Hello! Last week I happened to see an acquaintance of my friend's (we've been together for 6 years) pressuring him - as soon as he entered he threw himself very fat, started kissing and hugging him. At first she didn't notice that I was there (we know each other, she knows who I am and that I go with the man in question), but then she saw me and she seemed quite uncomfortable. He tried to blur the situation in a very stupid way, leaving to make me happy, I tried to turn it into a joke, but in the end it became extremely awkward. My friend pushed her away, of course, but I didn't find it insistent and clear enough. Later I pulled him aside and asked him what these things were, had it happened before? It turned out that 2-3 times in the company of other people, she was quite persistent, "revolved" around him, hugged him, etc. He explicitly told her that he doesn't like her and doesn't want them to have anything to do intimately. He has been in front of many people and if I want, I can ask them, but I have full confidence in him on this issue. I was a little angry that he didn't tell me, but he doesn't pay any attention to such things and immediately forgets, which is where my first problem comes from: It's not sharp enough. Obviously, some people are too primal and do not understand a normal refusal. There was a case before this - 100 times it was explained to the girl not to touch him, but she knew her own and continued to persist. However, he maintains friendly relations with them - they talk to each other, see each other in company, walk together if they are in the same direction, etc. This is extremely incomprehensible to me. How do you want to cut off someone's aspirations by being so friendly? The truth is that my friend is very non-confrontational and kind. She's very worried about offending someone and not looking like an asshole.
He allows everyone to get on his head - family, colleagues, friends too. I suspect that this motivates the suitors not to give up. In his place, I would humiliate and verbally crush them in front of as many people as possible and end all contacts so that whatever happens. When someone is insolent to me, I react this way because I think it's right. That if you're so embarrassed to be teased ... what if he likes it? I have to admit that the women in question are quite nice, which totally confuses me - why would a nice and intelligent girl be offered such a mess when she has already been denied? Isn't it terribly humiliating? My second problem: it hits me with confidence. I know I can't expect others to protect me, and that's my job, but I feel as if they don't see me as an obstacle, as if they are more than me and I shouldn't go into the accounts at all. I don't know if that's the case or they would have behaved the same way even if I were an unearthly beauty and an exceptional person. I feel humiliated, and I know I shouldn't. I explained to him how I felt and how I thought he should play these situations. By no means do I want to convey that I recommend for the mother to be inactive. He said he understood my position, but it was very difficult for him to be "so rude" to people. He would try. I would be interested to share stories and how you and your spouses have coped with such phenomena. Greetings! I don't know if that's the case or they would have behaved the same way even if I were an unearthly beauty and an exceptional person. I feel humiliated, and I know I shouldn't. I explained to him how I felt and how I thought he should play these situations. By no means do I want to convey that I recommend for the mother to be inactive. He said he understood my position, but it was very difficult for him to be "so rude" to people. He would try. I would be interested to share stories and how you and your spouses have coped with such phenomena. Greetings! I don't know if that's the case or they would have behaved the same way even if I were an unearthly beauty and an exceptional person. I feel humiliated, and I know I shouldn't. I explained to him how I felt and how I thought he should play these situations. By no means do I want to convey that I recommend for the mother to be inactive. He said he understood my position, but it was very difficult for him to be "so rude" to people. He would try. I would be interested to share stories and how you and your spouses have coped with such phenomena. Greetings! that I consider them good enough to annoy me. He said he understood my position, but it was very difficult for him to be "so rude" to people. He would try. I would be interested to share stories and how you and your spouses have coped with such phenomena. Greetings! that I consider them good enough to annoy me. He said he understood my position, but it was very difficult for him to be "so rude" to people. He would try. I would be interested to share stories and how you and your spouses have coped with such phenomena. Greetings!
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Glad he pushed her away, or he could have left her greasy. And I don't like it if someone puts it like that, a friend or an acquaintance, or whatever. Good friend, alas. Well, we weren't going to fight or anything, but my gaze was indicative enough. He stopped. Your man must learn not to allow such liberties, to say I have a girlfriend and that's it. A smart woman will realize that there is no place there, and will turn to free men. The cheeky, simple women will keep going until things get rough. I will also be interested in reading stories.
