The title speaks for itself. I had a story with one person that lasted 3 months. 3 months of mixed signals, of showing interest on her part and the next moment of withdrawal. Just when I was giving up and forgetting her and saying to myself, "Well, it's not going to happen, I'd better move on," she was reappearing in my life in some way — or we'd meet at university and look at me. smiling, talking to me, or writing to each other on social media. Twice I invited her out - and 2 times dumb rulers. And so until yesterday, when I decided to take a step at a party where we were together. And he pushed me away for good. Ok, I understand that we will not be together. But ... it hurts the hell again! Because for 3 months I have feelings and illusions and expectations that something would happen with this person. I feel hurt, without anything really happening between us. Without having a relationship. I know she likes women too, so if anyone comments on the topic now, that's not the problem. He just doesn't like me. And I have to accept it and move on, but I feel disgusted. I just wanted to share and ask you how do you deal with rejection by a person with whom nothing has happened? F 22g
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By indulging in anger completely. I do not suppress all malice, rage, anger and hatred. I just let it show. I go through all the phases. From this "Who does he think of?" "To" Why doesn't he want me? "" To "" He doesn't deserve me ": You just give in to hate for as long as you need to. However, this affects the ego a lot. Especially when you realize that he has chosen a muffin or one much above his level financially or physically. That is, he has exceeded his capabilities and chosen one in appearance. You suffer him properly. After a while he realizes how fucked up he was that you were the better choice. At the moment one left me for a muffin and is already sorry, he complained to me about it. because he dropped me because of a poor replacement. The key to dealing with it is just to indulge in anger, to hold on to nothing.
Well, we don't overcome ...
And I overcome it with literacy. Unfortunately, it will have to be different for you.
There is no excuse for not being able to overcome rejection. And you seem to be studying higher ... On the subject - not everyone can like us. Forget the failure and move on to another goal.
You who like the other sex can be super cheeky. You want someone and because of that you are sure that he is like you. Why?
If you had overcome illiteracy, author ... Shame on you, people! You cannot write in your native language! There is a Spell check, there is a spelling dictionary, use them!
What do you allow comments like number 6, almost all pedophiles are gay, in different countries the rates vary. And you let them calmly express their illness, at least here to be clean and the sick not to be presented as normal and vice versa ....
I asked for advice not on literacy lessons. I have lived abroad since I was a child and I did not study in my native language. By number 6, the girl I'm talking about also likes the same sex :). Thanks to Number 1 for the only meaningful comment. The author
The girl wrote here because she wants advice, not editors-in-chief and proofreaders. You just have to go through that. There is no exact recipe that is valid for everyone. Do not run away from your emotions - see them as they are, but do not obey them. Just experience them, let them go and move on. You are disappointed and in pain, but nothing fatal has happened.
By 8 prove it with statistics and sources, your homophobic comment should not have been published. Due to the ridiculous moderation, I will no longer enter this hater site.