I had a problem communicating and succeeding with the opposite sex as a child. I was never walking and it was very hard for me that they didn't like me. I envied a close friend, who was doing very well, it made me very complex. Maybe this motivated me to rise from the small town from which I am to a position with a salary of 5,000, I worked and studied very hard, most people worked until 5 pm, I worked until 9 pm, fortunately I did not go unnoticed. However, the problem with women was not solved. A few months ago I registered on dating sites, went out with a girl in expensive clothes, a beautiful car and high self-esteem helped me and we started having sex. However, I had no feelings, I simulated them. My idea was to finally realize my dream of being a playboy, to spin a few women. I even started going out on dates with others. But... it bothered me, I started to sleep badly, I felt that I could not betray a girl who gives her best and use her for sex, with the clear awareness that I would never want to have a serious relationship with her. I called my playboy friend ... I realized that this is the price he pays - he is never himself, he constantly lies to them, spins them, then they chase him, cry, and he plays theater and breaks up with them. I asked him ... well ... don't you feel guilty, and he said he felt he was just playing roles, that he wasn't happy, that a lot of people hated him. I saw ... that I shouldn't envy him. Because he invests all his energy and pays a very high price for what I am not willing to pay. I saw that the thing they took away from me as a child, to be walking and being liked by women and being a playboy - is not for me, I can't pay the price. And now I'm super happier, I was honest with the girl, we broke up, now I'm still in shock, but I already know that half my life has been spent chasing something stupid.
Fortunately, I'm 30, I'm young, successful and I'm thinking of finding a beautiful girl to commit to and have a family one day. That way I will be myself, I will not hurt other people and I will be happy. I am writing this, for all those who think that they are missing something or envy, to see like me ... when we envy someone, we must realize whether we are ready to pay the price to get our dream. Everyone pays in one way or another. I'm fine, I hope everyone has a chance to see and solve their problems, as I solved my successful and I'm thinking of finding a beautiful girl to commit to and have a family one day. That way I will be myself, I will not hurt other people and I will be happy. I am writing this, for all those who think that they are missing something or envy, to see like me ... when we envy someone, we must realize whether we are ready to pay the price to get our dream. Everyone pays in one way or another. I'm fine, I hope everyone has a chance to see and solve their problems, as I solved my successful and I'm thinking of finding a beautiful girl to commit to and have a family one day. That way I will be myself, I will not hurt other people and I will be happy. I am writing this, for all those who think that they are missing something or envy, to see like me ... when we envy someone, we must realize whether we are ready to pay the price to get our dream. Everyone pays in one way or another. I'm fine, I hope everyone has a chance to see and solve their problems, as I solved my Everyone pays in one way or another. I'm fine, I hope everyone has a chance to see and solve their problems, as I solved my Everyone pays in one way or another. I'm fine, I hope everyone has a chance to see and solve their problems, as I solved my
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Good luck, Author, but in my opinion the problem was not in the wrong friend and in your goals, but you have a problem that may be rooted in early childhood (on a subconscious basis). If you have money, why not invest in self-knowledge instead of matter - in psychoanalysis. This way you will understand EXACTLY where your problem with women is, that is, more or less with yourself. It will help you one day to be a better father and husband. I also have the financial means, but unfortunately we live a bit of a nomadic life and don't stay in one place for long so I can start psychoanalysis (it may take 2-3 years), but we plan to return to Europe permanently soon. and let's stop and then I'll start psychoanalysis. Well, an expensive pleasure, but worth it.
What is the price here? You have to fuck as many women as possible. The fact that you do not know how, even though you have money, is your problem and responsibility. When you can't do something, learn.
You are still young and you only understood the first lesson. The second is that everything has a price. Being seriously committed also comes at a price. Do not think that you will meet a beauty, you will get married and you will live your whole life as in fairy tales, happy and without paying any price. You will waste energy again, you will still be dissatisfied and you will not always be yourself again. But I prefer not to go into details, because you won't understand me now. The experience is experienced in the first person, no one else can experience it or tell you and you are ready to use it, because it is also connected with awareness. In fact, there is nothing free in life and everything has a price. Everything, not just being a playboy.
I'm an author like you, but what can I do as women like me as a playboy and not as a normal person. In the end, I don't like spinning them, but being sicker makes me sicker. In the end, I found that most women do not want good men next to them (or at least those under 30), I just offer what you are looking for. And it's not like going out with some "muffins", the girls are "normal", some without makeup even, but the female "thinking" is obviously the same.
Author: Up to 1-You're right, I need psychoanalysis, but unfortunately due to a lot of work I don't have time for a therapist, but I read psychological books and I realized that I almost spent my whole life looking for something that I was denied when I was teenager. You are absolutely right that my problem is from my childhood. to 4-Of course, everyone is to blame, if they spin it, you do what brings you success. I know full well that women don't like good men around them. The one who gives as a gift is not interesting. But the fact that you are a playboy gives you a very wide choice and you will surely find someone who will like you as a person.
I also want to be a playboy and spin cool babes, but I don't have money.
For me, the cycle rotates as follows. 1. Broken soul, low self-esteem, I decide to take revenge on the female sex and fuck the whole (well - half) world 2. Four - five in the fast procedure, I am the playboy, all women are at my feet 3. Not later from the fifth I manage to fall head over heels in love, she is the only one, I only think about her, etc. 4. The moment she feels that I have sunk, the numbers begin. Anyway, I still think that they have exhausted the whole nomenclature on me, but it always turns out that it could have been more. Eventually things end, I get depressed for 6-12 months and the cycle starts from point 1.
Dude, not everything that flies is eaten. You left with a clear attitude to sleep with the girl from the site. Did you notice how fast you got to bed? "What a sweetheart. Marko's dressed. With money. That shiny car!" The moment you tell her I want something serious, she will switch to sucker mode. Until she turned her legs and asked you to serve her. Will you become a monkey's meat for two fingers ?! 90% are like that. I hated them brother! And after 30 to look for a companion in life, I have to see it to believe. This is my opinion.
And I want to have sex with different beautiful women, but I have no money. That's why I don't succeed with women.
Ha-ha, another average "smart guy" who thinks that by taking 5 grand a salary and being someone ... I'm sorry, you're nobody. Did you know that there are people in this world who are several hundred times richer than Mark Zuckerberg, Bill Gates and Elon Musk combined? Did you know that even people with billions of dollars can be destroyed in 1-2 days if targeted? You don't know ... As long as you have some pennies / thousands for you, pennies for others /, you will sleep with various highly paid "ladies". They avoid being called prostitutes, but they are. Awareness will come when someone drains your bank account. A friend sank a reptile, cracked 15 vouchers on it in 2 weeks and then she dumped it. This friend was a policeman and was about to explode with the official Makarov. So don't think you're going to do something famous. You have a chance, I'm not saying
You didn't understand how you solved the problem, you didn't solve it, there is no woman!
Author, you aim too low, looking for fucking with women pecking at money. Happiness is rooted in health, in the mutual love and respect between man and woman, proven over time, and in the creation and upbringing of a child / children. This is the real wealth in life and the lucky ones are the ones who realize it in time and really achieve it. Fucking and money are just the most important part of communication.