband's wings sprout, he becomes a super me, ready for anything for his beloved. The man must feel valued and important. You have to fit sexually. Happiness depends on the efforts of both, but we women very often look at the man under a magnifying glass, find flaws, do not support him and then complain. that a woman should try to look good in front of her husband, even when she is sitting at home and only he sees her. She must seduce him, caress his ego, never criticize him, admire him. His husband's wings sprout, he becomes a super me, ready for anything for his beloved. The man must feel valued and important. You have to fit sexually. Happiness depends on the efforts of both, but we women very often look at the man under a magnifying glass, find flaws, do not support him and then complain.

   Unfortunately, many people of both sexes are selfish. They want to receive and do not see if and how much they give of themselves. If one gives a lot, the other becomes lazy. My recipe is for both to give for their partner, for the children, and for themselves. At the beginning of a relationship, if a man holds on to a woman, he will spare no effort and resources for her. He will spend money, time, help her and take an interest in her life. He will look for her, he will want to be present in her life. He will want to start a family. A normal man will do that. But there are also insane people, there are all kinds of complexes, over time things change very often. Many unhappy women say that was not the case in the beginning. Women should also make an effort to keep their husbands happy. The man as well as the woman should have time for themselves. My husband likes to play football once a week, likes to train after work. I like to go shopping, I also spend time on sports, I also spend time on hairstyles and make-up. When we manage to go out as a family, I spend more time preparing, and he takes care of himself and the child. If it slows down, it starts a vacuum cleaner, for example. She takes great care to be calm and to feel like a woman, not to be overwhelmed with housework. He takes care of me when I'm sick, which is proof that he loves me. Take care of the child who is mine from a previous marriage. He calls me on the phone the day he is at work and says he can't help but hear me for a long time. I can list many examples of my husband, for me he is the most wonderful and caring man and father. We are planning a wedding and waiting for our baby to be born. He does so many things for me that sometimes I think he deserves more. But I don't know what else to give him, I gave him everything, he says that I am his best friend and he wants nothing more than to raise our children and educate them well. I think that a woman should try to look good in front of her husband, even when she is sitting at home and only he sees her. She must seduce him, caress his ego, never criticize him, admire him. His husband's wings sprout, he becomes a super me, ready for anything for his beloved. The man must feel valued and important. You have to fit sexually. Happiness depends on the efforts of both, but we women very often look at the man under a magnifying glass, find flaws, do not support him and then complain. that a woman should try to look good in front of her husband, even when she is sitting at home and only he sees her. She must seduce him, caress his ego, never criticize him, admire him. His husband's wings sprout, he becomes a super me, ready for anything for his beloved. The man must feel valued and important. You have to fit sexually. Happiness depends on the efforts of both, but we women very often look at the man under a magnifying glass, find flaws, do not support him and then complain. that a woman should try to look good in front of her husband, even when she is sitting at home and only he sees her. She must seduce him, caress his ego, never criticize him, admire him. His husband's wings sprout, he becomes a super me, ready for anything for his beloved. The man must feel valued and important. You have to fit sexually. Happiness depends on the efforts of both, but we women very often look at the man under a magnifying glass, find flaws, do not support him and then complain.

   It is felt ... it is always felt. Love is hard to hide. In the first place for me, it is expressed in care - she is interested in you, have you eaten, are you cold, how do you feel, she asks you how your day went. He is interested in what you are interested in - music, movies, hobbies. He will want to spend time with you, he will look for you either by writing, calling, he will invite you to go out. He will want to touch you, and you will feel tenderness in his touch. Always look your eyes, they never lie !! The man in love with you will look at you with adoration, when you look him in the eyes he can smile, his eyes will literally shine, you will see tenderness in his eyes. You can catch him looking at you as you turn to the other side. He will look at you for a long time and it is as if he is in a trance. Don't worry, I've also found it very difficult to find someone who has real feelings for me. It's just that these people are a rarity in everyone's life, not to mention the new trends that we have, that romance is no longer in vogue, in its place are vulgarity, ease and debauchery. That's not true. I'm not very romantic, but there is a difference between making love and the other thing I don't want to say with the right word. About how I would know if I had met the Man - if I was comfortable with him, literally. If I feel that I can trust him, that I can talk to him about everything, I feel supported and still attracted - this is him. A couple should be besides lovers and friends, because the burning passion passes with a year and if there is no understanding and respect, the relationship goes to hell. You feel this person at home, you feel like you are merged and you are one. I don't believe in love at first sight, but sometimes even at the beginning of your acquaintance with a person, or even just by looking at each other, you have the feeling that you have known each other for a long time or some attraction as if with an invisible thread. But here it also depends on you what your perceptions are about love and relationships and how much you believe in them. Believe that you will meet love and you will really meet it. Don't look for her desperately, just believe. Attend meetings, socialize, work on yourself and one day you will be spotted.