I don't react at all because it doesn't happen. Not because it's ugly, but because it doesn't get there, I also don't allow men to cross borders and personal space.
They may be lovers and you caught them by accident!
It depends ... If some meaningless and ugly woman there tries, I know he won't pay as much attention to her, no matter how much she pushes. If it's a chick, I'll stay and watch the development of flirting, if the girl responds somehow - I'll make him day / evening in my own way. If he doesn't show interest - I know, it will seem strange to me if the chick is cool and doesn't pay attention to her. I am not a woman who attacks women, fights or verbal self-mutilation, and his behavior depends on him, and it is important to me, not the behavior of any third parties.
If it happened to me, I would look at her brutally, if she continued, I would directly tell her to stop drooling. If that doesn't work, I'll take her out and kick her.
I am in almost the same situation. I work outside the city where I live, but ... "friends and girlfriends" a lot. A man from our circle of friends stays in my wife's office for one or two hours every day. In reality, he has nothing to do there. His wife works abroad and comes in a month. His children are outside the family. Increasingly, my wife mentions it in our conversations, to which I paid no attention. But after I was "lit up" for his "stay", I learned a lesson. I sent him a "good friend" to advise him delicately ... I'll find out if he learned a lesson from his actions. If not, I will advise him! Every woman is thirsty for the attention she lacks, because in this hectic life, the husband has to earn money to support a family. It starts from there, attention, sharing, patience, hearing, social issues, coffee, breakfast in the office ... the husband does not pay attention and hop ... it happened, how did it happen I did not understand the wife has a lover. The husband wears, the lover satisfies the physical urge to live communism !!! ... and divorce !!! Olele-le !!! Fuck a lot ..., husbands a little !!! Family life has a price to be paid by both of them ... not only by the husband !!! This is my case! It does not claim to be mass and no cardinal conclusions can be drawn from it !!!
It doesn't happen to me. He does not give other women a chance and hope. It breaks everything in its infancy. And it clearly shows that I am the only one for him. Once, however, in a restaurant, a man gave me a rose, just like that, and he got mad. But I tore them apart because he was obviously drunk and apologized.
For me personally, it doesn't matter that someone has decided to take it down. His reaction is more important to me than the girl's.
For some time I have been of the opinion that I am the man for me, my soulmate. So I'm very flattered when I'm taken down.
Your behavior is strange: - you insist to be rude to people who like him - you insist to change his character for your pleasure after 6 years. In general, you want, you want, you want, and others offer him, offer, offer. You have no right to claim, half means husband, not sex partner - everyone can replace you at any time.
I think you're both at both extremes. Why humiliate and crush them? But on the other hand, his refusals are clearly not categorical and clear as they continue. If this happens regularly and with different women, I would think about it. But not for them, but for him and HIS behavior. I'm not saying he's "guilty," but I'm not ruling this out. Why don't you play such a family relationship with another man in front of him? Try and watch the development of the match. Then draw your own conclusions. ;) Ж31
There are two cases: 1. I don't like you 2. I'm committed, I'm sorry. In case two, what is said means nothing. Even some people would take it as a challenge. Because if she wins it, she'll even prove that one species is better than you. He can even take it off because of the sport with you, not that he really likes it. I always let my partner cut men alone. If she told him she DIDN'T LIKE HIM, and he kept insisting, then I would beat him up. When a person is in love, disliking others becomes automatic and natural. Your friend does not need to be rude, he just needs to use the right words, otherwise he undermines the trust you have.
I personally get aroused when someone takes down my husband. I introduce myself as the three of us have sex, and she satisfies me orally. F34
It is right to trust the person next to you, especially if he has gained it with the time when you do not trust, it is exactly your situation, namely unfounded doubts. From the outside, you seem to have a problem with excessive jealousy. If you have not had previous problems with trust, it is time to forget the situation and control your jealousy, otherwise you can very easily send it right into the hands of the woman in question. Everyone is different - some find it easier to let people in, others do not, some behave politely and others do not. Your friend is polite to this woman. This only brings me to the question: do you often make him feel like a man and besides, do you think that he feels wanted by you enough? !! Because this is exactly the situation of "I want / like to receive attention" on his part.