Hello ..., I am a girl and I would like to share a problem. It got all the way here and I decided to share. More precisely, there are two problems: {I like a boy we know quite well. We rarely see each other because of school (he is 2 shifts and I am 1), but in the summer we saw each other almost every day. We are very close and one day I called him on the phone to ask him if he wanted to see me, because all my friends were busy, but we never met. I had only told a friend of mine who didn't even know him and I didn't believe she was. And since then he has ignored me and when I write to him on Skype he does not answer, but I am sure that he received it and saw it. Also, everyone at school ignores me. They insult me, irritate me and invent things that are not even true for me! But mostly there are three girls in the class who hate me the most. Honestly, I'm a beautiful and normal girl with a huge talent for singing and I'm a real friend. But this with ignoring and insult spilling the cup! I'm tired of feeling insignificant and ignored every day, I just want to cry while writing. But sometimes I tell myself not to pay attention and when I became more famous than them, I trample them like they trample me now. Even when I think of that boy, I cry even more. Please give me advice on how to fix things.
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Better a poor horse than no horse at all. What do you care about paying public opinion tax? Take it and grow up, don't think that in 2-3 years these ducks and puberty will be around you and will have some significance for the future in your life, watch your school, have fun and don't sleep at all :) M35
Hello, author! First I want to congratulate you that you are still in good health, haha. Joke aside, this is something serious. Don't admire the boy so much. This is just a small teenage "dunk". I don't believe you really like him. Do you know why? Because I experienced it. Only when you meet true love and a boy who is worth it do you understand what it is. Second, find someone more normal than the class, even if you need a boy as a friend. Someone to move with while you're there. There are always these 3 girls or as many as are there who are abusive, don't pay attention to them. They will achieve nothing in their lives. Good luck!
Look, I had the same problem with the girls and I always regretted being silent. That was a big mistake. You should not give yourself to them in any way !! As for the boy, it is not only in this world that you will find another who will appreciate you. I wish it to you very much, and you shouldn't care about other people at all. Don't make the mistake I made !!!
It's possible that the three of you who say you don't like you have been offended by something or have spread nasty rumors about you, all of which will change their minds about you and behave differently. Talk to them, talk to the boy you like and try to make things right. And these girls behave like that, maybe because they envy you for something.
For starters, stop thinking about boys and be a little more careful in Bulgarian class. You are still young. As for the insults he talks to his parents, they are still in this world to protect and support you.
the situation has happened to a lot of people, but I would do it; I'll just talk to them. I will just ask them what they are so against and what is hindering their "life". this cannot be tolerated. personally I would collapse, but you are a talented girl and don't let that happen, be brave and show them that they can't crush you !!!!
Don't worry, you'll be fine :) Like you in high school, I had a boy and I had the feeling that I would never forget him, until two years ago at a wedding we met and he started to bother me. It was so funny. After ten years, you will wonder how you can sit and cry for such people and situations that will seem funny to you in the future. Apparently a man has to go through all the oddities of his age and life to harden him a little bit and prepare him for bigger things.
Really, author, don't pay attention to them, this is pure envy, and your friend has started behaving like them because he doesn't want to be different, he listens to them what they think of you and he is afraid of pure intelligence. Run away from such people, don't even bother to write to him on Skype and let him run to you one day, if not, life is waiting for you and you don't have time to waste it. You will finish school, life will distract them, some abroad, some in another city, then you will remember each other with the good things. When you grow up one day you will remember that you once worried about such insignificant things that it was a waste of time, but each age has its drawbacks and they have to go in order. If you really have talent on your face, don't hide it. In our country, and in many others, if you do not show yourself, no one will invite you and direct you to develop. As for them, they envy you, ignore you and avoid you, you know, they have already shown you that you are an idea better than them. Don't fall on their level, head up, watch your lessons, there will be time for the chat, and whoever wants will find you. Good luck and don't change for the sake of others.