   For me, the expression of love is in the little things. When I heard him coming home, I went to greet him at the door with a hug. To cook him something tasty to eat. In the morning to make him coffee and send him off with a kiss. Let's lie down on the couch and rest my head on it. When I see that he is tired, I should not handle him, but make sure that he is comfortable and that nothing irritates him. To send him a spontaneous message with a kiss. To bring him a little treat from an event I've been to. Small, spontaneous gestures, care and comfort. This is how I show my love. Different people do it differently, but I have the impression that I always react most strongly to people who express their feelings in a similar way.

   At least it's easy, if the person puts you first, loves you, everything else is an excuse. Here is an example: my husband and I have been together since school years, he is older than me, while I was in 12th grade and working in a small shop, in the evening he sat and waited for me to close, he brought me breakfast, always together everywhere , we do not leave. I can't give you a very precise definition of what I do for him, I don't know how to compromise according to the situation, when I see something cool I buy it as a gift, I cook him something he loves, I support him, I help him. I can give you the opposite example: I had a girlfriend, she was caught with a smut. On her birthday he went to drink beer with friends, and I, my husband and another boy collected the last money, we were then 9-10th grade, I don't know how much money we had, we bought her a cake and surprised her. So they eventually broke up,

   This is a good question and many people are left with the wrong impressions and give the wrong signals because they think that everyone loves and feels loved in the same way (like them). Error - see the book The Five Love Languages. There are at least 5 languages ​​of love - words, gifts, services, time together, physical touch. Ie I love to be touched and if my partner doesn't hug me, kiss me, make a lot of love to me, I will surely think that he doesn't care about me. And he expresses love by making gifts - small, everyday gifts, flowers, chocolate, books, movie tickets, big gifts - travel, jewelry, car ... He thinks he gives me everything, but I don't napping for gifts. Etc. When a man clarifies this with his partner, many things are sorted out.

   Well, there are no gestures, flowers and demonstrations, sex is rarely thought of. He doesn't tell me, it annoys me sometimes, but it's normal. We don't have time for us as a couple, but I hope for the future. Above all, we must love ourselves.

   Number 1, nonsense of a thousand and one nights does not listen to me. Everyone has a definition of "important events", but let's say that for me, for example ... the important event to go out with friends, to get together, that's what it's called. An important event for me is going to the gym every day. There is no way that someone, if the woman of my life will (if she makes these things a problem, it is more than clear that it is not her), blames me for these elementary things - the road. I don't know if you are a man or a woman, but I will tell you one thing - that's why women change / cheat on you. Simply because they get bored when you always neglect yourself to walk her bagpipe. So she automatically thinks she owns you. I think everyone has experienced it, whether with a boyfriend or a friend who keeps calling you and wants to see you and be together - well, it's just annoying. It will be sweet at first, but everyone wants freedom. ENOUGH SAID!

   You will quickly feel the love and you will distinguish between the lover and the justifier. One will make sacrifices for you, he will be inclined to disturb his comfort because of you. The other will justify himself with lack of time, money, with his parents, circumstances and everything. One will be ready to move out with you in a month, the other and 5 years can be justified until you feel that his mother is fine, nothing that he is 40. Not always the eyes, gestures reveal the person. There are also good actors. Brilliant actors. But action - always. And don't worry, I had an acquaintance at the time. Until she was 18, she hadn't even kissed a man, and she was very worried. I, on the other hand, started with these stories too early and told her honestly that maybe it's for the good, that it's 18 and the good is yet to come. And yes, that's how it turned out. She found the man.

   I am the Author. Maybe I should have said what I think about love. Thanks for sharing! I show it to myself with care, I ask him how he is, whether he has eaten well. I always help him as much as I can and I try to give him good advice. I love when he shares with me. I try to make him comfortable and cozy at home. When I have time, I cook him delicious things. I do everything I wanted someone to do for me. I forgive him for his mistakes and I don't give up, even when I have to. I lose myself sometimes, I merge with him. I like to see him happy and many other things.

   "Take care of the child who is mine from a previous marriage." - is this too much: D.