In our country a lot of people live with their parents / parents-in-law mostly, are there any here? How do you proceed if you are on a separate floor, do they go up when they decide? We live like this for now, but I wonder if we should move on our own, do you think it is normal to confuse what should be cleaned, what should be kept? At the moment I don't pay attention to these things, but maybe I'll get bored, and after they provide the floors, isn't it more normal not to confuse them after they have decided so?
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* The house is theirs, it is normal to interfere until they get used to the presence of others. * It's not nice for someone to confuse you, have more life experience, and try to learn the ahemia of piniz. : D * Option with moving independently is appropriate. - Mary
It is right to move out and build your home according to your own rules. It's normal to follow their rules while you're in their home, and the "what, how, where" intervention is a subtle hint that it's high time you moved out on your own.
I don't think they want to hint at being taken away, maybe it's just that you're not home. Otherwise, they offered, but how can people say that in a dormitory. "
Well, once you live for "what people will say" we can hardly be helpful with advice. I agree that it may not be a hint - after all, they offered the floors, but you also agreed ... how long will you last for someone to listen and mutter about you? Isn't it better to have your own home with your own rules. A place to feel at home. Let people say whatever their state is. They don't live your life, and the best part is that they can't decide how to live it if you don't let them.